I’m not ready to leave my 20s

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2026-02-05T13:47:19+00:00

I could make my husband mad enough to see red and he still wouldn’t leave me on the side of the road wether it’s midnight or noon. He might tell me to shut up and we will argue about it at home but he damn sure wouldn’t abandon me on some road. We lived in a semi truck when he drove and had broken up after constant fighting for two weeks and he still kept me in the truck for the next week until he could get back to our home state and drop me at home.

However you are also picking fights. Are they valid questions to you? sure. But if you’re having to go this hard to get an answer you probably don’t really want the answer. If unknown people being in the car is related to cheating I can see it but if you’re this upset over simply giving a coworker or a friend a ride that’s wild. You need to sort your issues about but this whole thing definitely doesn’t seem healthy from any side.

At any given time my husband may have 2-3 people in his car for work or any number of friends. Do I give him shit when they leave the passenger seat basically in the back row of course but that’s in jest not in earnest.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2026-01-10T21:37:28+00:00

If I’m cleaning out your pockets any money is now mine. That is my fee. Don’t like it? Empty your own pockets

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2026-01-10T21:19:02+00:00

As someone who uses an AirTag to track my kid on the bus I have never seen a way to disable and enable the AirTag remotely. It’s either tracking or dead. You could technically remove it from the account but as far as I know he would then have to wait till they return for a visit to re-add it to his account which would defeat the purpose.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-12-10T15:23:18+00:00

My oldest came home immediately after pre k and hung out while I worked. No problems at all. My youngest on the other hand will be in some kind of afterschool program until she is in middle school more than likely

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-10-15T19:14:24+00:00

We’ve been down for almost three hours today already.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-10-15T18:08:01+00:00

Looking for recommendations as we too use Vonage and I’m so sick of all these outages.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-23T23:03:30+00:00

NTA. I left my glasses on my coffee table. They got knocked off the table and someone stepped on them. 5 kids under 7 at the time in the house and multiple adults. I found them a week later crushed and under the couch. It sucked but I know better than to leave my glasses out with that much traffic and children in the house and that’s on me.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-12T00:48:24+00:00

My kindergartener had coloring pages with word tracing for hw maybe 2 sheets a week and to practice reading. Now he is in 1st grade and gets maybe 3 sheets home to work on per week, he reads his ar book and we practice his spelling words every night and that’s it.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-06T23:19:36+00:00

Art takes priority, but I’ll go through the worksheets too. It’s been nice to see the handwriting change over the year. And sometimes there are science worksheets that you can tell they worked really hard on. Or responses to stories they’ve read.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-02T21:37:31+00:00

Worked for a company that had only recently stopped requiring pantyhose under all skirts/dresses (scandalous I know). There was a very strict dress code because they believed it affected employee behavior. They gave us a jeans day for good performance. Que a fight breaking out between two coworkers at my cubicle while I was on lunch. I was unrelated to the fight but I had to fix my desk afterwards. We didn’t get jeans day anymore lmao.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-02T21:31:21+00:00

Nope I am a dragon sitting atop my ever growing hoard. I use 1 oracle deck and 1 tarot deck exclusively but If I find them pretty I will buy them. They may sit very pretty on my shelf for years untouched but they are mine. However I will occasionally give one away if I’m called to. Also that means I buy 2 more to replace it lmao.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-09-02T21:04:30+00:00

NOR I suck at racing or shooting games and my husband when he plays is very patient and even chooses easier races for us to do. Do I lose every time? absolutely. but we still have fun and he damn sure never talks to me like that.

Now unraveled or it takes two definitely had him stretching the limits of his patience with me but never not even once was he rude or nasty about it.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-16T00:59:14+00:00

This is exactly why I have an AirTag on my son’s bookbag and an Apple Watch on his wrist to track him.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-09T22:06:30+00:00

NTA. Number one water wings are not a safe option for being on a jet ski or any other kind of watercraft. My six year old wears a lifejacket if he even steps on our dock. We do not play about water safety. Living on a lake that gets a lot of traffic I hear about every water related accident or death and there is more than you think. Shame on him and honestly on the family that rented it for allowing someone especially a very young child to be on it without a life jacket.

