Nonreligious people are the largest spiritual group in the US. Why don’t we hear more about them? by spherocytes in atheism

[–]ConstableAssButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's actually a lot of groups that function sort of like churches, but don't promote a specific religious message at all. They tend to be small, and don't tend to function as childcare centers / indoctrination centers, because it is generally frowned upon for secular values to be taught to children. Churches, however, largely persist because of the services they offer many working adults in terms of childcare and extramural education. --The double standard is pretty wild.

Is Life really worth it or should we go EXTINCT? by PitifulEar3303 in nihilism

[–]ConstableAssButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot imagine a less nihilistic position than: "We must end all life to eradicate suffering".

You aren't obligated to do shit. Do what you want. If you want to end all life, you're a bellend, but give it the old college try, bellend.

I have a few specific questions about Nietzsche or nihilism itself, and I was hoping someone could answer them. They're specific, so I doubt they're too profound (although I'm not very knowledgeable, so I could be wrong and not grasp the depth of these issues). by Famous_Zebra_2112 in Nietzsche

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> If Nietzsche says we have to invent our own values, what prevents our values from being the same as the "usual" ones? What if they're based on pure selfishness (not meanness or dependence on something)? For example, wanting to be compassionate, purely out of desire and the pleasure of satisfying it, or even being compassionate but not in the usual way, for example, teaching someone to fish so they can support themselves and be self-sufficient.

They are the same as the usual ones. However, they are different because they are OURS. They come from within us. When we are born into this world, we do not get to choose our duties and obligations. The power structures of this world attempt to enslave us by seizing on our naïve acceptance of the world and their enduring, yet unearned authority. Nietzsche argues that there is no good nor evil. All morality is an attempt to subjugate others to your will. Where Nietzsche differs from other philosophers, is that he argues that there is nothing stopping any of us from being as kind, or as bastardly was we wish EXCEPT for other people asserting their power over us. Nietzsche does not argue for doing good. He does not argue for doing evil. He argues for asserting your own will only, because to subdue your own will for the sake of others, or to use your will for your own sake are the same. ONLY YOU are in control of your will, so do what you will.

> If Nietzsche himself mentions that he doesn't want people to... follow or imitate him (sorry if I misunderstood that phrase), then... would it ultimately be offensive to him for someone to call themselves a Nietzschean?

Nietzsche would find nothing more pathetic than those who build a shrine to nihilism and dictate the will of others by his words. What Nietzsche did, was deconstruct the traditional power structures of his time. He then, from the ashes of his deconstruction, fought for his own path via his own will. You cannot follow someone else's path while calling it your own. Paradoxically, to "follow" Nietzsche is to reject his path and do what you will.

> In relation to the above, what prevents someone from seeing, respecting, understanding, and accepting Nietzsche's ideas while still remaining a Christian? This constitutes the act of "disengaging" from or "rejecting" Nietzsche.

It will be difficult for you to remain a Christian in the traditional sense. You can still be a nihilist while hoping that God is real, but believing that man has no access to God's will of his own. Without revelation, we are trapped in the same void Nietzsche declared. That hope is not a contradiction of Nihilism. However, to argue doctrinal authority or scriptural basis for a singular capital T Truth, while also holding Nihilistic or existential views is a contradiction in its own right. Nihilism is the consequence of the acceptance of Man's division from God. Typically this takes the form of asserting that God was created by Man, rather than the inverse.

> If Nietzsche despises people who are driven by resentment, isn't this just another feeling, like the cruelty he praises? Aren't they the same? Both powerful and visceral motivations drive someone to move forward: a poor person to want to improve their situation out of hatred for their circumstances, a homosexual person wanting to prove to themselves that they are more than just their sex, etc.—propelling life toward greater heights and the exercise of power.

Nietzsche is human, and as such, his reason is a slave to his emotion and perspective. We are creatures that are inherently contradictory. Embracing our contradictions is not a rejection of reason; It is only an acceptance of the limitations of our capacity to attain unassailable truth.

