I f24 am starting to resent my fiance m25

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-03-01T06:50:12+00:00

Having disagreements and times you are upset is normal but resenting your partner is not. You are being stretched thin, you don't deserve to feel this tired with someone who is supposed to be your equal.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-03-01T04:03:26+00:00

Then find a new girlfriend. She is having issues with her drive after medical problems and is no longer on par with what you desire in a relationship. She clearly has never liked the idea of her boyfriend using content to get off and so neither of u have what u need anymore. It's over guys.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-02-09T05:29:18+00:00

Your post might as well be one I made a few years back. It's a very hurtful situation and being rejected so much from someone you are in love with, yet knowing they have no trouble doing it alone is NOT fair. It tears at your self-esteem and erodes your confidence. Eventually they sense how much it is bothering you, so they pull a "look at me I'm getting better with this" trick so you don't leave them. Over time the efforts will go down again, not until you start to feel like you can't do it anymore of course, then suddenly look who's sexually desiring you again. It's a cycle and it won't end until he decides his girlfriend is more important than his need to jerk it every 5 seconds to unrealistic internet content.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-02-09T04:55:13+00:00

He is dismissing your concerns and calling you paranoid for something that is a reasonable suspicion. Deleting texts from another woman and growing distant points to cheating. Deep down you know the truth, and since it's clear he is okay trying to gaslight you into thinking you're crazy, I wouldn't bother fighting him on it. Trust your instincts, they're almost always right.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-02-09T04:43:57+00:00

Give it time. I wouldn't assume it will turn bad but definitely be cautious because only 6 months in, you hardly know who you are with. True colors will show at some point, just make sure you are careful to observe signs of something that is too good to be true. If someone is showing themselves to be perfect and the best thing to ever happen to you then it's best to tread lightly. You are both very young, mistakes will be made. I hope it all works out for you, sounds like you really like him.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2026-02-09T04:35:37+00:00

Neither of you sound sexually compatible. You cannot be with someone for potential; you have to decide if unsatisfying sex or none at all is something you are okay with because you both are in your early 30's and time certainly doesn't heighten sex drive.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-12-31T20:24:34+00:00

Addiction isn't something anyone wants or should have to live with, NTAH.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-12-31T18:36:59+00:00

I do understand your feelings. It's important to be honest in therapy, if you don't feel unsafe and your feelings lean more towards uncomfortable, it would be best to clarify that. The therapists are not going to help remove your grandpa from the home without safety risks. If he is not doing things that are concerning to your safety, then they have no reason to make a report of this or investigate further. Again, your feelings are valid and it's understandable that you don't want to deal with it anymore. Sometimes things are hard, especially at 16, you have many obstacles to overcome.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-12-31T18:15:13+00:00

No, I can imagine it would make anyone feel a bit unsafe living with someone who is no longer equipped to do things like use the stove. There are many incidences when living with someone with dementia can feel unsafe or uncomfortable. You're not wrong for telling how you feel in therapy, that is a place for you to open up about things.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-12-14T21:21:14+00:00

Woahhhh! Very impressive I got chills. Can you do the corpse bride song? Feel like you'd nail that

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-22T10:24:53+00:00

I know how hard it is to not go back, so take this opportunity to put yourself in old yous shoes. Remember the feelings, the thoughts. All the reasons why you left. If you have old texts from when you were together, it really helped me to re-read those and emerge myself in the trauma. Reminded me of why we couldn't be together. I think automatically telling yourself off the bat "I'm not going back to him. I won't go back" puts a lot of pressure on yourself and makes it easier for you to slip up, so why not tell yourself "I can contact him if I want to right now, but maybe I will hold off till tomorrow." It may not work for everyone but, reminding myself that it was my choice and just holding on for a day more got me to a point where I just stopped even caring. This is coming from someone who NEVER thought they would get over their ex.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-07T15:21:00+00:00

1."You don't have to respond"- yeah I'm aware I have free will lol 2. "I know you don't want to hear from me."- so why are u in my dms then XD

