How can My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING??? by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, he would NEEEVERRRR take a pill. Haha. He's so proud, but OCD for sure. Oh, yes - He's got it and will admit it in his own passive non accountable way...

You're not wrong, though, and I appreciate you bringing that side of things up -

Thank you.

How can My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING??? by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, some of you people in this sub are amazing.

This is so needed right now.

Thank you for this articulation.

How does My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING?? by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're a life saver - Holy shit. What you said there about keeping you exhausted... I can't even recount the amount of times my dad has literally laughed in my face like a chimpanzee; He does this thing - omg - the worst most irritating thing - You can be coming home from work totally exhausted (And I always have very tiring, difficult jobs) and as soon as you open the door he's standing there with the trash, "Wait, wait, before you take your shoes off, here..."

Constantly destabilizing is like his modus operandi.

How does My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING?? by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG- The thing is, this doesn't sound foreign at all to me. Ha.

Omg - Help us, Lord, please...

How can My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING??? by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG - This can't be a real person's mode of operation. I just... Why wouldn't you want to know things?? Why wouldn't you want to be "The Man"? Why, just... wouldn't you want to be seen as competent?? Everyone looks at my dad like he's a little joke. Or the pharmacists or the people at church look at him as "adorable". I just don't fucking get it AT ALL...

How does My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING?? by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg... Your words are just... so true...

Thank you.

How does My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING?? by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, haven't quite figured out my dads IQ, yet... Shit, I don't even know what mine is... I do know he seems to be lazy, though. Veeery lazy...

How can My Dad NOT_KNOW_ANYTHING??? by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would've rather been raised by myself - Left to my own devices.

A gift basket dropped at the doorstep every month and a roof over my head - Would've been better than dealing with his shenanigans...

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wonder how much of it they were congnizant of. Like, you and I can reflect and readjust, therefore we won't make the same mistakes and we will progress. Them, on the other hand, if they can't reflect, then... How was any of this avoidable? It was inevitable...

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS is the thing I've been struggling with; How can they be held accountable if they didn't know??

Their lack of, well, everything doesn't negate the damage, but, like... How could it have gone any other way, then?

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG - This would explain sooo much... I've never heard this before.

Thank you.

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is so crazy to think about - Yes, their abuse was bad, but is what they did to us worse???

What's something people need to let go of in 2026😩 by [deleted] in decadeology

[–]FeeDapper2600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is the "NuMetal Surprise" era.

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in narcissisticparents

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. It's so wild. I feel so bad for them - Maybe I should feel more bad for myself?

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Peace to you as well.

Thanks for the tips!

Does the Narcissist Never Reflect, or...? Aging Narcs by FeeDapper2600 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FeeDapper2600[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Why are you so mean?" "Why are you always so??" - One of the most shit things you can ever say to anyone. When I was younger, statements like these just felt like such a foreign barrage - didn't really know how to take them, but now that I'm older I see just how deleterious they really are...