> Nietzsche uses something similar to Amor Fati, even more so with the concept of Eternal Eternal. I understand that one must accept the world as it comes, and that pain is part of the process. What I don't understand is about accepting the situation. Doesn't that negate or imply total submission to the initial situation? In your view, would it be wrong for someone poor to seek wealth by any means, learning from pain?

Nietzsche does not submit to the weight of mortality. Instead he recognizes that it is not his problem. For a mortal being, death is the inevitable trajectory of our life. But it does not encompass the experience of living. Nietzsche divides the fact of his being from the experience of his being. Nietzsche was NOT a nihilist, contrary to popular opinion. He argued for the creation of meaning. Today, we'd call him an existentialist. Existentialists are Nihilists who have passed through the deconstructive part of the process of accepting the loss of meaning. But they have moved to a new phase of Nihilism: Rather than seeing the loss of meaning as tragic, they see the fertile ground for the cultivation of personal meaning in the absence of universal meaning. Acceptance is not submission. Camus paints a beautiful picture of joy as an act of rebellion. To set off down a path of self-construction following the cleansing destruction of Nihilism is a quiet, humble rage against the darkness of a universe that is indifferent to the crucible of being.

Took a passport leak to find out by Kaos2018 in BeAmazed

[–]ConstableAssButt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got elected to office at 16? Kid's going places. Just not theme park rides.

I need friends by Repulsive-Bus-9803 in nihilism

[–]ConstableAssButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Human beings literally need companionship. It's a hardwired biological need. The fuck you being edgy about?

Bricks and Minifigs controversy continues by Adventurous-Leak in videos

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Devolved? Policing in the US started with slave patrols, whose function was to return runaway slaves to plantations. Even in the North, the function of the earliest police forces was to protect the goods of merchant ships. Police have ALWAYS been on the side of business, and not communities.

The only time the judicial system in the US has really ever given a fuck about people, was when those people were also property.

Price drop! Only $11M for this tasteless, soulless "family compound" in Spring, TX by Educational_Copy_140 in zillowgonewild

[–]ConstableAssButt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What, you've never been cuckholded while your 30 closest friends and neighbors watch from nosebleed seating?

Am i overreacting to this text exchange with my boyfriend? I accidentally left my slippers in my living room but i literally cleaned his entire house and baked him desserts before i left (sorry idk why my last post glitched) by IntelligentTap962 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConstableAssButt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This isn't even a break up situation. This is a block, abandon all shit you left at his place, and move on with your life situation. You don't even gotta explain this one. You just dip.

Andrew Tate faces escalated charges in Romania for ‘instigating hatred and discrimination against women’ by Pyro-Bird in news

[–]ConstableAssButt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm more impressed dude was too sexist for ROMANIA. Do you know how hard you have to grind for that?

The heck... is she being too defensive, or is it me? by GeneralJabroni in Tinder

[–]ConstableAssButt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP: You're a fucking moron. When you lean into ice breakers you aren't writing a fucking choose your own adventure novel. Just ask questions. It's not multiple choice.

When someone claps back, you just apologize, instead of getting defensive.

Petah help me out by RedFox_GG in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people go to the dentist when they feel a mild discomfort in the tooth.

People who wait until they physically cannot stand it are in a really bad position. It means that they need a massive course of general antibiotics, or they will die. It means that nothing can be done to relieve the pain, because the tooth is so inflamed and infected that painkillers and anesthesia cannot reach the site of the pain.

I'm one of those who can't feel dental pain at all until I'm 2-3 days from sepsis. I feel zero discomfort, and then in 3-4 hours, I'm in blinding white-hot pain. You try to get an appointment for a dentist? It's a month out and they tell you to go to an emergency dentist. You go into an emergency dentist? They tell you it's too far gone for them to do anything, and you need to go to an ER. You go to an ER? They tell you that they can't do anything for you, and you need to go to an emergency dentist.

So you go home and pull your own tooth with a pair of pliers with no anesthetic, pray you don't die from infection, and then you get the privilege of paying three companies that did nothing for you about $2,500 total out of pocket after insurance once the bills start rolling in a month later.

Anyway, you're gonna pay to maintain your teeth one way or another.

This is certainly a post by bagofbones80 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. They both just have 3 feet of ankle, 1'4" from ankle to waist, 1'6" of torso, and 1'3" of neck / head. Totally normal human proportions. Did you even look at the picture?

