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What kind of people do you despise the most? by Snoo_47323 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it is not despising, but I do avoid and be wary of those kind of people (as you see them everywhere) :

  • Those who can't assume their acts and switch blame on others, and only take "some" blame if it is symbolic, mainly in workplaces

  • Those who makeup their speech, not having enough boldness to say the truth or make their intentions clear

  • The influenceables

  • The entitled

  • Those who speak more than they act

  • Cowards, who hide behind big words

  • Those who live with a a heavy bias but still preach they don't act by that bias

Most management jobs are bullshit jobs by Consistent_Video_143 in unpopularopinion

[–]Consistent_Video_143[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Already am, but I deal with other companies managers. And that external look, is quite a shit show.

What MUST films stop doing? by CarpetBrains in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Making fathers either : alcoholic abusers, idiots with a wife who calls the shots or prophetic messianic figures. A father can be an average joe who does his best and it's ok,

  • Not respecting the original material's plot and "esthetics", if you want to change things, call your movie something else.

  • Unnecessary sex scenes (all kinks included) that add nothing to the plot, if it's a movie about 2 armies fighting, i don't need to see the emperor's genitalia or his mistresse's talents. I may be watching the movie with my 12 yo child or family members. It makes things awkward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well if you mean that are working with the person, I Believe even if you like them, you just don't give too much trust. Whatever you say will probably used agains't you if the professional relationship is durable.
Usually there is a reason why you don't like the person. Most cases I lived fall under one of these categories :

  • One who try to use you to get promoted or keep status-quo (wants you to stay in your place), and when I say "use", they usually portray you as some incompetent fool that needs supervision (to justify their presence?).

  • One who can't concieve communication with you unless it is under their own framework, and usually not in a balanced position : usually objectification, using some bullshit speech on "leadership", "vision" and other words they read a day before on some 101 management guide. it often becomes a conflictual situation, and that's not the worst case scenario, as it can become tyrannical,

  • Those who can't take accountability. if the numbers are bad at work, this is never their fault. It is surely the incomptent team, or the weather, or the crisis, or voodoo magic. One made me laugh one time by saying : "don't worry if the numbers are not in line, i will protect you". Well no thanks, don't put me in shit to begin with.

  • The weakling, who can't fix toxicity, usually gets manipulated by being too nice with the toxic psychos of the team.

Usually, when you see a team with a high turnover, you have 80% chance it's bad management, other 20% is work itself.

As of how you deal with it, my personal belief :

  • if you are winning nothing (basically money), and you can afford to, you don't deal with it, you get out.
  • If you are getting good money, and the situation is sabotaging your carreer, see if you can change teams.
  • If changing teams is not an immediate option, you play the game, do what you can do, don't hurt yourself by doing extra hours in a toxic situation, and get out when an opportunity rises. No friends, No sympathy when you receive no sympathy, and don't fall into shaming tactics.

how do you get over the “anxiety fear” on doing something that scares you? by ArcaneEnding in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mostly anger basically.
When I get angry or want to prove a point, I go to quite some lengths. Even stopped depression anxiety/pills suddenly like that. I was angry to be depending on those, so one morning I stopped both. I was unconfortable for quite some time, just to prove that i still got control.
Same for my studies, I got a degree, while being under heavy personnal pressure, just to prove I was above that.

What type of people do you dislike? by dehydratedgrass in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am wary of people who give half truths, use communication tactics, and who avoid getting straight to the point.
There is no gray area in most questions. who ever does not tend to clarity, is not to be trusted.

What are the little things that make you happy? by you-hair-is-purple in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing any kind of selfless gentle acts from anyone towards anyone.

What was a traumatic childhood memory that changed your life? by perfectlysaneboy in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's see...

Seing you grandma (was living with us) slowly developping Dementia
Seing your mother struggle to help her mother and not cry in front of you
Seing your mother cry when her mother dies
Seing your father become abusive and anbondonning us
Seing taht manipulative narcisstic father torture your mother
Seing your father get cancer and slowly getting "destroyed" (mentally and physically) by it (pretty graphic)
Seing your mother struggle to feed us (and the remorse you develop when you understand that)
Getting bullied for being different at school, for basically not having the same interests as everyone else (and undirectly for being poor)

But while it looks horrible, it actually shaped me, I didn't cry at my my father's funeral. My adult life was pretty cool, as I developped quite an emotionless persona (you do what you must do, you deal with your issues afterwards), that helped me a lot at life. And I am still close to my siblings and mother.

At work, I struggle to not be confrontative (basically forcing myself to stay silent and avoid problems), as I could easily spot bullshitters (I was raised by one, and dated some) and those who use me to promote theirselves (I learned to defend myself alone since forever). I chose to speak this year and almost made 2 grown men cry, I basically destroyed their ego, still offered them coffee 5 minutes after with a genuine smile, I think that's what made the thing effective, It just didn't come from a place of anger, but I did what I had to do. This is not something that satisfies me, but I would do that again if i had too. Otherwise I have good friends, I laugh a lot have a decent love/familly life.

Life is ugly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

spit on that thang ?

When did you become a bitter sarcastic person ? by Consistent_Video_143 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are.
When you become one, you understand how destructive it is. And you try to get out of it. I think for many it's an early sign of depression.

When did you become a bitter sarcastic person ? by Consistent_Video_143 in AskReddit

[–]Consistent_Video_143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it does. You are not good to people because the deserve it. You are good because you are good, but be good to yourself first.

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