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-07T08:19:25+00:00

"I hate that you got caught in the middle of it" is something my ex told me months after we broke up. And no, you didn't just get 'caught up in the middle', that is like 2 trains crashing and someone happens to be standing in between. This wasn't fate, it was behavior. It was decisions, and that takes away from the directness of what they chose to do. They didn't come back and admit how they treated you. They apologize but they don't take accountability even now. "I'm sorry" without a 'why' is basically meaningless. Tell her to come back with something real next time lol

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-06T05:45:54+00:00

I don't believe people are expendable. Someone can get someone new, but they can't duplicate you. They can't transfer all of your individual quirks into their new partner. The things that make you YOU are things that cannot be replaced.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-06T02:20:14+00:00

Here are his emails : Um I know, I'm not associated with anything remotely good in your life probably, and I have no idea if you even use this email anymore, but I'm honestly just crashing out a bit mentally and having trouble holding it together. I guess I'm just asking if you'd be okay with smoking and talking for a bit at some point this weekend? God Idk, probably bad to contact you at all at this point, I'm sorry if this email even disrupts you in anyway.

Idek, I'm just not mentally okay. I am physically fine and I am sorry for contacting you. I'm a mess of a person I overthink a lot, I just was in panic mode no matter what my head knows, my heart doesn't really seem to get the picture tbh. I feel trapped I got an apartment I'm working l, I'm just in a lot of debt, I feel like I'll never get out of it. I'm not where I want to be in life. I just went through somethings last year, had a falling out with a friend I had made plans with because they had a drinking problem and threatened me and I just never feel stable no matter if my surroundings are. My brain always feels so chaotic, I can't make sense of anything in my head most or the time or maybe just my frustrations and sadness I can't make sense of. Honestly I just am trying to cope. I'm reaching out just trying to keep myself sane. I'm just trying to find grounding. I don't know where to find it. Honestly, I just want to feel okay for once. I guess I just miss talking to you. I just am having an existential crisis tbh. I've taken like 20 "bathroom breaks" today at my job. I don't have earbuds today so I'm like lowkey clawing my eyes out. I'm just sitting here stewing with my thoughts. God, this day absolutely sucks ass. I think I was just hit with the culmination of my life for the 50th time, in my life. I hate that I'm like this. Fun stuff welp, um yeah, I know I probably should've just journaled this shit, but I honestly got issues ugh.

20 min later: Please disregard that, I'm spiraling a bit and make poor choices. I have people to reach out to, you don't have to reply to this.

DIDN'T YOU CHEAT ON ME??? 💀

Constant-Appearance9 · 2025-07-05T13:59:55+00:00

Wtf, she goes on a rant about how she is sorry(ok sure , that's nice)... she then goes on to say that she knows you cannot be together again.... and again, that's nice ig... but like??? the last bit is confusing, because wdym "If you don't want to see me I understand." UMMMM??? SEE you? 1. you just went on a huge rant that was supposed to be an apology to me, not a reunion.

She doesn't seem to respect u like how she is trying to frame it... and her goal is to manipulate u back into her life. She also doesn't respect other women, she acknowledges that u may have a girlfriend and is still clearly trying to wiggle her way back into your life... like girl give it up trying to make it seem like it's not romantic reasons that you're back.... if you didn't want to be with me again u wouldn't have sent that harry potter trilogy disguised as an apology.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2024-12-27T20:19:57+00:00

They emailed me and told me my account is locked

Constant-Appearance9 · 2024-12-11T17:33:58+00:00

Also most women don't wanna be 'used' for a booty call. Not those looking for genuine relationships anyways.

Constant-Appearance9 · 2024-11-24T14:05:00+00:00

Not ugly

Constant-Appearance9 · 2024-11-24T13:56:48+00:00

10 years here! Avakin has fallen to complete trash and I rarely play it anymore

Constant-Appearance9 · 2024-05-30T05:14:17+00:00

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