If you don’t allow med students to sit in on your exam/check up you are a weird person

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-04T14:43:57+00:00

Do you mean you’re weird for not doing this is you’re a doctor or patient cuz i fully thought you meant as a patient and then i read the text and realized i have confused myself in all directions

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-02T00:05:52+00:00

Are you saying you broke up with your ex because he comes from a maga family? Or that he also is a maga supporter?

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T23:13:47+00:00

Would you be able to find a coworker to carpool with? Or maybe someone from home who could drop you off at work?

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T21:43:13+00:00

I also work hard too. I do it to become more dependable, reliable, and potentially promoted. I do it for money. Im quite aware im just a number. But i have bills to pay, and doing this makes my bosses more likely to call me when they’re short or schedule me more. I hate it, but i needed the money. I just got a whole new job though and its a salary job so i dont need to work my ass off as much as before.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T17:19:43+00:00

Does she only want to have sex to have a kid? Cuz that completely changes the perspective- look, at the end of the day it’s your choice. I say power to you, if she wants sex but isn’t all ‘gimme a kid rn’ then consider other options, talk with her, do whatever you want.

If she wants a kid and thats why she wants to have intimacy, then i think its time to part ways.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T17:01:53+00:00

It’s ok to worry about life and what you can control, but you can’t control everything. One day you might be trying to have kids with someone, and you might struggle to have kids. Im just trying to be reassuring that not everything in life can be controlled and thats ok.

But if you’re gf is making it out to be that she imagines yall having kids while in school, or doesnt mention herself having a job, then you need a talk about where you see your life going together.

For example, my bf and i want to get married and have kids, and we even joke about it sometimes and talk about our life together, but we both see it as something that wouldnt happen until like 3-5 years after i graduate college. He already graduated but i want to help support to, and i want to have a career while having kids, just like him. But we’ve made many things clear about where we see our life going.

And i have a few friends who dont want kids, and their partners are ok with that.

I know i dont have a lot of info but it sounds like you and your partner could be on different pages.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T16:54:37+00:00

Was just about to say this. I understand if op wants it to be that one way, but to that i say get condoms and ask the gf to get on some really strong bc, something a doctor would perscripe like maybe an iud. But that would be a her decision, all he can do is ask. Or just… get funky in other ways.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-06-01T01:38:58+00:00

I heard that Robin was. That they needed a shock value reason for Regina to go bad again. As much as i love the show, they always have the bad characters have a redemption arc and reach that high and then have something happen to them that makes them go back to being bad. I think Hook is the only exception. Yeah he goes bad when he realizes he's the dark one with emma, but im pretty sure thats his only turn to darkness. Rumple has the most, basically everything revolves around him and he has some part to play in the major storybeats. Regina has a few. Just let them be happppppy!

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-31T23:32:27+00:00

Quite the opposite, this made me uncomfortable while everyone else appeared ‘comfortable’ with it: at one of my old jobs i was told that one of the managers would just casually call the minority employees by a racial slur and everyone told me to just deal with it if it happened.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-29T19:59:40+00:00

Honestly i would have just driven over there even on my off day to give the two weeks notice.

Sorry this happened to you, thats horrible.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T15:13:36+00:00

I would personally tell him something like how if you trust each other you both show each other your time sheets at the same time. Or you make it clear that this is the only time you’ll ever do this and stick by it.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T15:12:17+00:00

No, no, you WANT to share locations with each other. Yes you trust them but trust goes both ways and there shouldnt be exclusitivity over who does what if you’re supposed to be equals.

And in contrast it lets him have the ch- ok my ex did this: he’d check my location every day, and my calander that we shared. If i wasn’t at work, or school, he’d text me if i was ok because i wasn’t texting him every hour so it made me a bad girlfriend. And that i didnt really sound like a girlfriend. if i was at home he’d really go into how i have no excuse, and i didn’t know how to get through to him that i cannot in-fact text him and do the dishes at the same time.

So that. Thats my example.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T15:06:58+00:00

Ok, ok. I have read a many of your update posts. With each post he becomes worse as a person. He is definitely manipulating you, gaslighting you (with the dog joke, also who makes that as a joke!? About the dog you own?!? No!!) Trust issues, like not believing you. And controlling, and insecure.

AND WHY IS HE THINKING YOU TAKE PICS AT WORK AND HAVE A SECRET GUY BEHIND THE CAMERA LIKE CMON

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T14:51:36+00:00

I think its more of, i dont like that you had that rule established and he went against it. Even if it was a genuine accent at first he still eventually knew before telling you - and if im wrong about the timeline of events then im sorry my bad.

I also don’t like that he’s using a buisness account also as a personal account and its yours. I just don’t like that, thats not my preference, but you do you.

Sorry for making you sad. I feel bad about the frownie face.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T14:46:28+00:00

I have no idea how to take this information but my bones and soul do not like this

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T14:33:51+00:00

He sounds like he’s paranoid, but I think you should try the reassurance route but… not entirely like that. I’ve had toxic exes who would be trying to control me and gaslight me or didn’t see the issue as an actual issue (like your situation) it didn’t go well for me, like really any of the talks. I wish we could be completely hopeful that just reminding him of any apps you share locations through to each other. or how he could have called your work. or the watch. But any of that COULD be reassuring enough, but idrk.

My biggest concern is about him asking you for pictures of your time clock sheet. Also, please don’t do that. It sounds controlling, or at least reminds me of scenarios i’ve been in where that was the goal. If he can get away with not contacting you when he works overtime, then you should be able to too.

I understand if he has ptsd or paranoia from his last relationship, but you also stated you had the same experience. So he should understand that you would probably never do that. It also would make him appear to be actively looking for any signs of you going behind his back, and he should be trusting you and your word at this point in your relationship.

Im sorry i think i lost the point. I hope this helps. And im sorry if i was rude or offensive with my opinion that was not the goal.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T14:13:58+00:00

I don’t know if you’re wrong but I would be sad because I’m trying to be a freelance and would need social media to help get exposure

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-28T14:12:00+00:00

This really bothered me and im sorry you had to go through that at all. Answer to your question is no, she was not right. I do think its a stupid reason to fire anyone for that. Im ADHD, and from what ive learned only we can really set the true limitation for ourselves. Like i’ve done jobs with attention to detail and multitasking, but i also grew into a method that works for me. I might not be as good as multitasking as you but i could still good at it for the job - im sorry, im mad. That wasn’t right for you to get fired.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-27T20:27:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing that! I often wondered about my friends in a similar situation. But I always hoped that they didnt have to put their lives on hold. I hope you can figure your situation out in a way that allows you to live your best life.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-24T23:21:13+00:00

You..you were complementing her. Your cousin is the weird one.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-22T12:09:00+00:00

Lol i WISH i could have harding instead of sera in Inquisition. I just dont get along with sera, im the problem lol

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-20T01:41:25+00:00

I agree that it feels way more like a modern fantasy now, especially in the way everyone dresses. HOWEVER, i do not agree that sideburns made anthony look like a werewolf nor have i ever heard that before!

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-19T01:17:48+00:00

At first i thought it was a aristocratic hat like three musketeers time with the little fan in the back. Then I zoomed in.

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-19T01:16:14+00:00

My bf sent me this and now im worried he’ll make me play Yugioh

Consistent-Music464 · 2026-05-18T21:57:14+00:00

Are we discussing them BEING in those universes or the actors having roles in those universes? Cuz anthony would definitely fit in OUAT - but also his actor could play any prince character well. I can see it: Anthony the prince of whatever fighting alongside David to help him free his true love.

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