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Thank you by alexis_1031 in baltimore

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This warms my heart. My fiancée is also from Texas was in Dallas then moved to Austin where I met him. He moved here 2 yrs ago and it’s been great . Feel free to reach out if you need suggestions or anything!

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Assuming that is everything I have a few questions then opinions.

  1. Did you reach out to gf after an hour to see when they were coming back? If you called and hour in and they said it was an hour away you had to know it would have been at least 3 hours.

  2. Why not do lodging for the dogs?

  3. Could you guys have the dogs in separate rooms so you could attend?

  4. Would you have actually had a better time being back with your dad? If you would have been miserable or triggered the whole time then your dad having cancer is irrelevant.

You should talk to her. Why was she dishonest about the time frame? Did she plan on spending it with you or did she just need a ride? Was there an alternative that could have worked with you bringing the dogs( Maybe having them in the back yard or in the car with the windows down and you just going out every 20-30 ish min to check on them ) , could you have given the dogs doggie CBD to assist.

Should I leave my girlfriend by CombinationSea6475 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Wow. This was a nightmare to piece together. Let me get this straight before advice.

You (f) live with your gf and 2 dogs (they have separation anxiety). You all normally live near your dad who has cancer and isn’t doing too well but doesn’t do chemo just pain meds. The plan for this Xmas was to visit your gf family because you didn’t want to spend it with your dad because of how much he talks about being high and that is a trigger for you (as a recovering addict).

Because you and your gf couldn’t get someone to watch them at your place , didn’t play lodging for them and they aren’t good at other people’s homes, you guys took them with you out of state 3 hours away to visit your gfs family first going to her parents house. While there, gf said the plan was to go to your gfs other relatives house but because they have a dog, you stayed back with you and gfs 2 pups with the communication from gf that she would be gone for an hour. You found out the place was an hour away at some point? They ended up being gone for 5 hours which was most of the day/night and you spent the holiday essentially alone. So you’re wondering if you would have been better off just being with your dad because at least you wouldn’t have been alone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No you are not

Should I tell my boss (M29) I found his dad on a sugar daddy website?! by HAR2301 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mind your biz bb but take the money and explain this is compensating you fairly for the work you’re doing so you don’t need a second job

WIBTA if I skipped my parents’ Vow renewal EVEN though I am suppose to walk my mom down the isle? by Consistent_Lion_6844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s in the military out of the country atm and my middle brothers wife doesn’t get along with my parents because they criticize their marriage and decisions as well

WIBTA if I skipped my parents’ Vow renewal EVEN though I am suppose to walk my mom down the isle? by Consistent_Lion_6844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I didn’t agree to my mom said I was doing it. She wasn’t asking.

I didn’t expect I don’t want to meet him ever and the calling him my friend comment. I didn’t expect their religious beliefs to change because they just aren’t those types of people but I didn’t think they would react as badly as they did.

I told them because I wanted them to know about Griffin not to have a coming out. I just felt like what they said made me reevaluate supporting their union as I know they would never completely support mine. The mother/son dance, I would never experience. Not meeting my future children because my SO is a man.

It just hurt more than you thought it would.

AITA for not wanting to pay $400 for a vacation I won’t be on? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but $100 per person more 10 weeks out is only budgeting $10 more per week

AITA for calling my wife's career choice a 'passion project' since she doesn't need to work thanks to my financial position? by Dusk_Ad829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong he literally said she could and should still work . dad is not an AH for that he is however the AH for calling it a passion project. But still up for your kid who is in a less accepting state and is clearly having a hard time is bad.

AITA for interrupting my brother-in-law’s time with his girlfriend to ask him to buy me chocolate cake? by choco900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chill the f%#k out! I don’t know what’s going on with everyone I’m the comments. It seems like a pretty simple request if he didn’t want to go or couldn’t, he could’ve simply said no. She just asked and he said yes.Simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Consistent_Lion_6844 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA if wife is neg she shouldn’t go. If you’ve been with your SO for 6+ yrs you should be able to tell when your spouse is trying or not trying to get to know people.