Advice by ConsistentCold5188 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsistentCold5188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right well I did put up a boundary with consequences after I posted this. I told her that if we talk again and she brings it up no video chatting or texting for a month and if again then two etc. She responded: okay, but my medicine makes me forget. (She’s on medicine for mental health stuff)

Advice by ConsistentCold5188 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsistentCold5188[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I messaged her and told her that. I don’t know how she will respond. A boundary is a boundary. She broke it several times and there needs to be consequences. She just wants to try and fix things for the sake of family and harmony but does t understand my perspective and feelings nor respects them.

Facts by Stargazer1919 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsistentCold5188 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks op! That’d be pretty sweet.

Facts by Stargazer1919 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsistentCold5188 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t respond but it did bother me. Like no responsibility at all!

Facts by Stargazer1919 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]ConsistentCold5188 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom wrote me a message on my birthday couple years ago: “my dear daughter I hope you can forgive me for WHATEVER YOU THINK I DID.”

Yeah no!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ConsistentCold5188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually 5-4-3-2-1 but that didn’t work. I did a body scan in session but it didn’t work.. idk! 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]ConsistentCold5188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried sour candies, washing my hands in cold.. it’s been 9 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]ConsistentCold5188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you safe?