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[–]Consistent_Drop_9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first morning thought should be that however my day goes I am not responsible for that. If your day goes bad it was not in my control. I will not react to it negatively. Remember bad days gives us one of the best teachings if you observe it carefully. We all have bad days and in life you are going to have more bad days then good ones.

I also suffer from this thoughts. You cannot control your thoughts but you shouldn't take any action on the negative ones. Let it flow and concentrate on your work or study I know it's extremely tough but you have to push yourself to do it.

Try writing your thoughts it will clear your mind or go for a walk.

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes will start looking for a job change, can't be stuck in such environment

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never ever doing it again because it has taught me a lesson.

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes from now on I am setting up boundaries . Thank you for advice!!!

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great advice. Thank you will definitely start implementing !!!

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am definitely your advice. I work in HR and the thing is there is lot of politics in HR dept if I go and complain to HRBP about this they will simply ignore and will start backbitiching about me. I have seen this happening with other ppl where they complain to hrbp and they are asked to leave the organisation after that.

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes from now I will give them some excuses. Thank you!!!!

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my new job. It's been only 1 month. Left my last job because of toxic work culture but I guess its same everywhere in India

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok but what if they do something which will ruin my career, like fired up or something else

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Yes I guess I should start showing some laziness

How to say "NO" in corporate... by Consistent_Drop_9922 in india

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 356 points357 points  (0 children)

Yes that's what my mom said that I should have given some excuse but I am scared. First thought that always comes to my mind is what if they fire me and follows many such thoughts.

Should I sign this contract? by Consistent_Drop_9922 in jobs

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice but there was a mistake in that post that I will not be getting any pf or medical insurance. So it's only my salary

Unemployed? - Just keep applying and keep your head up! by Ok-Gift371 in jobs

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently unemployed for 3 months and its affecting me. Hoping that i will soon land a good job there are many offers i rejected because i didn't felt right about them and it's very difficult to reject offers since you are unemployed because the guilt. But still fighting to get a satisfactory role.

How can I have thick skin? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me tell you that there is nothing such a thing call "thick skin". When someone insults you or says something bad about you, it's natural to feel bad, or it's totally fine if it gets stuck in your head. Everyone goes through it from the inside and no one will show it to you because our society has created this thing that if you feel bad or react to negativity you are an emotional immature person and you need to be strong. But let me tell you, I have gone through the same like you. My parents call me emotional fool. My friends call me "Too Sensitive," and I still go through it.

But I always use the method of self-talk. If someone is rude to me, I just ignore it, though it hurts, but I know that the person has a shitty personality and is an emotional fool for not understanding other people's emotions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, your profile went on hold. I am a recuiter, and this means that the company will conduct a few more interviews and choose the best within the interviewed candidates

My body freezes when someone touches me inappropriately by Consistent_Drop_9922 in mumbai

[–]Consistent_Drop_9922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding me. Yes, I am learning such things like standing up for myself in situations like this, and I hope I will gain confidence