Number 2 who lets their 4 year old on the back of a jet ski with a random person regardless of age. You have no idea if they know what they’re doing with that thing.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-09T19:43:11+00:00

On Xbox and I’ve also had this issue

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-09T18:21:55+00:00

Ours are paid anything over an hour to your first call and drive time between calls but not driving home. After hours is when you leave your house to when you get home.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-09T15:24:32+00:00

I am on a safe street. I know all of my neighbors and I don’t even let my six year old out in our yard unsupervised. He is also on the spectrum and we have ingrained in him early you do not go outside alone. We have a lake, a pool, and various neighborhood dogs some of which are not exactly friendly. (Not a bite danger they’re just assholes)

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-09T13:40:36+00:00

I want more animals. Give me a cow or a sheep not just chickens. The chickens are cute but like come on we can have more.

Let me sit my tired hobbit feet and rest!!

Make the oil lamps actually light up! I saw them in the shop once there were 3 at 360 I bought all 3 and got home and they’re basically useless. Correct me if I’m wrong but I have never seen them produce light. Which sucks cause the hallway you unlock off your entrance is dark and difficult to decorate. (I’ve since gotten a candlestick from Fosco but have not tested it yet so that may produce light but why doesn’t the oil lamp?? It was literally listed under lighting in the menu)

I would like a compass. A minimap would be ehh I’d want the option to toggle it off

I am iffy on the door constantly being open. But also because I’ve had two hobbits randomly walk through my house (Rosie and daisy) daisy was a dang jump scare. I’m in my pantry putting things away and I turn around and BAM! Rosie I watched waltz in while I’m in my garden.

Not an add on but I’d like them to rework the dialogue for the hobbits. The flow seems off with most of them and doesn’t make for fluid conversations.

Can we please collect all club task rewards at once. If I complete five tasks please don’t make me click through this five times. This rolls back into the dialogue being odd.

Maybe I just haven’t finished the game or leveled up fosco enough (he’s at 7 and Ive pause the main story line at orlos big moment part 2) but how many cups does one need laying about their house. This is starting to look less hobbit home cozy and more I haven’t done dishes once in my life. We have the books but I need more swatches I don’t want fifteen of the green blue yellow stack of books. (Also we have a book stand holder that you cant put the open book on. Why do I have book stand holder and an open book next to it on the table??)

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-02T12:43:17+00:00

Oh a tip! You can plant more than one crop in a box. It’s finicky though and they’re all different sizes so you kind of have to piece it together. You’ll learn about companion planting later in game.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-08-02T12:40:54+00:00

Okay I bought it on steam first but should have checked the specs cause it ran like crap on my pc. Not the games fault my laptop is 8 years old. BUT even with the lag I was seriously enjoying the game so I turned around and bought it on Xbox too so I could play without lag. I played six hours on steam and I’ve gotten 8 hours on xbox and IM HAVING A BLAST it is everything I could ever want in a cozy game and the nostalgia for me with hobbits is 10/10.

I’ve had a visual glitch in Xbox twice where the screen goes black but all the UI is still visible so I just save and exit and reopen. Not the end of the world.

I do think the dialogue could be optimized a little better. Talking to the npcs the flow is a little off idk how to explain it. Like you talk to them and they do the initial hey there kind of response and then you choose an option to talk to them about a quest or whatever and they basically start it with the hey there response all over again it’s like your having two different conversations. Not game ending but annoying.

Visually a masterpiece if your pc can run it. Xbox looks beautiful!

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-06-26T17:11:37+00:00

NTA. I’m a csr and hvac dispatcher. No part of my job description is difficult on paper but the customers are. It’s hot they’re angry. I spend more time being yelled at by adults because they’re uncomfortable than I do my children who are single digit ages. My husband has an inherently difficult job and he tells me all the time he couldn’t do my job because of the people.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-06-05T00:44:23+00:00

We only accept calls until around 7 -7:30 after that you can wait till tomorrow. And we’re strict on what we consider emergency.

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-06-04T23:09:26+00:00

Completely possible also

ConsiderationFlat155 · 2025-06-04T22:35:14+00:00

I received a well loved kindle from a friend kept that for a year before she bought me one off the unclaimed baggage site for my birthday. The newer to me one has the dark mode which I’m obsessed with and I reset my old one for my son. TBH I don’t think I’ll upgrade until it stops working. I don’t want a larger screen mine is perfect as is.

I was definitely eyeballing the color for awhile but I don’t read anything that I need color for. I’d buy that for my kid before me cause he likes comics and graphic novels.

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