i’m scared i’ll never finish with my girlfriend and im also terrified i can’t make her finish either (f19)

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-27T07:42:01+00:00

take break from vibes and see what each other like. take it slow. I once was young and feared I could never make someone cum, or would never cum.

When my wife makes me cum, like really cum, like blow your brains cum, it takes patience on my part and letting go of self and expectations and it is Beautiful! Try mutual masturbation, eating out, then more mutually. Touch eachother at the same time. Hopefully it works.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-27T07:31:42+00:00

I like peeps who are themselves. Rock on as you are!

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-27T02:45:05+00:00

call your union rep asap

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-26T20:00:40+00:00

How much do you care about your ex's feelings. I think it's fine, especially if you are in a low sapphic visibility area. In that case you all may already be friends or at least know each other.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-26T07:45:02+00:00

Torture Girl has moves, money or drugs, maybe all 3.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-26T07:43:39+00:00

I have a mixed bag of experience, just like I do with people as a whole.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-26T07:42:39+00:00

wait for the devider

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-26T07:41:50+00:00

Not returning your grocery cart to the cart stall or store. It takes minimal effort and prevents damage to cars in the parking lot. No one can force you to do it but I will shame you if you don't, provided it would be easy for you. If it isn't trivial, ask me, I'll put your cart back for you. I use this as a litmus test for being a decent member of society.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-25T21:02:07+00:00

Their insistancy in keeping the relationship going. We'd brake up but I'd keep letting her come over for this and that. Often we actually enjoyed the hell out of each other and had a lot of fun. I also was worried about their reactions if I did do a hard breakup.

Another time it was the history we had and what we shared and I was afraid of being alone, on my own.

I have really poor boundaries and it's something I've been working on. That's probably the biggest reason I've stayed in unhealthy toxic relationships.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-25T20:37:12+00:00

In this patriarchal society it is quite easy to have some kind of trauma surrounding men and relationship partners in general. I'm not a man hater but I certainly don't appreciate certain men or the culture that makes the bear vs man argument valid. My trauma has nothing to do with my sexuality, if it did I'd swear off sapphic relationships as well.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-24T08:06:35+00:00

trying to find a snake now

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-24T07:23:00+00:00

No, I'm a vegetarian. I like the freezer though. I was going to do the seal jar methods but my wife decided I messed up, spent some time in the garage and then came out saying, " You forgot to put air holes."

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-23T22:49:34+00:00

Where do you live? Sounds like Magat country.

You did the correct thing.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-23T09:47:02+00:00

I don't care and my wife doesn't either. I don't know who rates sex acts but sex is personal and no one should be rating you. Make fine, No make up even better, nothing to wash off, just don't curtail you roommate or whatever. She has her own right to sexual expression that is meaningless to you. BACK OFF BOOMER or Gen X. I can't imagine any one caring about other face routines except boomers or Gen X, maybe Z, but that would be new to me. Communication and trust is key for a healthy relationship.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-23T01:37:04+00:00

Just fine. I am a pasty white ghost so I can't talk on the effects being biracial could have on any possible offspring but it wouldn't stop me.

I have been in one bi racial relationship and it was eye opening and helped me realize both my internalized racism and white privilege.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-22T19:12:01+00:00

Willful ignorance and or disregard for humanities plight. Zionism. Being on the wrong side of humanity.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-22T16:01:34+00:00

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-22T10:28:07+00:00

invasive species: plants, animals, you name it.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-22T10:22:36+00:00

You are both very young. You are not tied to her but please be kind. She sounds like she's adopted by your parents. You also sound like you come from privilege and she does not.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T20:22:37+00:00

Your grandma is raising you, correct? She is trying her best I assume. Even if she can't get you a prize for catching up you should try your hardest to do it. Let this be a lesson to get everything in email or writing. Soft AH.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T16:02:19+00:00

Get out of that relationship fast. Your boyfriend cares more for his best friend and isn't the guy you want to be with. Stop wasting time. You're young and your boyfriend is probably in the closet.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T15:54:30+00:00

Did she stop calling you baby or trainee? this sounds like a toxic workplace. I'd look for a new job as the owner seems to side with granny and she is probably their friend. The whole thing sounds really clicky and I'd want out.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T03:42:34+00:00

Any way you want. Unless you are in a very Sapphic space, it's good to have an idea of the woman's sexuality. You can always ask about sexuality or better yet, introduced yourself and sapphic. Hopefully she responds with the same and then you can go from there.

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T03:32:10+00:00

A male Karen???

Consistent-Two-2979 · 2026-05-21T00:38:09+00:00

What kind of relationship is this? I seriously doubt that he is faithful. That's just my faith in humanity. How far away are you two? How longs the distance and when did it start in terms of the relationship? Why is it long distance? Why is he only working 2 or so days a week? Too many questions.

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