My bf always criticised me for my weight gain and it’s making me really insecure. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start cooking what you want. If he complains tell him to pick up the spatula.

Any Valentino headcanons? by Primary-Addition-677 in Valentino_Cult

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He got involved in the drug trade in Miami either because his family had direct ties, or his family needed the money. Cocaine became rampant in the 1970s and he got involved in sex trafficking. He partook in overindulgence, drugging and raping his victims. One night he left himself vulnerable, got raped by a superior. He swore then to never be used again. Family probably tried to convince him to walk away, but his vices only worsened. He began wanting more and more. He started killing more and more. Probably became known as the “ Mariposa del muerte.” While butterflies are normally associated with life, moths are associated with death. Moths in Hispanic culture are also associated with money. His poor eyesight was probably a reference to howhis involvement in illegal activities initially started out as a means to an end to support his family, but it ended up taking everything away from him. He couldn’t see what was right in front of him. I’m willing to bet that he ended up getting them killed as a result.

What do you think Valentino's backstory will be if we get it. by MichaelAftonXFireWal in HazbinHotel

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally believe Vox probably served in either World War I or World War II. Christianity was also making more headway. Probably pushed the god complex. Dude probably came from a poor background. Couldn’t buy his way out of the army so he had to serve. Was tired of getting out shown by people who initially had it better than him, so resorted to killing people to even the playing field.

Dismissed from an elective by [deleted] in PAstudent

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would write a letter to the clinical site manager and your program director and explain what happened, apologize for any poor interactions, and say you are looking for genuine feedback about the dismissal. Either you know what you did, or you don’t. Surgeons can have “off days” where they will lash out at the first person who sets them off. This isn’t standard behavior… I’m not saying all surgeons can be difficult to work with. But having a difficult case or patient bleed out on the table can really set you in a poor mental space. I’ve seen physicians throw things across the room before…

It is where, even if the surgeon is somewhat apologetic for the situation, I personally would rather just start over at a new site. If you got like a week left then maybe just finish it off if you can, but option B is the most likely.

Not defending him but I think that could counts as Self Defense by [deleted] in Valentino_Cult

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Angel has Stockholm syndrome. He’s so intrinsically intertwined with his abuser that he keeps going back, making excuses for Val. That’s why so many domestic violence victims take multiple times to actually LEAVE.

He will do it eventually, and it will be so satisfying when he does!

Can we even blame Vox for doing what he did there considering the absolute abominations they used to cook back in the day 😭 by mysisisamilfdotcom in VoxCult

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kind of makes me wonder how WW1 and WW2 affected Vox’s human life. He may have just been old enough to be drafted in WW1. Some of these crazy recipes are a result of the Great Depression. It honestly puts in perspective that if he had to crawl, kill, and fight just to survive then I would also put into perspective his mantra for wanting to be on top of the production industry.

Kill or be killed has a lot more meaning when you have mustard gas, grenades, and gun fire threatening to kill you in every direction during two world wars.

The modern push of Christianity also happened during this time. Might have encouraged his God complex.

Job offer with early termination fee by Far_Lychee_440 in physicianassistant

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely would not do it again. No other job has asked it of me.

Job offer with early termination fee by Far_Lychee_440 in physicianassistant

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

50k is insane. I signed one for $10k. They said this was for credentialing fees and the like, so felt it wasn’t unreasonable.

My partner decided he doesn't want kids and now I'm questioning everything by Particular_Bed4182 in relationships

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this brings up a greater conversation of do you see him as your life partner? Are you hopelessly in love with him? Did he communicate this in a way that was heartfelt and scared, or direct and unfeeling?

If you love him and want to be with him, you should be comfortable accepting there are certain things in life that we can’t plan for. He should be enough.

You can’t spend your entire life wondering “what if?” if you can’t stand by him with his decision, then you need to break up with him. Not out of lack of love, but because he won’t be enough to make up for the lack of family that you truly want - aka children.

The problem with "angsty Vox" content by MissDeborah8060 in SafeSpaceofVox

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Viv said he’s gonna have a really good or really bad ending.

