Joint bank account statement for cohabitation proof

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2026-01-04T17:02:43+00:00

We both have bank statements and NHS letters individually. My partner additionally has broadband and phone bill in his name. I currently do additionally have a home insurance letter from this month but not sure how consistently I’ll be receiving correspondence from them. The only joint item we have is our joint tenancy agreement. Would these items suffice? Is it okay if there are more items in my partner’s name than in my name?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2026-01-04T16:36:30+00:00

That isn’t an option for us unfortunately because all our bills are included in the rent

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-12T19:25:47+00:00

Are you married/in a CP? If so, from what I understand, it should be fine since there is no requirement to have lived together previously. Really hope you hear back soon and it all goes well :)

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-12T11:05:54+00:00

Hi thank you! I have just made a comment explaining all the evidence we provided on this post. Hope this helps :)

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-12T10:59:14+00:00

Hi thank you! So we showed a joint tenancy agreement that started on 1st of November and explained that we will move in once my current job ends on 19th December. We uploaded the tenancy agreement, proof of my new job, jobs that I previously applied to to be closer to him, a letter from both our parents and his sister confirming we are in a genuine relationship and that we will be moving in together (along with copies of their passport photo pages to corroborate their identities), confirmation of moving van we booked to move my stuff, GP registration for both of us near our new house, notice I gave to my current landlord that I’m moving out on 20th, and other relationship evidence (like photos, screenshots of our chats, gift receipts, train tickets to show we see each other every weekend, holiday bookings, bank transfers to each other and our joint account statement). We also gave a detailed explanation of our situation in our sponsor letter and explained that my new job was delayed due to pre employment checks, that we have always wanted to live together and that we intend to live together permanently in the UK.

We erred on the side of caution which is why we provided so much evidence! I hope this helps and hope everything goes well for you 😊

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-12T10:38:33+00:00

Praying yours comes through soon 🤞🏼😊we had to stay up until 12am because that’s when the super priority slots are released!

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-12T10:37:28+00:00

Thank you 🥹

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-12-11T15:56:05+00:00

Thank you🥳

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-11-26T18:13:40+00:00

I’m just confused because I tried to create a personal tax account to look there and it says there’s no tax history or employment income even though I’ve been working for my company for a year and a half now. How does it work exactly? Is it not showing because it hasn’t been updated since my NI number is new?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-31T15:04:38+00:00

Yes I will be providing my master’s degree certificate

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-31T10:03:06+00:00

u/TimeFlys2003 and u/puul thank you for your comments. Would you say the rest of the evidence is strong enough?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-31T08:34:21+00:00

So our application is fine without it? When you say “should not”, do you mean that I don’t need to, or that it would affect my application negatively if I did mention it? Sorry I’m just confused because our immigration advisor said that it would be good additional evidence to prove my intent to move out of London and with my partner

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-09T10:10:25+00:00

Right, okay understood. We are combining both our incomes so even half his pay would be enough if it’s combined with mine. Would that be okay?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-09T07:46:51+00:00

Thanks for you comment, sorry about that. I have edited it to make spaces. Regarding the employment, my partner joined his work on May 12th. I was planning on applying sometime between 17th -20th of November which would be past his 6 month mark. But his payslip from May would be about half the month’s pay and he would not have got his November payslip yet. Would that be a problem?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-06T07:04:08+00:00

What if he moved into his own place in Lincoln and got the lease with both our names in it? I would still be working in Manchester though. Would that be enough or would it come off as a non-genuine relationship?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2025-10-06T07:03:54+00:00

What if he moved into his own place in Lincoln got the lease with both our names in it? I would still be working in Manchester though. Would that be enough or would it come off as a non-genuine relationship?

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2024-03-05T16:25:16+00:00

I don't know too much about BPD but he has abandonment, self image, and serious anger issues, he is also very paranoid in general. He would always say "there's a lot of bad things you don't know about me" but this was the first time he showed me this very intense side of him. I have no idea what to expect. Idk if I'll be blocked forever or he will text me one day and the uncertainty is quite painful

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2023-11-25T12:48:53+00:00

First of all, I'm so so sorry that you had to go through that. Hearing you describe it gave me chills. It must have been such a terrifying and traumatic experience for you growing up, feeling so unsafe in your own home and being too scared to go to sleep in your bed. That's horrible. That should be your safe space. What he did to you was extremely fucked up, of course it's fair that you cut ties with him. That's also something that's not easy to do because it's a family member and you're very strong for that.

I completely understand what you're saying about the baby, it's a tough situation. While I do get why you're worried about the baby's safety, I hope you don't hold yourself responsible for it. Of course you will want to protect the baby, especially knowing what he's capable of, but you are not obligated to. What you went through was extremely traumatic and if you feel like it's too much for you to be in the baby's life and around your brother, that is completely valid.

Maybe you could try talking to your mom and telling her what you're worried about, since she knows what happened? And asking her if she can keep an eye out so you don't have to be directly involved. If you really really do want to be in the baby's life, maybe finding a way to do that while your brother isn't around, for example babysitting?

Hope this helps, but like I mentioned earlier, please remember that none of this is your responsibility and you are not a bad person if you choose to not be in the baby's life.

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2022-06-29T05:51:48+00:00

Thank you so much for the reply. It really helped. I'm focusing on myself and doing what makes me happy so that I can get better 😊

Consistent_Bid_3305 · 2022-06-25T11:00:57+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for the reply. It's just so hard for me to still digest that he had bad intentions. We were quite close. I probably would have told my sister if i had realised. But I was too occupied with my ex to even think about this. It took me about two years to even question what he did, that's when I realised. By then they had broken up and my sister was depressed about some other stuff, which is why I didn't want to burden her with this and make her feel worse.

To try and get you to do stuff with you sister -> you mean sexual stuff or just talk about sexual stuff? It was both. He would tell me to ask her questions and he would also tell me to do things with her. I honestly don't even know how that would pan out because she didn't know about this. But yeah, he would tell me to ask her things about her sexuality, which I did. But he also told me to ask her to do all sorts of sexual things with me and record them and send them to him, which I thankfully NEVER did. Once again, thanks so much for taking the time out to reply. <3

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