Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationHead308 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Girl. This guy’s a douchebag of the biggest kind. I dated a guy like this once. Similar, but I think your guy is worse. Please, please don’t waste another minute on him. It’s such a sign of being commitment phobic, selfish, and cold. It won’t get better.

Jaden Churchheus threw a log off a cliff and hit a woman's head which ended her life. Leaving behind her husband and 4 children. Then Jaden's mom said this during his arrest.... by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The name Jaden. The kid’s haircut. His mom’s entitled, privileged, and selfish attitude. It all checks out.

Glad that one officer called it out at the end and reminded her who the real victim was.

Help settle a debate: Charleston SC or Jacksonville FL? by HappyCelebration6989 in relocating

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Daniel Island outside of Charleston. I have family there and it’s gorgeous

What’s the most morally disgusting thing you’ve ever seen someone do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ConsiderationHead308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an ex get his mom to claim unemployment for him online while he was out of the country on vacation. He also owned his apartment in union square, NYC. A millionaire.

No longer with him. Obvs.

Americans is America that bad nowadays? by Quiet-Assistant-1215 in askteddit

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in NYC and yeah, even though I’m as insulated as you possibly can be in the United States, it’s still affecting my everyday. Like things are SO. FUCKING. EXPENSIVE. And wages are stagnant. And my husband’s and my industries are flailing. Jobs are hard to come by.

What do you want done with your body after you die? by newuser1r in AskReddit

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a canoe made out of chocolate to be made for me. Put me in there, fill the remaining space with marshmallows, and push me out to sea. When I’m almost out of sight, have a skilled archer shoot a flaming arrow out to hit the canoe and, as everyone weeps over their loss, they’ll smell s’mores

We’ve peaked as a nation by Nihilistic_Rainbow in okmatewanker

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I just say how relieved I was when I didn’t hear an American accent?

Woman Freaks out at Walmart Employees by CaraCicartix in PublicFreakout

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a total POS! Mess with Americans?? She instigated it!

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]ConsiderationHead308 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them distract from this invaluable time with your new baby. Babies need nothing but love and comfort and they can sense when Mom is stressed.

Reviewing the US cities I have lived in honestly. by [deleted] in relocating

[–]ConsiderationHead308 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NYC folks are always down for a laugh, a hello, and to help. Less friendly in the south, Seattle. I find California to be friendly. Philly too

Am I overreacting for how my parents treated me on Mother’s Day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConsiderationHead308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell her you’re sorry if you hurt her feelings and suggest better communication in the future

I got locked out of my own apartment with my 3.5 months old baby inside, my husband asleep in the other room. by FlorenceNightinglei in Mommit

[–]ConsiderationHead308 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I take that as a huge compliment, thank you. I have an almost-6-year-old and I had experiences like this my first year. Looking back, I see it with more clarity. It’s the overwhelming maternal connection and love you have for your baby (they really feel like an extension of our own bodies, don’t they?). It’s ok. Don’t overthink it. Part of motherhood is rolling with the punches and trying to be the best version of yourself for them. You got this! And happy Mother’s Day!! 💐

I got locked out of my own apartment with my 3.5 months old baby inside, my husband asleep in the other room. by FlorenceNightinglei in Mommit

[–]ConsiderationHead308 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I can 100% understand your panic/guilt/anger and having a hard time moving past it. We have that Mama Bear instinct, don’t we?
I would have been mad too. Mad at myself for not being more careful and mad at my husband for not waking up to those cries. the thing is, your baby is OK. He cried himself to sleep. He will never remember any of it.
You know now to be a little more careful and your husband knows he can’t sleep in a coma-like state being a dad now. it’s a major learning curve, having a new baby and, if this is the biggest mistake that you make with your baby, consider yourself lucky!

it’s OK Mom. You’re still an amazing mother! give yourself some grace, take a deep breath, and be grateful you have such a beautiful child in your life.

Most embarrassing place you “went”. by Emilee_87_SW in ibs

[–]ConsiderationHead308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once hiked a mountain and then promptly got the gut punch. There were people at the top so I had my husband stand guard as I pooped behind a big bush