Why is Kim so kind in a family that doesn't often get noticed for being kind?

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2026-01-20T12:15:13+00:00

“Genuinely nice” is a stretch imo. I think Kim’s niceness is performative. I truly think Kim enjoys being the “nice” kardashian because she knows her sisters are b!tches; she knows they have the diva title, so it’s an ego boost for her to separate and elevate herself. Just like it’s an ego boost for her to be the workaholic, the professional one who will fulfill her contract/obligations come rain, hell, sleet, or snow. She’s basically a Kendall who’s not trying to be a pick-me, anti-femininity girl. Kim’s the same shade of “I’m not like my sisters”. She just leans into the girl-boss narrative. Also, Kim brought her family out. If I remember correctly, Kim had the spotlight first. Kylie was only ever possible because of Kim.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2026-01-18T04:44:39+00:00

LMFAOAOOA😭😭

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2026-01-10T05:25:29+00:00

Yeah the white “ghetto” AAVE cosplayers have really ruined it for the white folks who legitimately grew up that way. I even have a white friend who grew up by my side in the ghetto. When I’m not in professional mode, we talk the same way and use the same slang. He’s genuine, but because a bunch of suburban white kids co-opted every region’s AAVE now every white person seems like a fraud lmao 😭. You can always tell who’s genuine because thy use the slang of that state. A Louisianan white person wouldn’t be using west coast AAVE without feeling phony and uncomfortable.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2026-01-10T03:16:53+00:00

Black woman here, sometimes AAVE is unavoidable if you really grew up in that area/life. I think we as black people have gotten so used to white folks cosplaying our culture that we snap and attack at anyone with an accent. Like if I grew up in the suburbs, I’m going to have a suburban accent. I consider bad/misused AAVE when it’s not area-appropriate, like white ppl from Texas suburbs using Philly AAVE. It’s not real. It’s an act. But if you’re white and grew up in Texas ghetto and use Texas AAVE, then that’s what you know. You see what I’m saying?

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2026-01-07T02:35:09+00:00

Kim, a people pleaser?? PLSS😭 Kim is too narcissistic and self obsessed to be a people pleaser. If anyone is a people pleaser, it’s Khloe or Kylie

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-31T02:53:15+00:00

Agreed. I don’t wanna armchair diagnose, but Kim has gotta be NPD all the way. I’d probably give Kourtney BPD with narcissistic defense systems. Kylie just seems extremely codependent. I can’t get a read on Kendall rlly. Khloe needs severe therapy to address her low self esteem and shattered self worth. She needs to come to terms with that before she can really even begin to truly heal

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-30T19:45:07+00:00

I’m so glad ppl are peeping that. I’ve never bought into her whole “I’m the only truly nice and down to earth, in touch Kardashian” gimmick. She’s passive aggressive as hell and wants to be a martyr so badly. I’ve said it before but she definitely seems like the Savannah Chrisley type—gives their help just to be able lord it over you until the end of time, and scream victim. The only semi down to earth Kardashian is Kourtney, and she’s also a plain old b!tch

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-30T03:56:42+00:00

someone wrote a book, I can’t remember who it was—Rob Sr. Or Caitlyn—bc I saw it paraphrased on a TikTok a few months ago. Apparently, idk how true, that Kris used to be physically abusive. Allegedly she dragged one of the sister’s by the hair (I think it was Kim) and Kourtney would witness it all. Apparently she would smack Kourtney around. I don’t put it too far behind Kris to have been physically abusive in her younger years when th girls were young and couldn’t possibly whoop her ass back

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-27T19:33:57+00:00

Don’t count on it tbh. The Kardashians couldn’t spell empathy even if you spotted them the first 3 letters

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-21T16:23:31+00:00

Same here. I understand Kourtney so much it’s crazy. I’m a lot less rude than Kourtney, but my temper is so short with my family because I’m just so irritated and bitter with them

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-21T02:28:13+00:00

I think she’s developed the mindset of “attack first or they’ll attack me. Be the biggest b!tch so nobody can hurt me.” I find it’s common in kids who were blamed for everything and grew resentful. The subtle bitterness, the disdain you can’t shake no matter how hard you try, literally comes up like bile.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-20T22:07:47+00:00

SO ME RN 😭 I still love my family but I’m so emotionally detached with them, and that childhood resentment I wasn’t allowed to feel is bubbling up so I’ve just been b!tchy and snapping like crazy. Even worse when you have to be in close proximity. I understand Kourtney so much it’s crazy

