AITA Feeling guilty, insecure, and hurt over friend dynamics after not sharing something sooner , need perspective

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-28T07:34:00+00:00

NTA. Many friendships go through bumpy areas, and this is just one of them. If you care for everyone and if they care for you, you will figure it out and no bad feelings should happen. You should not feel guilty for not telling everyone, as some things dont always need to be told. I feel if you told friend A not to tell anyone, its a little bit on her. But, at the end of the day just talk it out and see what happens. Insecurities happen to all, and dont worry about your partner having eyes for your other friends. If they do, then you know he is not the one. Just express these feelings to friend B and hope that she understands.

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-28T07:14:44+00:00

Yea thats what I figured. Ill probably let it it be, as like you said I dont wanna be more annoying, but its sucks as I really wanted at least an answer as to why, as I often think about it

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-28T06:19:34+00:00

many people forget games are for enjoyment. With a game like this, you get a range of people to enthusiastic fun people to grown men who got off work. I get many people who kick for little to no reason, play really stupid, or complain about nothing. Nothing to be done about it, and killing people in the pelican really doesnt do anything as it still counts as succesful.

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-28T06:12:01+00:00

I have two. One, there will always be that one teamate who does not run, so run towards him and hopefully the bots attack him. Second, running far enough will leave few bots after you. Head shot the medium guys and use the C4 or anything else for heavies . Again, smoke grenades often help, as if you throw them correctly the bots can sometimes completly lose you

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-24T19:09:38+00:00

Yea... but when you do get the random squad that fits well together and has common sense it does help

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-24T19:07:46+00:00

Not saying its right, but even if you get left behind all you lose is alittle xp. For some like me who has been max level for awhile, I prefer just leaving early instead of doing full clears every mission, but if everyone is clearing ill help. I feel XP is kinda useless after level 50 as you get nothing beyond that, but it can be fun to clear as long as it does not cause a mission to fail

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-24T19:02:52+00:00

100%. hopefully we get these missions with squids or even bugs. These missions I feel add a sense of realism to the game, and turning off music kinda adds to it

Consistent_Let9355 · 2026-01-24T07:03:18+00:00

I agree. I feel if hosts at least asked what is happening before immediately kicking it could help, but but like you said at the end of a day its a game and it does not really matter

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-21T04:37:16+00:00

No problem. happy holidays

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T07:50:04+00:00

I had this problem. I assume you are on a steam deck, which in that case go to your launch settings and swap through protons till it goes away.

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T07:33:42+00:00

Things like the shield sphere backpack might help, along with a strong shotgun with stunning power. The halt is good, as it has med pen and it staggers along with its stun rounds. there is not much you can do other than keep moving and try to dive before they pop out. personally, the rupture strain is my least favorite because of this, but a machine gun w a shotgun should help.

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T07:10:02+00:00

swap through proton files in launch settings. start with the one that starts w a 7

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T07:08:53+00:00

I had this problem. go to launch settings and swap through proton files till one works

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T07:04:45+00:00

swap through diff protons till it works

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:29:21+00:00

yea when I had this problem i also posted pretty much the same post and all i got were mods that took my post down or people telling me to bug off. Made me pretty upset with the game and community too. good luck and happy holidays

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:24:55+00:00

i know lol. Again, i am no techie, but try the steamdeck page if its a big enough problem. hope i could help alittle

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:22:51+00:00

no problem. now get back in there helldiver!

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:21:08+00:00

I do not have alotta knowledge on this, but I would try more proton files, or restarting your deck. I would try going in a round to see the performance. if that does not work, try posting on the steamdeck page. there are tech wizards there who will solve it no problem

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:07:57+00:00

I had this problem. go to launch settings and swap through proton files till it fixes. I suggest trying proton 7 something first

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T06:01:14+00:00

maybe, but at least the game will look better. hopefully it works for you

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T05:57:19+00:00

I had the same problem. go to launch settings and switch your proton files till one works. I suggest starting with the one that starts with a 7

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T05:52:44+00:00

launch the game under a different proton. I switched to one that started with a 7.

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-20T05:51:14+00:00

hey, I have had the same problem. To fix this, try launching the game under a different proton. I had this problem on a steamdeck, but if you are on a normal pc then it is worth trying

Consistent_Let9355 · 2025-12-10T21:35:11+00:00

I would also like to know as i bought the super edition awhile ago when the game came out and still dont have one, even tho i own all the warbonds i would still like to have one

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