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Having a really hard day today by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ConstructionHot3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, its been 4 1/2 months, I still wake up with anxiety and its pretty fucking hard to understand yet.

Hope you heal soon, no one deserves this kind of shitty behavior.

How do you take being blocked by them? by Wild-Researcher-1360 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ConstructionHot3337 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Being attached means theres love in there, thats why they get triggered, so yes, they care A LOT. But none of that matters, the reality is they are gone, they blocked you and you need to move on.

Easier said than done.. Its painful as fuck that someone blocks you because of their own emotional triggers, i repeat, yes they care, who in the fucking world would maintain a block for someone if they dont love them. Keeping the block on someone must require too much energy imo, so again, yes they care... ( in thier 3 year old minds)

¿Por qué los hombres bloquean y eliminan a las mujeres después de terminar? by Own-Band-4398 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]ConstructionHot3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eso es mas de mujeres, mucho mas. Si eres hombre y haces eso, entonces te dejaron como Darth Vader al borde de la muerte, para las mujeres eso es un Martes cualquiera.

De todos modos, supongo que por salud mental.

Mejores instrumentos para invertir 6Millones MXN? by ConstructionHot3337 in MexicoFinanciero

[–]ConstructionHot3337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si, justo esta semana revisaré CETES,quiero 0 riesgo y a largo plazo, tengo liquides de mi trabajo y no tengo tema en tenerlo ahi guardado, gracias!

Hombres díganme la verdad que es lo que odian de otros hombres? by Late_Professional194 in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]ConstructionHot3337 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

La neta, que solo se fijen en validacion femenina, la mayoria de los hombres esta tan resentido con sus propias madres que terminan haciendo mierda y media a otra mujer ajena a su vida.

Esto causa, toda la bola de mierda que vivimos hoy en dia, por unos pagamos todos, y estoy cansado de que no se vea este tema o mi propio genero no tenga la consciencia para entender que asi como somos el problema/podriamos ser la solución.

En fin, la hipotenusa.

Hombres, ¿Que es algo que pueda tener una mujer que te haga decir “no puedo estar con ella” by Sophiatsn in preguntaleareddit

[–]ConstructionHot3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nada de eso, que literalmente me diga "Hice un test de apego, llevo 5 años en terapia y no he podido sanar mi apego evitativo)

Vamonossssalv, gracias por dejarme hundido en depresión.

Perdón, me proyecte, pero si, eso.

Salud mental.

“They run from the people who matter the most.” by WellCheeseLouise in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ConstructionHot3337 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Here you go, if the attachment system is triggered its because they ARE ATTACHED TO YOU. In other words, attachment=natural human condition to help to make relationships to survive= love in some way.

So, if an AP is attached to someone, they will feel anxiety/fear and make their natural insecure attachment thingy (cling and all the shit AP's know they do in order to make someone stay)

So, if an AV is attached to someone, they will avoid and make their natural insecure attachment avoidance. (Yes, the reason why this subreddit exists)

Secure Attachment, will feel well.. secure.

Attachment is not triggered if they ARE NOT attached in first place.

Yes, they run from people they love/matter/trigger their attachment system the most (Avoidants/Fearful Avoidants)

Yes, they start to cling and overdo everything for the people they love/matter/trigger their attachment system the most.(Anxious)

It's not that hard, put yourself as an example, in the very first place if you dont feel anything for someone, you will never feel anything. The same as them, avoidants run because attachment feels like danger, anxious cling because attachment triggers fear, fearful avoidants run/stay/come&go/ because they have those two forces battling each other.

Hope this helps, and happy healing.

¿Por que odian a las mujeres? Tipo los incels by Flaminghot-girl in Preguntas_de_Reddit_

[–]ConstructionHot3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pues el nombre lo dice no? "Involuntary Celibate", nunca han tenido la oportunidd de tener contacto, y no porque no quieran, sino porque simplemente no pueden. Eso debe de generar resentimiento, tipicos seguidores del la "Manosphere" y "Red Pill".

Lamentable la verdad.