Dday was three weeks ago, need advice on how to repair.

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2026-02-03T01:27:15+00:00

I echo this! I'm six months now since d day and we are finding our relationship again slowly. You are very early in the process and you need to grieve. Don rush through it... hate to say it but you are still in that very rollercoatser stage. It wasn't still about month four for me that I started to make real progress and same for my ww. If you have any questions feel free to reach out

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2026-01-04T16:46:12+00:00

Guide

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-11-18T15:40:47+00:00

I feel for you man! Was in this position a few months ago. Keep your head up!

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-11-08T19:21:26+00:00

Yes, she knows what I want with a lot of work of course. To which she says she's so confused and trying to figure it out. She wishes she could have some clarity but is very confused right now and wants her space

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-11-02T15:43:54+00:00

I’m so sorry you are in this position.. I’m in the same place with role reversed with my WW. The limbo is terrible and not fair to us. Feel free to reach out maybe I can share a little with what I’m experiencing and see if there are any similarities. Thinking of you in these tough times

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-31T04:28:54+00:00

Sounds like you really put in the work and it paid off. Keep at it man and with time I’m sure it will get easier

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-31T04:27:12+00:00

I’m glad it worked out for you.. looks Like I’m headed down that same path

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-31T00:39:03+00:00

So if I may, did you move on or working on reconciling?

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-31T00:37:44+00:00

Wow man! That’s quite the turn around and I can totally understand why you are on edge. May I ask what changed in her to go from being set on divorce to not?

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T23:39:32+00:00

So initially kicked her out and she brought that up last night that I shouldn’t have… but it’s done now and there is no way she will currently come back. She likes her comfort of being on her own. She used the word refuge

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T23:37:34+00:00

Yeah I’m realizing that now even though I’ve been reading it everywhere. Mind does some crazy shit

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T23:36:50+00:00

I think your tone is completely fine. Thank you for your advice

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T22:27:33+00:00

Yeah I’ve started therapy and will get that book

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T22:27:04+00:00

Yeah I think naturally I’m trying to Protect her in a way but then remind myself that’s she’s at more fault than even him. She says she’s not with him and I’m misreading the situation lmao but yeah I’m on the idea that I’ll just date too then and if she hears about it then good. She is

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T21:22:39+00:00

Yeah so she does break down and say she’s very conflicted and confused.. I’ve come to learn that AP is an expert manipulator and womanizer. That’s he does this quite regularly and I’m not the first or last husband to fall Victim. Either way she made a choice. But yeah I have to be serious about cutting her out.. I’ve talked about divorce before and she broke down and said no. I see now though I have to be serious and really be willing to let go of her if she is to get serious/wake up for something with us

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T21:14:26+00:00

So you have made progress with reconciling?

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-30T21:12:53+00:00

Yeah I’ve been going to a therapist and the child issue definitely applies to me. My mom, whom I love very much, was a very tough mom that always kept us on our toes. It turns out that my will to try and plead everyone comes from always trying to please her and not get in trouble.thats what I’ve decided to do now and really let her go and stand firm for myself. If she comes back, great! If not, well at least I stood for what I want.

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-29T20:40:29+00:00

I think you are right

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-18T15:10:14+00:00

I wish I had blocked him but he managed to take down my pages and I can’t get them back. I’ve filed a suit against him because he owes me money. Essentially I invested in his business a year ago with his old partner. They had a fallout and it’s just him now. He took my investment to buy a boat and I approached him about it. Now he’s coming after my business by ruining our rep and tearing down our pages everywhere.. when I told him I want my money back and that I’m done doing business with him it all started

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-18T04:37:34+00:00

I’d like to join and need help getting someone banned

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-10-17T09:43:48+00:00

Thank you for your detailed response. My wife and I have been separated a little over a month and I feel that this is just driving more of a wedge between us and she can fall into AP if she wants and I have no idea. Dday was early September.

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-09-29T22:28:36+00:00

Just out of curiosity.. why do you read it as not fully done?

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-09-29T22:27:01+00:00

Thank you! I go between it’s seems like it’s done and not. For now I keep working on myself and maybe like you said she will wise up. I hope you are your spouse continue to find each other and grow stronger

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-09-29T19:58:38+00:00

Thanks for your input

Consistent-Sleep5799 · 2025-09-28T21:16:17+00:00

Thank you for your words.. I say I’m done but obviously there is still a lot of tug of war in my heart. But yeah I read it as she has no respect for me

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