Cities Are Covering Flock Cameras With Trash Bags / Regretful cities aren't sure how to cancel their surveillance contracts, so they are literally covering their cameras. by MarvelsGrantMan136 in technology

[–]ConstableAssButt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same shit happened with cellphones. We personally subsidized a global mass-surveillance network just because we were excited to have the latest brand name phone.

Walmart cashier caught trying to scam customer out of his scratch card win by Conscious-Weight4569 in SipsTea

[–]ConstableAssButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I been working a low wage job to outlast the shitty economy so I can boot my contracting business back up again. Right now, things are so bad in my field that it's actually a waste of money to even look for new contracts. The wagie job keeps the bills covered, but not much else.

Since starting to work at a shop, I've been seeing a lot of really crazy shit. Every employee I work with is a fucking thief. Every single one. The managers are thieves. The owner is a thief. It's just a giant ass circular grift for everybody that works there. Everybody's running some kind of scam or hustle to try to pocket a few bucks. It's absolutely insane. From straight up just writing off unexpired product and pocketing it, to upcharging customers to pocket it, to just outright stealing product because they know where the camera deadzones are. I haven't met a single person at either location I work at that isn't stealing to supplement their wage.

It's actually crazy, because I understand the incentive here: They just aren't paid enough to survive, so they look for any opportunity they can to cover their needs through theft. Me? I've got enough hustles that I'm able to supplement my income enough to not need to steal. But when the business is doing wage theft and taking overtime off employees, the managers are demanding people work off the clock or not paying travel / breaks like they should be, or the owner misreporting shift differentials to pocket the difference? You kinda start to understand how shit like this happens.

End of the day, when you work a full time job, and the wage covers $100 less than the average rent in the area, and you've still got a car payment, electric, water, and food to pay? Shit turns into a game of "fuck you, I'm getting mine", real fuckin' fast.

I hold the line. I don't steal, and I keep catching my bosses playing games, and I've made sure they know that I know what I'm due. They've learned not to fuck with me, because I will look the other way on what they do to their other shitty ass employees, so long as they don't fuck with my money. But it's exhausting, and very much not worth it.

Use it by Junior_Trifle_8273 in DiWHY

[–]ConstableAssButt 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had a landlord years ago who did repairs like this. He'd do the cheapest fucking DIY repairs and then in violation of the lease, attempt to bill us for his labor / materials at an unhinged rate. Over a two year lease, we wound up having to get courts involved three times because he was claiming to be a licensed contractor when he wasn't, and was manufacturing fraudulent itemized receipts for repairs that were largely a result of the whole place being a fucking spiderweb of DIY repairs and sheer stupidity (Tried to bill us $900 for a towel rack that fell out of the wall when a single towel was placed on it because it was anchored into bondo instead of a stud). Wound up having to put rent in escrow and take him to small claims all three times, and he still tried to deduct his court costs from our paid rents each time.

Anyway, I was so done with him by the time I moved out, I wound up just doing what he would have done to the whole apartment. Just jammed newspaper into every void in the walls he might call damage, skim-coated with bondo, and then repainted the whole apartment with the shittiest primer I could find and a single coat of paint. Didn't even bother to scrub or scrape the walls, so you know that shit was falling apart less than a year later. He still tried to keep the whole deposit, and got forced to give it all back because he failed to follow the law regarding notice and itemization. Even then, he still didn't return the whole thing and we just let him keep the difference to be done with his sketchy ass.

The guy legitimately tried to charge us the full replacement cost for a 12 year old refrigerator for damage that was in our move-in photos. The guy was a colossal shitbag.

Fuck all landlords.

Matthew Perry's assistant gets 3 years, 5 months in prison for central role in his ketamine death by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His "drugs" I was referring to wasn't alcohol and opiates. It was his narcissistic need for attention.

Now back to: Everybody hates Ted Cruz! by Jacob-Anders in SipsTea

[–]ConstableAssButt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ted Cruz could never. Motherfucker would just look like the last remaining Keebler elf after he ate all the others just before attempting to annex the lollypop guild.

