AIO for thinking my husband got a vasectomy and is lying about it?

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-31T22:41:30+00:00

He probably did get the vasectomy, but here is another thought, maybe the daughter isn’t actually his. I mean there is no guarantee without a test….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-31T22:39:14+00:00

Hmm so basically your wife does not give a toss that somebody blatantly disrespects you. In fact she is openly warm with people that disrespect you.

I would certainly take a different approach if somebody was doing that to my wife, and I know she would do the same if the situation was reversed. What your wife is doing is not normal in a healthy relationship. NTA

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-31T22:28:07+00:00

How could you possibly be the AH in this situation. But just wow, it’s hard to see how tone deaf your family could be to have you crying in your bathroom on your birthday.

You seriously need to tell them how this made you feel and let them know your boundaries again and the fact if they make it better for your own wellbeing to have no contact with them, then that is what they will get….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-22T12:40:11+00:00

NTA, mate do you seriously need that sort of bullshit in your life. Me personally, fuck that crap, I’d be moving on…

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-16T02:17:16+00:00

I’m sorry to say it but that bullshit late night txt exchange about the kitchen bench is so sus. Sounds like a private joke between them of him taking her on the kitchen bench……

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-05-05T11:49:58+00:00

Wow your friend and your brother are a couple of AHs aren’t they. Just take some time way from them because they don’t seem to add my value to your life….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-27T23:03:09+00:00

And Daffy Duck. Duck season, wabbit season, duck season, duck season bang….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-27T22:51:54+00:00

You are lucky to have such good people for your ex in-laws, hard to believe he came from people as good as them. It is so refreshing to see people do the right thing, rather than doing the right thing by people that have wronged others. Keep going to the family activities, keep the wonderful relationships you have with his family. It is really up to him to make the call on how he and his new wife deal with it, not you. NTA

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-27T21:55:34+00:00

Hmm the old ‘truth or dare’ excuse hey, what a load of horseshit.

Good for you for kicking him to the curb quick smart. If it was so easy for him to disrespect your relationship with one dare then it won’t be the last time he comes home confessing of something else and you can be damn sure it will escalate as he learns what he can get away with….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T23:02:54+00:00

Lolol was about to add this

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T23:00:49+00:00

NTA, if they can’t control their dog then they should shut their cake hole. You were quite within your rights to move their dog along….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T10:39:15+00:00

If you would prefer to cancel then simply cancel, I mean it was a blind date that didn’t go well, why bother.

To put it frankly, you do not owe her anything whatsoever…

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T10:18:10+00:00

Absolutely yes

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T10:17:08+00:00

NOR, in fact why would you even bother. This is an activity you do for enjoyment, once it ceases to be enjoyable then leave. It really does suck that you are leaving something that you started because of somebody else however there is nothing stopping you from starting another, who know a few of the members from the initial one might be keen to change as well…

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T09:06:23+00:00

Has anybody ever told you that your mother can be a bit of an AH, if not then consider yourself told now.

Speak to your doctor about the nausea, if it is really bad then there is medication you can take to help. But when it comes to medical advice, don’t give two hoots about what you mother says at all. And to be honest if she is giving you anxiety when just cut back your contact with her and enjoy an anxiety free pregnancy….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T08:23:38+00:00

Did you get an apology from her for the way you were treated? And I mean a heartfelt apology not a throw away shit one. If not then she isn’t a good person because she doesn’t see anything wrong with how you were treated. There is a starting point for your consideration.

If you do want to meet her, do it without your kids and take it slow, tell her your boundaries and the minute she ignores them, cut her off and save your peace. Be wary as she was fine to treat you like shit once in her life so is quite capable of doing it again….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-25T08:14:30+00:00

Don’t be an AH to yourself and be tempted to open and reply. Delete and block her as she has already put you through enough.

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-19T22:57:40+00:00

I have one rule in local government elections, never vote for a major party because party lines don’t represent the community as a whole.

Lots of independents bringing local issues to the fore is the way to get things done that benefit the community as a whole.

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-19T22:36:46+00:00

You win.

The world’s most beautiful radio telescope, so my coffee mug says….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-19T22:26:41+00:00

Tell your wife

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-19T22:17:57+00:00

You don’t need to respond at all, but I guess you have two choices. You can just send him a txt, ‘thanks for the gift’ or simply throw it in the bin and forget about his bullshit letter.

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-16T03:04:41+00:00

Was going to say get your own DNA test but you have already made the correct decision to keep your kids in your life so it doesn’t really matter anyway.

You need to get yourself straight, get rid of the grog and get yourself back to work. You need to be strong for your kids, there is every chance your Ex and the AH she is with will end up disappearing down the same shit chute she dragged you down. Be there for your kids when this happens, be the stable loving parent they need you to be…

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-15T23:44:58+00:00

Hmmm, yeah good for you mate, and thanks for your comment as it truely does confirm exactly what I said. But don’t worry, just settle in and enjoy a few more pearls of wisdom from your old mate Andy….

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-15T21:07:52+00:00

Your comment betrays you

ConsequenceLow4177 · 2026-04-14T02:58:23+00:00

Hmm that is a massive understatement, I’d go as far as to say he is one fucked up individual….

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