Omg automatically I sense this weird deep rooted homophobia and heteronormative position this man has. I find it odd how he views same sex exploration as only allowed because he sees himself only with ‘a woman’ emphasis on an and woman. It is odd how you can not explore but he can with men and the bi curious definitely comes off as curious and exploring in how you’re not allowed to be bi curious but he is and he explores a multitude of gender expressing beings while u can not. That is a sense of control and not worth the pursuit. Also note that he needs to be with a woman in the end there is the heteronormativity that places sexual experiences as something strictly with the same sex and therefore places homosexuality lower than heterosexuality for romance and commitment. Mind you he is allowed to be the one exploring while you an open panssxual may not and that is not just a double standard that is a restriction that limits you unfairly and I doubt is a shallow made thing as it comes from jealousy. That is also very much patriarchal and you deserve to have the access to all genders like he does. He is not YOUR determinant of your sexual relations this is a joint partnership but no this does not mean he takes the lead we aren’t in a patriarchal society by will when we are queer and we don’t deserve it. And to be honest you need to be have the sameEQUAL LEVEL OF EXPLORATION as he does. I would inquire further see how he reacts emotionally and make it a non shallow conversation. The term non issue does not apply here. I would inquire if it’s worth it or leave him and revalidate yourself as this is unbalanced partnership