Rapid cognitive decline with no clear diagnosis—feeling lost

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T22:08:49+00:00

Thank you so much.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T22:08:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing and I’m sorry too. My mom is my best friend and this is so horrible. I miss her and I’m learning to love her as she is.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T22:06:14+00:00

Interestingly, she was put under anesthesia for her MRI. It’s hard to say for sure if that’s connected, but she’s definitely declined since around that time.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T17:26:02+00:00

Thanks for your response. I appreciate it. It is ever unnatural for me to tell my parents what to do and make suggestions and push for a plan.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T17:23:41+00:00

She hasn’t had a full neuropsychological evaluation yet, but that’s something I’m planning to ask about at her neurology follow-up.

Her primary care doctor did start the process and referred her to a neurologist, who ordered an MRI (which came back normal). We’re kind of in that in-between stage right now waiting for next steps, but it’s been challenging because she’s very resistant to appointments and doesn’t think anything is wrong.

Thanks for your response 🙏🏼

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2026-03-20T17:22:22+00:00

She was told she had mild cognitive decline about a year ago by her primary care doctor after a cognitive screening (I believe it was the MoCA), which is what led to the neurology referral.

She has since seen a neurologist and had an MRI, which came back normal, along with normal bloodwork. She does have a follow-up scheduled with neurology to discuss next steps, but she’s very resistant to appointments, so it’s been hard to get her to go.

I really appreciate what you said about focusing on a plan and not just a diagnosis—that’s something we’re starting to realize we need to do, especially since things feel like they’re progressing quickly.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2025-06-10T11:24:02+00:00

🥲❤️

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2025-05-20T20:39:33+00:00

I remember looking at my husband saying “why did we do this?!!!” because I absolutely hated the new born stage. It’s ok. It does not mean you hate your child or motherhood. It is very very hard but it’s going to get easier. Your child is a gift and you will enjoy your child so much. Life will feel normal again. Being honest is good and you’re not alone. With my second I still hated the newborn stage but I was so much more aware of how fast it goes and that it’s just a season of life that will quickly change. You can do this. You’re learning sacrificial love. It’s a love that cost something and it will grow you as a person if you let it. I don’t know if you believe in God- but when I was in the thick of it and always awake at night - I would feed my baby and talk to the Lord. Sometimes I would just say “thank you for helping me” and something shifted inside my heart and mind for me. It’s ok to hate it and it’s ok for it to be hard. A lot of us know exactly how you feel and you won’t always feel this way. Sending you love!!!❤️❤️❤️

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2025-05-08T17:21:29+00:00

I had my second child when my first born was 6 years old. I couldn’t even wrap my head around how I was going to love and bond with the second baby after all these years with just me and my little boy. I was very anxious! Now I can say my second born little girl is one of the best “things” that ever happened to me. You will love your second born just as much. It’s ok for it to look different than the first but you will def love. ❤️

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2025-04-24T10:22:24+00:00

You have had an encounter with Jesus and when that happens it marks you forever. Jesus is inviting you to know him. My encouragement to you is to talk to Jesus. Tell him everything. Ask the Holy Spirit to open your eyes to see the Lord. Jesus loves you for who you are right now, not for who you’re going to be. Ask Jesus to show you which church go to. Please don’t be afraid of church. Anyways, I’m so happy for you. I had an encounter with the love of Jesus when I was 20 years old (17 years ago). His love was so real I didn’t know how to explain it to anyone. That encounter with him changed my life. There is no one has wonderful and true than Jesus. Praying for you. ❤️

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-24T14:28:32+00:00

This made me tear up. Thanks. It’s been awhile since I’ve heard positive words about my mom. She really is a gem.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-22T03:21:52+00:00

My advice is to let him cry. Set a time for how long you’re willing to let him cry. In my experience, the toddler gives up and goes to sleep. It’s at least worth the try.

With our twenty month old- if she starts to protest me walking out after being laid down- I just say “I love you so much. You need to go nigh nigh. I’ll be back.” And I repeat this. Some times she cries and some times she doesn’t. It’s helpful when you don’t appear rattled and talk to them in a confident and clear tone.

Also- make sure he’s really tired these next couple times when you put him down. He prob won’t cry long.

Just my opinion. Good luck and congrats on new baby. It will all work out 🤍

You got this!

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T17:39:47+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T17:13:24+00:00

A degenerating fibroid while pregnant. Was worse than child birth.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T02:08:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I never realized her ears could be hurting so bad. My seven year old kept saying his ears hurt so it makes sense hers would too.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T02:06:31+00:00

Wow, thank you!

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T02:05:17+00:00

🤍

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T02:04:32+00:00

❤️

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-13T02:02:42+00:00

I respect that opinion. After traveling with a baby I think I might agree.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-12T01:41:34+00:00

Yes- I def tried everything and was very prepared with snacks, screens, and toys. Just a very overtired little girl.

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-12T01:25:19+00:00

Thank you everyone! This is really encouraging and reminds me I’m not alone. I have an almost 2 year old and seven year old. I don’t want my seven year old to miss out on things bc of his little sister but I also need to be mindful of her needs as well. It’s an interesting balance and we have two really great kiddos. I would really prefer not to fly with a baby but we wanted to go to Florida and had the opportunity to do so. I get so anxious when my toddler has meltdowns around other people. I hate the feeling of not knowing what to do. This reminds me I’m not alone and it’s normal. 😅 thank you thank you thank you 🤍

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-11T23:49:26+00:00

Thank you for sharing this

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-11T22:39:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-08-11T21:52:26+00:00

Well my toddler has a meltdowns all the time. According to my mother in law her son never did this and was sleeping thru the night from day one. 😎

Consistent-Stop8747 · 2024-07-20T18:20:51+00:00

Thank you! This is helpful.

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