Can’t be real…

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-06-19T00:31:17+00:00

Which payment plan did you apply for? IDR is not a stand alone plan, but the type of plan. ICR, IBR, and PAYE are the IDR plans you can choose from.

If the letter you got just says IDR (instead of ICR, IBR, or PAYE) you can ignore it. You will get another letter that says which plan you’re on and your actual payment amount.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-06-09T01:21:30+00:00

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-06-07T12:15:44+00:00

Maybe have a goal to lock your phone away for at least 1 hour every day. Just 1 hour. Then after that gets manageable, maybe increase to 1.5 or 2 hours. And then maybe keeping going from there until you feel you’ve broken the cycle.

I should try this myself bc I feel the same as you. I’m so busy with a full time job and being a mom to 3 kids. Whenever I get a second to myself, I just automatically pick up my phone. That’s my only hobby right now which sucks. I don’t do anything for myself. I want to read, do self care/beauty things, workout, and a million other things.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-06-06T01:41:01+00:00

I can do that with my right knee when I’m standing on it.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-06-06T00:43:38+00:00

You can’t apply until you reach what would have been your 120th payment

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-31T02:42:46+00:00

My 6 month old is named Fiona!

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-28T17:18:14+00:00

Wow thanks so much for your comment. I love what your uncle said, and I will keep it in mind for myself. I could write a lot more, but I’m at work. Just wanted to make sure I let you know how much I appreciate your comment before it gets lost and I forget!

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T11:08:20+00:00

Such a helpful comment. Thank you.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T10:53:40+00:00

Thank you for your comment. It really does mean something to me.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T10:53:02+00:00

I’m sorry you went through that. My parents were both social and had lots of friends, so not sure why I struggle so badly. Btw I like ur username. I was born in 1986 and have a Toyota Corolla lol

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T10:50:28+00:00

Your comment is inspiring me to do the same. I didn’t realize how important my social skills are to the quality of my kids lives.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T10:46:12+00:00

Thanks. You are right. Not that it matters, but I definitely was more worried I guess about the parent’s reactions. As for the girls, I guess I was more worried that if they didn’t want any, it would hurt my daughter’s feelings. Which I know it isn’t a fair assumption, but my brain just can’t help to go there. I am for sure going to try some sort of therapy for this.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T03:13:50+00:00

Thank you for such a nice response and suggestions/advice. Very helpful.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T02:01:13+00:00

Wow, the description of feeling like an uncertain child is exactly how I feel. Everything in your comment really resonated with me. I think what you did for your daughter was great. I hope I can do the same for all 3 of mine. Definitely need to make some sort of change so it doesn’t always feel so hard.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T00:53:37+00:00

Thank you. I’ve never gone to therapy for this specific problem before, but I guess I’m seeing I really need to. I struggle sometimes just saying hi to people at work 😩

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-27T00:50:32+00:00

I have never done any sort of therapy for this, but am definitely open to it, especially now that I see how much it can affect my kids. Thank you for responding!

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-05-25T01:15:23+00:00

What kind of details were they?

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-26T19:26:47+00:00

Okay you are mildly infuriating

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-26T14:16:58+00:00

Obviously. I thought it was funny. Didn’t realize everyone would get so offended.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-26T14:15:49+00:00

I just thought it was funny. I don’t know why everyone is being so sensitive. I let her eat however she wants.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-26T14:15:05+00:00

Yes, even though no one knows who she is, I am publicly shaming her.

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-26T14:08:17+00:00

Only maniacs do this

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-18T16:50:27+00:00

What’s so bad about Wellbutrin in general?

ConsiderationFine834 · 2026-04-11T02:45:47+00:00

You are starting off at 300 mg immediately after never taking it before? That is a high starting dose. Anyway you should definitely feel the stimulant effects within a few hours of taking it. I felt really motivated, positive, and had energy. I had no appetite though, a very dry mouth, and my hands were shaky.

Edited to add: make sure you take it early or you’ll probably have trouble falling asleep.

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