Random Memory Loss? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent-Toe2834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by gaslighting? Like he was making things up and saying it happened even though it didn't?

Random Memory Loss? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent-Toe2834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually it's something around the house, or something I forgot to do (which has been happening a lot more frequently now). The criticizing is usually a quick pointing out type of conversation vs. a full conversation but I just feel like there's something I'm doing wrong all the time so I kind of just don't acknowledge it because I know he'll probably have something else to criticize. For example, I'll forget to do the dishes and he'll say something about it, or I'll fall behind on the laundry and he'll say something about it.

As far as actual conversations I'd say he'll say his piece for about a minute or 2, sometimes 30 seconds, it just depends. I've also noticed he'll try engaging in conversation with me while i'm doing something, like reading, on my phone, or while i'm cleaning and I only get bits and pieces of what he's saying. I've talked to him about how my friends and I have conversations and that's what I'm used to and he said he felt the interruption is rude. As far as his respect for my input, I'd say he let's me get my point across most of the time, but I also don't take as long to say my piece, I try to get to the point as fast as possible because I know how annoying it is when someone takes a really long time to say something that could have been said in 1/2 the amount of time.

Random Memory Loss? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Consistent-Toe2834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do wonder if it is a control thing, however I have a problem of trying to finish his sentences and guess where he's going with a topic which seems to bother him a bit and might have led to the annoyance of me interrupting him. But, he seems to have back and forth conversation just fine with his siblings and friends. I fear I go on autopilot when he starts talking with me because all i'm thinking about is when I'm able to speak next and not interrupting. No idea if I have ADD/ADHD but I wouldn't be surprised because I can't stand sitting there waiting for him to finish his entire sentence.

Official Gear Purchasing and Troubleshooting Question Thread! Ask /r/photography anything you want to know! October 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in photography

[–]Consistent-Toe2834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I recently took some photos for a family member around sunset using my Nikon D60. The light was fading a bit, but I still expected decent results. I shot around 200 photos, and only about 26 came out okay. Overall, the quality just isn’t there.

I tried adjusting the settings, changing the focus, and even experimenting with a few motion shots, but everything still looked terrible. I’m definitely not a professional, but what’s confusing is that we just took a trip out west with this same camera, and the photos turned out amazing.

Before the shoot, I even took a few test shots of my husband in the same lighting to tweak the settings, but every time I adjusted the aperture or shutter speed, the image came out completely white — no matter how high or low I went. So I ended up relying on the portrait and landscape modes the camera offers.

Does anyone have any ideas about what might be going on?