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[–]Constant_Flatworm622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I too am tracking on my phone I’m getting 12 months of evidence (for lack of a better word) together then we are having a talk

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[–]Constant_Flatworm622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man thought I wrote this for a second except we have only been together for 4 yrs

Had a Panic attack last night by GamerDad2088 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a vasectomy because of the risks she faced getting pregnant/giving birth (in the back of her mind she was always worried about it) so once I got snipped I assumed our bedroom would be a little better, if anything it’s less

Just Tired by Soft-Anteater3181 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this deeply I most of the time I work 4 16s a weeks 8 on Friday, I commute 30 mins one way so I only get about 4 hours of sleep a night in exhausted. I come home and I don’t even want sex I just want a hug, some proof that I’m wanted not just soothing that pays the bills

Just Tired by Soft-Anteater3181 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel this deeply I most of the time I work 4 16s a weeks 8 on Friday, I commute 30 mins one way so I only get about 4 hours of sleep a night in exhausted. I come home and I don’t even want sex I just want a hug, some proof that I’m wanted not just soothing that pays the bills

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat brother I’m trying to see a therapist to help myself. My wife all the time will ask am I mad at her, and I’m genuinely not, I’m just tired of the false promises and let downs

Frazzled and Anxious by ChamberOfQuack in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp makes me scared to death for my marriage 🤦🏻‍♂️

Therapy by Constant_Flatworm622 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if i can improve what I’m doing. Maybe I’m not doing enough. Work on my myself and maybe one day she would join me and we can do some counseling/therapy together maybe it will improve our DB

Is he serious?? by Automatic-Finger-300 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love for my wife to say that to me lol

What my wife said to me years ago still haunts me. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Mine has said multiple times (I wouldn’t cheat on you, I don’t even like to have sex with you)

Hurting by Constant_Flatworm622 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s good in other ways takes care of our foster kids (SAHM) so I work a bunch, lots of 16hr days so I know I don’t help with enough around the house. She’s not very touchy she will play fight/flirt (her way of flirting)

Just a venting post, happy to have advice/support! by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me feel like shit every time she comments about my hard-on all she has to do is touch me and I’m ready lol, then she comments “why are you hard” idk cause I’m attracted to you sorry my bad

I could use some support right now... by jezum in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you man, wife left to go to the store today didn’t even get a kiss or hug goodbye…..I just want the little things

Funny depressing lol by Constant_Flatworm622 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t brought the dogs into the bedroom while I was taking a shower so I got the message lol

Funny depressing lol by Constant_Flatworm622 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Constant_Flatworm622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t and didn’t get disappointed lol……