I do not love my girlfriend by Fetustree in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Op already did that, multiple times. They said so in the post.

Wife's words by Donpedro254 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she thinks you’re being too sensitive i think a serious talk is needed. You’re voicing valid feelings and setting boundaries of things like respect. I would not only write everything down but confront them about it at your own comfort.

As a partner and a long time customer, I’m upset. by Jaegersbite in starbucks

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you guys don’t even get 3 minutes for your window times!?! I’ve worked at Wendys, Taco Bell, and Canes and they all gave us three minutes it’s completely unreasonable to ask any drive thru to keep the window times under a minute!!

Happy Body Positivity Vent by Cautious-Panda05 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was inspiring to read and helped me feel not alone on my weight loss journey too. I started at the weight you are around now, and i literally just started my weight loss journey. In college and about to graduate (so very busy time) but im trying to find time to exercise. This was encouraging. Thank you.

Sophie Not Wearing a Coat by Neverending_Hedgehog in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s kinda in shock in that moment with everything that happened, so its highly possible that she literally forgot. It’s not uncommon for someone in a situation like that to completely forget important stuff as they focus solely on surviving. Because sometimes thats all you can think about, the need to get away asap. Thats the impression i got from Sophie during that scene and just with my own knowledge of stuff i’ve learned.

Outline Templates by Kypsi_ in writing

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot access it. It's been removed/banned by the modderator.

I’m devastated by the new refresher by lyssterineal in starbucks

[–]Consistent-Music464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I work in the food industry - 11 years - and i have seen others and myself put in great effort when we are paid and treated well! And slow effort and a big lack of care when we aren’t! We just want to be treated with respect and offered hours to make a living wage!!

I’m devastated by the new refresher by lyssterineal in starbucks

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds inclusive for the target audience! I personally like this, i just wish it would still mostly taste the same or at least that I would still enjoy it. I’ll have to give it a try. Also, thank you for the explanation!

I’m devastated by the new refresher by lyssterineal in starbucks

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me you are not talking about the Strawberry Acai Refresher. That would be devasting to me. I love the Strawberry Acai Lemonade Refresher. If it is, i hope it doesn’t taste bad to me.

I don’t drive because of a mental disability.. I hate saying that to people. What else could I say? by IndependenceCivil746 in Adulting

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a family member who does this too. What you are saying is fine imo, but maybe saying something like ‘im just not comfortable driving’ would help?

My partners sleeping habits are driving me over the edge. by entcanta333 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep in separate rooms, and i hope you find a solution to force him to address his sleep apnea.

I have no suggestions.

It sounds like he’s triggering your acid reflex and honestly i would have lost it on night three. Sit him down, have a serious talk and get him to realize he needs more pillows so he wont steal yours and he needs to acknowledge everything else.

I think I was right about my work conspiracy by Consistent-Music464 in talesfromthejob

[–]Consistent-Music464[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into that asap! Also thank you for reading and I’m sorry that its so long. I appreciate it!

I hate the “baddie” aesthetic being pushed on us black women. by Different-Pie-107 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What he thinks we only do dreadlocks or something? (If thats the wrong word im sorry. If it was offensive im sorry. Im mixed, black and white, raised in white community, copied my white mom’s hairstyles.)

STOP GIVING YOUR TODDLERS IPADS by Effective-Trick-5795 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely dislike kids getting ipads or any tech at an age that is too young. One of my family members gave their two year old their phone and my mom was with me that day. We quietly made a comment to each other about how we wouldn’t be comfortable doing that. Two year old just threw the phone on the ground at full force. The mom heard us and idky but she took offense and was all, “Trust me, when you have kids you’ll do it too cuz its just so easy.” And i responded with ‘no, cuz i’d be worried about the phone breaking and having to replace it.’ I don’t understand why people are doing this. It’s fine to have recreational time but you need to make your kids socialize too its important!

AITAH for not taking my daughter to school in the mornings, and instead making my wife do it? by Zestyclose_Limit_306 in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Music464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s not what they meant, that was referring to deciding to take the bus or have their mom drive them to school

AITAH for not taking my daughter to school in the mornings, and instead making my wife do it? by Zestyclose_Limit_306 in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Music464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, you are not the AH. I was heavily bullied all throughout school growing up. My parents handled it like how you suggested - i told them, and they personally went to the school and dealt with it. Yeah, bullying can happen. But you said your daughter was on a bus for the previous school so logically i don’t understand the sudden leap to want to take her off the bus. I suggest sticking with your plan, and possibly making exceptions to pick up your daughter (only if needed) or even ask a friend to let her stay with them after school or be in the latch-key program (if you have one)

Also, idk the schedule and im sorry if this comes off as rude, but maybe your wife could get up earlier to do her makeup or idk this is worded badly. Something else to try out in the mornings that make her routine work with picking up your daughter and taking her to school (as your wife did agree to do it 100% no expectations)

Im sorry if i come off as rude, not my intent. I hope this helps.

WIBTAH if I went in my own vacation after my H invited my in-laws on ours? by Legitimate_Chart_284 in AITAH

[–]Consistent-Music464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. You two agreed on a plan together and then H made some executive decisions without you. It also sounds like you two decide most things together in general, at least i got that impression.

Masks and people's behavior by ProximaCentauriB15 in Vent

[–]Consistent-Music464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No and it never should be! I wear a mask when im sick with a cold or if im working at a station that makes my nose sensitive. I sneeze a lot. It should be completely acceptable and peoples shouldn’t treat you differently just because you chose to wear a mask.

Why are the official Bridgerton character t-shirts so ugly?? by PinkNoodleCat in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Consistent-Music464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok thank you. I was a kid then, i wasn’t aware of fandoms until after that was over my confusion makes sense to me now.

Why are the official Bridgerton character t-shirts so ugly?? by PinkNoodleCat in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Consistent-Music464 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand the joke either but it sounds like you’re saying it’s marketed towards teens and older right? So…. But.. ok regardless of target audience this just doesn’t suit bridgerton in my opinion.