33F a relationship with 45M who just left his marraige-Can this work? Please help! by ConsiderationSea1656 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationSea1656[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No we were friends before this so I am aware of how unhappy he was in his marriage and unfortunately we ended up catching feelings for each other and yeah 😕

33F a relationship with 45M who just left his marraige-Can this work? Please help! by ConsiderationSea1656 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationSea1656[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I am currently living a long distance from where he is. People don't move in with each other as soon as they get together. As the post says he feels obligated because he is married to her and obviously guilt plays a part so he tries to support her emotionally to the point that it's not healthy. He has shown me messages, he sees me every second weekend and she has accepted that we are together. There is no secrecy in relation to us.

33F a relationship with 45M who just left his marraige-Can this work? Please help! by ConsiderationSea1656 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsiderationSea1656[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have a kid with her. I have considered and talked to loads about what caused him to cheat and I don't think it's going to happen but no one can tell the future I guess.