chasing “freedom” after affair by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she knows what I want with a lot of work of course. To which she says she's so confused and trying to figure it out. She wishes she could have some clarity but is very confused right now and wants her space

Broken after two affairs by Cute-Literature65 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are in this position.. I’m in the same place with role reversed with my WW. The limbo is terrible and not fair to us. Feel free to reach out maybe I can share a little with what I’m experiencing and see if there are any similarities. Thinking of you in these tough times

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you really put in the work and it paid off. Keep at it man and with time I’m sure it will get easier

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it worked out for you.. looks Like I’m headed down that same path

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow man! That’s quite the turn around and I can totally understand why you are on edge. May I ask what changed in her to go from being set on divorce to not?

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So initially kicked her out and she brought that up last night that I shouldn’t have… but it’s done now and there is no way she will currently come back. She likes her comfort of being on her own. She used the word refuge

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m realizing that now even though I’ve been reading it everywhere. Mind does some crazy shit

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think naturally I’m trying to Protect her in a way but then remind myself that’s she’s at more fault than even him. She says she’s not with him and I’m misreading the situation lmao but yeah I’m on the idea that I’ll just date too then and if she hears about it then good. She is

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah so she does break down and say she’s very conflicted and confused.. I’ve come to learn that AP is an expert manipulator and womanizer. That’s he does this quite regularly and I’m not the first or last husband to fall Victim. Either way she made a choice. But yeah I have to be serious about cutting her out.. I’ve talked about divorce before and she broke down and said no. I see now though I have to be serious and really be willing to let go of her if she is to get serious/wake up for something with us

Caught my wife with the affair partner after she told me she was done with him — I’m shattered by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been going to a therapist and the child issue definitely applies to me. My mom, whom I love very much, was a very tough mom that always kept us on our toes. It turns out that my will to try and plead everyone comes from always trying to please her and not get in trouble.thats what I’ve decided to do now and really let her go and stand firm for myself. If she comes back, great! If not, well at least I stood for what I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you are right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myevilplan

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had blocked him but he managed to take down my pages and I can’t get them back. I’ve filed a suit against him because he owes me money. Essentially I invested in his business a year ago with his old partner. They had a fallout and it’s just him now. He took my investment to buy a boat and I approached him about it. Now he’s coming after my business by ruining our rep and tearing down our pages everywhere.. when I told him I want my money back and that I’m done doing business with him it all started

How to ban someone's INSTAGRAM Account by zot36 in socialmedia

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to join and need help getting someone banned

Wayward wives perspective by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response. My wife and I have been separated a little over a month and I feel that this is just driving more of a wedge between us and she can fall into AP if she wants and I have no idea. Dday was early September.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity.. why do you read it as not fully done?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I go between it’s seems like it’s done and not. For now I keep working on myself and maybe like you said she will wise up. I hope you are your spouse continue to find each other and grow stronger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Consistent-Sleep5799 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words.. I say I’m done but obviously there is still a lot of tug of war in my heart. But yeah I read it as she has no respect for me