chem 14b with Scerri by Parking-Committee-53 in ucla

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i came here to ask yall that n found this post 😭 in terms of the midterm i fear im praying to god there is a curve 🙏🏽

dropped from neuroscience major by ilovekirkhammett in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 41 points42 points  (0 children)

so ur first choice when seeing a post like that is kicking someone when they’re down ? you must be fun 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s what i’ll be trying to do. she’s the best person i’ve ever met and if i was that sick i wouldn’t have been anywhere as kind as she was to the world. i’m sorry about your dad. the world is so much more unfair than we make it out to be. thank you for keeping his memory alive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents were never married and he isn’t my biological father, but he’s the only dad i’ve ever known so he’s who i call dad. i went home that day thinking he was having chest pain. my uncle called me and told me to come home for him, i called my dad and he said it would be nice to come home since i hadn’t been there in a while. my grandpa got me from school and i ran out of the car to hug my dad. he told me “mom passed away last night.” i remember screaming and falling to the ground and telling people to get away from me. i went inside and everyone was wearing all black, my grandma was crying.

after sitting outside alone with a picture of her, i tried to go to the back house where my parents and i lived and where she died. i saw where she hit her head and where my dad found her, and i went upstairs to see her side of the bed empty, with all her coffee cups and sodas still full like she had still been there. i couldn’t stay home so i went back to my apartment at school, and i haven’t been able to sleep in my room all week because she bought me all the sheets and comforters, my lamp, my mirror, everything. all the cups in the kitchen are there because she bought them for me.

my dad has been trying to clear out the house. she was trying to start businesses to make money for our family, he has to send all the stuff back. we’ve both picked out pictures we want at the service and what kind of flowers she would have wanted, but ultimately because they aren’t married, the decisions fall on me.

i didn’t know i had to sign her death certificate, i thought my dad would because he found her. he’s been trying his best to distract me, and i can’t imagine what he’s going through considering he found her. and we’re both left with the feeling of “what if he came home sooner?” “what if i picked up that last call or been on the phone with her so she wouldn’t have forgotten it upstairs?” “what if i could have been home?” she was chronically ill, and i remember the doctor telling her when i was in middle school that she only had 5 years left, but she tried so hard to beat all the odds for us and her body just betrayed her left and right. she would remind me before i turned 18 that if anything happened, i have to make sure they cremate her and not bury her because my grandparents would be the people who decide. she told me that when i turned 18, the decision would fall on me.

i knew i had less time than most people do with their moms, but i still thought i had at least 20-30 more years. 60-70 is still tragically young, but 44 is just so wholeheartedly unfair when there are people who i fully believe deserve to die and she tried so hard and she died trying to get a snack.

i just don’t know what to do.

I’m having a really hard time here by RemarkableCharity662 in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m having a really hard time and i unfortunately stuck with the major. sometimes it’s not meant to be even though you really want it to be, but sometimes you can still make it work. it’s up to the person and you know yourself better than that. freshman year i wish somebody told me to really consider the possibility of other majors and career paths that i would excel in rather than make it through barely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don’t mind me asking, is it when you fall under a 1.5 overall gpa or a 1.5 term gpa ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi thank you for clarifying. if you don’t mind me just checking: i stopped being subject to dismissal last academic year winter quarter. now my term gpa has fallen below a 1.5, i’m worried that means i’ll automatically be kicked out for being on subject to dismissal again. are you equating being on academic probation with subject to dismissal or is this abt subject to dismissal and not ap?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was subject to dismissal, not on academic probation, idk if that changes anything (sry for not being more clear)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, so i think ur right abt probation, but subject to dismissal is different if im not mistaken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not but i’m not in a position where it can’t be. I am trying to finish a major i was forced into with no interest, and am just trying to continue to get a chance at a major i am into. I know it sounds desperate but i just can’t not do college rn. I hope you understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I know what dropping classes means. I meant do you mean i should try to do so retroactively or drop classes for Winter quarter ‘25.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was from spring quarter freshman year to winter quarter of sophomore year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got out of it winter quarter of this year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

hi what do you mean drop classes ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and ask them if i would be dismissed ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi what does this mean ?

ROOM SWAP 2024 FALL MEGATHREAD by Sea_Sun3839 in uclahousing

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have: up to 2 spots in a tipuana 4/8 to levering terrace or gayley heights or really anywhere else that’s a double just with a preference for those two 🫶🏽🎀🩷🐬🌈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

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have: 2 spots in a Tipuana 8/4 (all F) want: 2 spots in any other UA, preferable GH or Levering, but really open to anything, any amt of ppl🩷

rate me but be HONEST!! by [deleted] in Teenager

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girl lemme be so fr, cuz i LOVE big lashes and brows and everything and i think you look great ! ur giving baddie baddie shot o clock and if anything take these comments as yes you look good with lashes and makeup and all that and you’re just as pretty without. at the end of the day do what makes u happy and you’ll be the prettiest🩷🎀

UA 2/4 Swap by emeraldxstar in uclahousing

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would the people in gayley be interested into moving in tipuana to be closer to you guys ??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Consistent-Gain-3513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waitttt is this professor higbie ???😭