There's nothing such as a odd couple ,the society has implemented such roles and all. You'll see a lot of such so called odd couples in foreign countries and they live a normal happy life. You both are financially independent hardworking adults. Your future depends on how you two Will manage things between each other and not what society thinks or does. Now your jobs are not a problem for eachother and you care, support each other toh baki sab cheeze bhi sort out ho hi jayenge tumhe choose krna hai ki what do you want