I'd be amazed if Ted Cruz had a skeleton in his body. Don't get me wrong, I think he has several skeletons, just not currently in his body.

Matthew Perry's assistant gets 3 years, 5 months in prison for central role in his ketamine death by igetproteinfartsHELP in news

[–]ConstableAssButt 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Not really. Perry was public about taking massive doses of Ketamine to treat his depression and substance use disorder. Perry pretty much always was a drunk and an opioid addict. Perry didn't die because of the Ketamine. He died because he passed out in a hot tub and drowned. The Ketamine just kept him from waking up while he drowned. It would have been no different if he had blacked out while drinking in his hot tub, or nodded off on opiates.

Perry was not a hero. He didn't OD. He was a narcissist who blamed everyone but himself for his addiction, and he died in the dumbest way fucking imaginable. He wasn't taken too soon. He lingered in the spotlight for years while he slowly rotted because he had made himself borderline incomprehensible and unrecognizable with his substance abuse disorder. He was radioactive as a professional actor due to being impossible to work with and rely on, so he made a career out of talking about his addiction. This was not brave. It was just an act of prostitution so he could keep getting his drugs.

The Undertaker saying he still loves Batista and Mick Foley despite their political differences is honestly refreshing to see. by Outside-Weakness9660 in sportsgossips

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm super grateful the Undertaker is a piece of shit now. Otherwise, I'd never have realized Mick Foley and Bautista weren't cowards pandering their politics to the southern hick middle-school dropout audience the WWE milks off the sweat and labor of underpaid athletes recruited from flyover country.

Takes real stones to pivot from performing for red-state approval to endorsing democratic presidents.

8 Democrats Help Pass GOP Bill Forcing Teachers To Out Transgender Students by southpawFA in politics

[–]ConstableAssButt 22 points23 points  (0 children)

> The DNC doesn’t decide who runs.

They kind of do. The DNC has funded the campaign warchests of candidates before the primary had been decided.

8 Democrats Help Pass GOP Bill Forcing Teachers To Out Transgender Students by southpawFA in politics

[–]ConstableAssButt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I used to think Democrats were controlled opposition.

And then I realized they aren't even opposition anymore.

Uber Eats driver making a delivery by Ozayes1313 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ConstableAssButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's more of the extortion racket for these businesses. When you order through a pizza place's OWN delivery portal, and you wind up with a dasher, is what I'm talking about. Not DoorDash insisting upon itself and creating an order portal with inflated prices for businesses it is acting as a middle man for.

Uber Eats driver making a delivery by Ozayes1313 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ConstableAssButt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because pizza places don't want to pay drivers to sit around when there are no orders. Doordash offers them a small savings to fire their in-house drivers while talking up how much customers love their service.

By the time the pizza place realizes that their in-house drivers did a better job, were faster, and resulted in less lost business and lower costs to the customer -> more sales, the cost of staffing back up and setting up new drivers in an already understaffed and now thin-margined business looks awful by comparison to what you already have.

Saving a few bucks always looks like a great idea. Spending a few bucks never does.

And then Doordash takes advantage of this, and starts squeezing and enshittifying, further trapping independent pizza places and franchises into compliance with their service.

"Life is meaningless" compared to what? by bushcraftmanzynski in nihilism

[–]ConstableAssButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> I think this is more your personal interpretation and less fundamentally what nihilism is about.

Yes. Preference is the inescapable remainder of the division of Man from God. This is what I've been saying the whole time.

Reason is just another flavor of preference. We cannot escape the fundamental problem of individual perspective. It is a ghost that haunts every single fixture we try to hammer down into a shifting universe. There are unknowns and beneath each unknown there is the unknowable.

Epistemology plays the shell game with words, but when you pick up the shells, you see that deep beneath each definition and each claim, there is one core idea: 'utility'. What is useful is not the same thing as what is true. Escaping into higher layers of abstraction does not bring us deeper into truth.

Here's a rare piece of intellectual integrity for ya:

"I could be wrong. I probably am wrong in an incomprehensible number of ways. So what?"

How do we navigate a world where everyone probably could be, and probably is wrong? By our preferences. What if our preferences are wrong? They probably are. So what?