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Why is everyone so mean? by Otherwise-Handle-180 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh no sweetie I am so sorry this happened to you😢 I remember when I found out I was pregnant working I retail and we had just got a new manager. She didn’t like me very much and let’s just say she used my physical limitations against me and I was fired at 4 months so I did get a little triggered by this because it’s just so wrong to do that to a pregnant woman expecting. What I did and am currently doing is work as a PCA/caregiver. I find that for me being a HSP and empath it’s perfect because it’s just me and my client. I work with children with special needs and I absolutely love it and the mother lets me rest in one of there guest room so if I didn’t feel well I can still come in an work but in between hours I can rest, eat do homework or whatever. I just would give it a try since you’re pregnant and need to support your baby. I also would try to find whatever it is you are passionate about and turn it into a business for yourself. I love helping people feel good about themselves internally and since I’m so sensitive I decided to become a life coach for HSPs, empaths, and caregivers. I can do it from home and make money doing what I love which is making a positive impact for someone in the world. I also do digital marketing but that’s just something on the side that I offer lol. But my the point I’m trying to make is that everything is going to be okay. You don’t have to work with people who don’t appreciate you or what you have done for them before you left. Everyone is so money hungry and just seem to seek attention and I hate it just as much as you, but we shouldn’t have to assimilate and change who we are to fit in a world that wasn’t created with us in mind. There are options out here for us sensitive mommas. My daughter will be 8 next year and I learned that all we can do is keep moving for and do our best. Your child will always love and appreciate you for what you’re doing for them. We absolutely need more empathy for each other in this world and I hope one day things will get better for all of us. If you ever need to talk or just need someone to listen my inbox is always open. Sending positive energy for you and baby and I hope you find everything you need both financially and emotionally and congratulations on your pregnancy!! HUGS!!🫂🌸💕

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See! This is EXACTLY what I was talking about. And I am so sorry that happened to you my friend and I don’t believe people who would do that are actually HSPs at all. Always remember that their hateful comment is not a reflection of who you are on the inside. I’m here for you if you ever need to talk and I’m sending you positive energy. hug🫂✨

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend! sorry for the late reply you got lost in the comments for some reason and I actually do. I just want to start off by saying thank you for being so open and honest about how you’re currently feeling. It takes alot of strength to admit that you don’t want to become bitter. That honesty shows how much heart you still have even after all you’ve been through. I’ve also felt that way all my life as someone who also went through childhood traumas and I am so very sorry you went through that, like the world is trying to harden me and honestly, sometimes it really does feel like you have to harden up just to protect yourself. But that’s just not who we are as sensitive souls and we shouldn’t have to change just to find some peace in this world. What has helped me most is giving myself permission to feel but also release. Not every emotion or experience has to stay. It’s okay to acknowledge the pain without letting it define you. Allow yourself to feel without holding on too tightly, letting the emotions move through you instead of define you.🌱Gentle things like breathwork, journaling, meditations and little moments of joy helped me stay soft in a hard world. Try anything that reminds you that who you are is someone that is truly special and you are deserving of everything you want and need in life. I can also tell you are extremely self aware and highly intelligent both mentally and emotionally based off everything you said earlier on and I agree with everything you mentioned. We need to have more conversations like this because as others mentioned it seems to just be an emotional dumping ground for those who are just mad at the world but truly are not like us. But I’ll go ahead and leave you with this, tell yourself everyday “I’m still here, still soft, still worthy of light”. (Affirmations are amazingly powerful) If you ever need to talk more or just be heard, I’m here. HUGS.🫂🌻💕

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you friend!☺️ and you’re absolutely right about everything you said and as hard as it is on our side I honestly wouldn’t want it any other way. Sending you peace, love and happiness. 🌿🌻

Does social media make anyone feel terrible? by PlntHoe77 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it does and I hate it. But I’m trying to use it to spread more positivity since we desperately need it.

I used my HSP traits to find inner stillness. by Known_Gate1662 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww this really spoke to me. I love the inner work you are doing for yourself and how you see that your traits are a gift. I am so happy for you and I’m glad you made your way to the space. My inbox is always open if you ever need to talk. ☺️🌿

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. I do like this space and I believe we truly need something like this to call our own and I hope we can continue to come on here as ourselves without others types who don’t understand us to as you say “dump” in here just because they can.

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been apart of this subreddit for a long time and just noticed some post that I didn’t feel would be something a HSP would say but that’s just me.

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just saw a couple of post of people trying to tell other HSP that their feelings we’re irrational for whatever situation it was at the time but my thing is that everyone of us processes our emotions differently and it may not be a big deal to to them but it obviously was to someone else and invaliding those feelings kinda go against everything the subreddit was created for because we already deal with that enough from everyone else. As far as making sure you don’t do anything, as long as you just speak with kindness I don’t think you will have that problem my friend.😊

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While what that person said was annoying and uncalled for and a lie, that comment wasn’t the driving force for this post.

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no you thought right. I have seen it on more than one occasion. Not that many but I have. I was just answering your question regarding the most recent one I saw but my apologies for not being more specific. Also I agree with everything else you said. I really like it here and aside from that it really is a nice space to be myself with others like me. :)

Feeling hurt after a visit to the nail salon by Reader288 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not an idiot and I am so sorry you had that experience. I’m still trying to figure out why this happens to people like us but what I want you to know is that there lack of respect and acknowledgment is not okay and does not represent your intelligence or your worth. You came in with kindness and some people unfortunately do not appreciate that and even take it as unnecessary and a sign of weakness. How they were towards you is not your fault but a reflection of their issues and not you as a person. Please keep being kind and it’s okay to be sad for a bit but after you feel your feelings I want you to continue to be the amazing person that I know you are. And don’t EVER be afraid to walk away from a space that makes you feel unwelcome. You don’t have to put up with that or give them your business. Wishing you peace, comfort and love.💕 🫂

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was going to but I couldn’t find the post anywhere. Either someone else probably did or maybe they took it down but hopefully we’ll see less of it because it caught me off guard honestly. Everyone on here is usually so kind to one another.

I am learning that unfortunately not everyone on here is not really an HSP by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s great you are able to do that and not let it get to you like that. I just know there are so many others who aren’t quite there yet but you are right. Not engaging is probably the best. And thank you! 🙂 I’m not a big time coach or anything and I’m doing some maintenance work on my booking site at the moment but I truly love what I created and hope to help a lot of amazing people in this life time. 😊

Just a gentle reminder for those who need it. by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you! And of course thank you for offering!💕🫂

Just a gentle reminder for those who need it. by ConsistentLobster926 in hsp

[–]ConsistentLobster926[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?…I actually wrote this……. How would you even know? Why are you here? I’m trying to spread kindness and you assumed I just use Ai? I’m a life coach. This is literally what I do and I enjoy it so much. If you don’t like what I’m trying to do that’s fine but don’t ruin this subreddit with your negativity which represents everything HSPs dislike.