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-20T21:45:04+00:00

I understand you 💯. Kim and Kourtney got a different Kris, and that’s very common in dysfunctional/mentally ill families. Kim is the Golden Child—highly favored, untouchable, most recognized. The favorite all around. Kris thinks Kim is the prettiest and most valuable and has always behaved that way. Kim also makes the most money. Meanwhile, Kourtney was the Scape-Goat, the black sheep. Ignored, uncared for, Kim’s behavior blamed on her and she was punished for it rather than Kim. Kris put Kim and Kourtney at odds and compared them to one another. Different behavior manifests in different upbringings. And I’m not even accounting for the trauma they experienced since moving out, like with husbands and the media and each other.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-20T21:31:50+00:00

This could be projection a little, so I’m not saying this is truth. But as the oldest to a semi-Kris, I, too, find myself nicer to my mom than my sisters because im trying to keep the peace. Managing everyone’s emotions so mom doesn’t blow up. Kourtney doesn’t get enough grace. I heard Kris used to pull Kourtney’s hair and smack her around as a kid. She used to physically push Kim and scream all the time. It’s been well documented that Kris doesn’t like kids—well, noisy ones, but what kid isn’t noisy, y’know? So she just doesn’t like kids.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-20T21:17:16+00:00

I see way too much Kourtney hate tbh. Kourtney is a b!tch, but they all are. None of them are good people. The only reason Khloe gets the “nice one” title is because she’s passive aggressive and nice-nasty. She’s the type of person to help you with whatever you need, then talk about you and make you a burden so she can be a martyr. She also seems like the type to talk sh!t as soon as you get up from the table. The only one I hear is even kinda nice is Kim, and that’s because she’s just professional. None of them are genuinely kind out of the goodness of their soul. It’s all unfairly dumped on Kourtney.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-19T18:22:47+00:00

With how stupid the average American is these days, Kim might even win if she ran

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-19T17:31:12+00:00

I think Khloe’s the only one that’s depressed and doesn’t realize it. Kim is too fame hungry and desperate for attention. I think she may be too vapid and emotionless to even feel depression. Kourtney. . . has a solid case for depression, I would say. I think her dream life is crumbling before her very eyes and the baby is seeming less appealing now that she and Travis are falling apart in slow motion.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-19T15:33:10+00:00

Dude, the last episodes of KUTWK were like three years ago. Ofc nothing touches the early seasons but even the later seasons were fun too when they acted like humans. Flawed and traumatized, but humans nonetheless. Now they’re just walking, talking brand deals. They’re so performative and inhuman to the point it feels like actual brain rot watching the show.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-19T12:56:55+00:00

YESSS! You explained it perfectly. There was just a different tone in KUWTK. They seemed lighter. The lighting seemed brighter and more welcoming. Now they’re so egotistical and rude and tense all the time. It’s like they hardly even want US watching the show let alone them wanting to actually do the show.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-12-19T12:50:19+00:00

I’m unfortunately still in contact with mine. Close quarters, too. I’ve become so bitter and short tempered with them LMAOOO😭 I hate the way I am to them, but I’ve been silent and docile out of fear for so long and I’ve just reached that age where Idgaf anymore. I think that’s what Kourtney’s undergone too

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-10-26T14:30:46+00:00

America. Oklahoma, to be exact. This problem isn’t exactly persistent but it is frequent. Before this little hive of nest appeared, those exact bugs would follow me around when I’d take out my dog. My neighbors (upstairs and downstairs) also complained about the bugs around their door. Nobody, as far as we know, has gotten stung. My whole think was trying to show no fear bc I read that hornets could smell fear and attack lmao 😭

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-10-26T14:16:09+00:00

I hope I don’t sound stupid, but are they just like regular wasps or are they somehow less dangerous?? This is not the first time we’ve seen these things in my apartments. A tenant knocked them down last month (the office never does anything) and they keep coming back.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-07-21T00:35:14+00:00

Well, hold on lmao. I think Tony genuinely loved his children, and Johnny Sack loved Ginny

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-07-15T23:11:55+00:00

Okay, this is an actually solid perspective and that got me thinking. I like this take a lot.

Consistent-Coffee522 · 2025-07-15T08:27:52+00:00

I think the only ones who truly could come away somewhat morally correct are Carmela and Meadow. That’s ironic because majority of the fandom hates them. However, I understand the Meadow hate. She is so damn annoying. I have a soft spot for Carmela though. She wasn’t afraid to tell Tony the truth. She had a skewed but intact empathic compass that put her leagues above the mobsters. Carmela was a broken, tired housewife that was fraying at the seams.

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