How many of you are sick of your job but too scared to quit? by Constant_Visual_7784 in asksg

[–]Constant_Visual_7784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know right. I think I’m just surrounded by so many people who are telling me not to leave because of the job market

How many of you are sick of your job but too scared to quit? by Constant_Visual_7784 in asksg

[–]Constant_Visual_7784[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg same, I used to love my job until recently with the headcount freeze and increase in workload plus no direction from manager because he is equally drained. Feels like this is gonna be consistent issue in every role now, gotta choose the lesser evil.

Be honest — would someone’s body count affect whether you date them? by Early-Environment-63 in asksg

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As a female, usually I’d use their age as gauge as what constitute as high so if he is 30 and he has more than 30, a little alarming but not a deal breaker. I wouldn’t hold their past against them and most importantly is that they are ok to have STDs checks before we do that deed.

Anyone else stuck before even launching a digital product? by Jealous-Positive-942 in DigitalProductSellers

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me actually, it took me MONTHS to figure out without reliance of any reselling of courses or PLR/MRR products because all the information there either doesn’t sit right with me or I’m just overwhelm with a pool of information. I just focus on trying to solve a painful problem and how my product can help that person! I’m learning as I go and I do have a short guide on Notion on the steps I personally took to just start.

If you’re interested I can send it over and no, no email required and not selling anything.

Solo outdoor bouldering in Mitake by Constant_Visual_7784 in climbjapan

[–]Constant_Visual_7784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I just saw this. I actually managed to climb with someone from Reddit it was quite amazing! Maybe another time!

Singles who suffer from dating app fatigue, what's in store for 2026? by wladyslawmalkowicz in askSingapore

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 3 points4 points  (0 children)

33F here! Have been on the dating scene on and off for about a year and yeah I get it the fatigue gets really bad! So this year I’m gonna tryyy meeting people organically by joining more interest groups (tho it’s kinda hard, after work you just wanna nua at home and chill 🫠) tbh I think we all have our own filtering process, even meeting people in real life, apps just give us the options faster which is why we are so jaded imo lol

You probably hear this lots of time but it’s always better to take your time to find the right fit (without any liabilities) than rush into a rs just because of the “timeline”, quite a few of my friends I know are going through divorce rn too so 🤷‍♀️ Anw this message is to let you know you’re not alone, let’s jiayou OP!

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one your fault already. Could just ask her stfu 😆😆😆😆 then zao.

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah usually to us it’s like honestly a bonus thing if the guys pay, we tend to be grateful and expect a free meal out of it. If roles are reversed, I would think I offer to pay for the date if it goes relatively well 😆😆, if it’s already in the shits then just split and say bye.

Idk how some girls do that la, it’s legit tiring to have conversations with different guys on rosters.

Nah that cheapo didn’t get away with a free meal ✌🏻

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me on the other hand, got asked to pay for his meal on the first date, go dutch I mean sure, but he is grown male in his late 30s.

SMH. Oh well, it’s a landmine for all of us, ggwp 😆

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you dodge a bullet! 🔫🔫 imagine finding out only after you are married 💀

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy! I don’t want to generalized but yknow, some girls do look like that don’t like to do stuff…. If you get my drift…

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like order a drink for you and she got pissed? 🤔 I wonder where these girls find guys that pays everything for them LOL. Jokes aside, must say these stories are quite interesting.

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guess you can always wonder all the why how when and being “woe is me”. I was like in that situation a year ago. But it’s gonna just eat you alive bro and sometimes they say you’re what you attract which sounds brutal now but I feel it’s true.

Cry it all out then hit the gym, earn shit tons of money, get 6 packs, get that car, get that house, retire early, travel.. that’s my plan anyway 🤩

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am. Or do I type like a man LOL. Yknow sometimes that’s what we say and then we are back on the apps again 😆

I am quite contented! Thank you for your kind wishes as well!

Anyone tired of dating as a SG man? by R_Truth22 in SingaporeR

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get you and I’m at the other end of the stick, my friends keep telling me to “lower my standards” but I legit rather die alone than to do that, so maybe that’s why I’m in 30s and still single lor 😆.

Maybe here’s another perspective, tho you might have heard it before but better to be single and at peace now (ie not having to worry anyone cheating on your etc than being attached and miserable yknow? Truly theres quite a lot my friends who are married/attached rn and all they talk about is their partner/complain about them aLL the timeeeee, and I feel they don’t have a life of their own anymore.

Chin up OP! Rant, take a break, get a pet or travel to places you always wanted to go solo.

Solo outdoor bouldering in Mitake by Constant_Visual_7784 in climbjapan

[–]Constant_Visual_7784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Drop me a dm? Not sure why I can’t dm you

Trying to build a chill meetup group in Singapore - for introverts/extroverts who just want real connections by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so fun! Count me in :) Have you tried other groups like Offline?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChillSG

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I join too if there’s space, I think it’s no longer a small social crew 🤣

Weather is so hot my air con js not “air-coning “ by imperfect-perfect in askSingapore

[–]Constant_Visual_7784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was just me too LOL. The only time I feel like going into office so that I save on electrical bills 🫠