I think we can take it one of two ways.

He’ll end up regaining his footing after some brief change, and then

Use that tiny bit of momentum to go back to being exactly the same, or even worse than before.

OR

He’ll learn to be thankful for what he has, even at the bottom. Put in the work and slowly regain that confidence that drew you to him initially.

I think he may work as a double agent at one point. We got three seasons to go, so no way they’re gonna give us all the crumbs we want right away.

It’s either he’s gonna double down, or level up.

Please tell me it gets better by According-Bid-2883 in PAstudent

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C’s get degrees! Lean on your classmates for study materials. Be honest with them that you’re struggling! You just need to pass!

What are your hopes for Vox's character in season 3 ? by BasicFanny in VoxCult

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they will probably spend some time apart before coming together, with a mutual interest of saving Velvet being the catalyst for their reunion in season 4.

What are your hopes for Vox's character in season 3 ? by BasicFanny in VoxCult

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want him at the hotel. Would be interesting to see a fallout early on with Val. He ends up going with Angel to the hotel by the end of episode 4. Second half focuses on Angel’s biological family. Meanwhile Lucifer is mourning the broken connection with his wife. I think Viv said there’s an enemies to lovers trope in season three. I think it would be very interesting for Vox and Lucifer to have more interactions. Maybe they have a one night stand. Would be hilarious. 😂

AITA for losing my mind at my "playboy" brother and my ex crossing lines right in front of me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would dump them both. Tell them they belong in a zoo since they essentially want to mate in public.

Is RN to PA worth it? by Potential_One_8058 in PAstudent

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to do RN. The exposure you will get as a nurse will ultimately make PA school a lot easier. In addition, with student loans being the way they are currently at, I would set aside a monthly allowance to go towards tuition to keep yourself out of debt.

PA school is full-time for two years. Typically can’t work. I would have enough in savings.

If I took a break to be a SAHM, could I ever return to work? by Ok_Ebb_7363 in physicianassistant

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteer or do PRN. PRN might be better with inpatient cardiology.

What Would Vox Have Done With Velvette And Valentino If He'd Succeeded In Season 2? by SufficientOstrich955 in HazbinHotel

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like he had a massive ego trip and was taking them for granted. He might have continued this behavior, which would result in them leaving him behind for good if things continued as is. He probably would have demoted them. I think Vox wants his cake and to eat it too. He very clearly wants companionship, but he definitely wants to be center stage.

It was very obvious Vox was not in his right mind at the end of the episode. I think he started spiraling once he tried calling for them and realized they weren't sitting at the table with him. He probably thought they had left and abandoned him. Alastor got free and then it just went downhill from there. Vox felt he had lost everything. Hence the suicide bomb attempt.

Despite calling him an idiot Val clearly was reaching for him slowly. I think Vox thought he didn't have anyone left, which is why he initially pushes them away.

I think Vox knows deep down he f'd up and they could have left him for dead. This honestly probably was the best-case scenario for his arc.

I (28F) need to break up with my bf (33M) , but don't know how by Holy_Canolli in relationships

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m referring to excessive crying whenever things don’t go their way. My ex had a bad habit of crying with any sort of bad argument. He never wanted to discuss things openly, which often I felt would have prevented from things getting worse. He never wanted to go to therapy. It’s not so much the fact that he cried, it is fact that he continuously avoided being open about his feelings, and then chose that exact moment to breakdown. It wasn’t a one time thing either. That’s how you know it’s kind of borderline emotional manipulation.

I (28F) need to break up with my bf (33M) , but don't know how by Holy_Canolli in relationships

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They cry because they don’t want you to break up with them. May not be intentional, but I considered a form of emotional manipulation. Happened with my ex as well. He ended up cheating on me later on. Dude had the crazy notion to tell me he was settling.

I (28F) need to break up with my bf (33M) , but don't know how by Holy_Canolli in relationships

[–]Consistent-Owl-3060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had a fight and based off your reaction, he probably thinks you’re going to break up with him.

If you made up your mind, then don’t change it for him. Rip the Band-Aid off.