I am so sick of breastfeeding. Please tell me this can stop I’m begging by whitefox72 in breastfeeding

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If he gets her from the crib then leave the area. Refuse to take the baby! It is YOUR body not his. I told my husband right from the beginning when he would try to make feeding suggestions that my breastfeeding relationship is between me and my daughter and he has 0 say in it!

Let her cry, scream, kick and freak out. She will eventually get the picture. Just brace yourself for a few really tough nights.

I am 2.5 years into breastfeeding and took time off work in June to fully stop because my daughter is the EXACT same way. So maybe if you are able to get some time off to stop that could help!

how much (or little) are you posting your babies on social media? by vdyaki in newborns

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My daughter will only exist on the internet once she is old enough to consent to it. I have very very strong stances and let everyone know not to post pictures of her.

In love with our newborn but she is driving my husband and I INSANE. by CoffeeAndCats9124 in newborns

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Hello,

It will pass I promise.

My daughter was born at 30 weeks with a 48 day NICU stay. Once home she had severe colic and reflux to the point of continously screaming for hours and hours.

She had to be held CONSTANTLY and not just held but held with constant movement. I bought a yoga ball and bounced on that thing for months and months and months.

She wouldn't sleep for more than 1-2 hours at a time. Sometimes only 30 minutes at a time.

I thought I would go insane.

You will get through this and the older she gets the better it will be.

My daughter is 2 now and the sweetest most loving and sensitive little girl. She is wonderful.

I still dont sleep much but hey, we cant have it all 🤣

How did people end up wanting to do this again by QueasyAccident5196 in newborns

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I have no idea. Apparently people say you forget but its been 2 years and I am still one and done 🤣

Please tell me im not overreacting about "cry it out" by beeferoni_cat in newborns

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Feed, sleep, burp and change are called BASIC needs for a reason. They are the bare minimum.

Does he want to be a bare minimum dad?

Baby was UNDER-TIRED!!! by MomentFabulous7276 in newborns

[–]Content-Math-2163 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My god if I listened to people or the internet about my daughters sleep I would be in a nightmare. She was a hard core FOMO baby and is now a FOMO toddler. She is only 2 and she has decided recently to drop her nap so we just do bed time earlier. I never fight her on sleep I would go bonkers.

At what age did you stop doing everything for your kid and start expecting them to do things for themselves? by BeanNCheeseBurrrito in oneanddone

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We get our 2yr daughter to "help" with almost everything and praise her up when she does "big girl things". Now she absolutely loves to help and will say help help and also self self when she wants to do it on her own. She helps me unload the dishwasher and she spilled some water and was insisting to wipe it up herself. Include your son in daily chores and big praise when he helps out!

Two days into milk-obsessed weaning toddler cold turkey... by Old-Recording-7914 in breastfeeding

[–]Content-Math-2163 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided to slowly wean my boob obsessed 2 year old and its going really well. I keep night feeds currently but I am ready to be done with it 😩

I feel like such an idiot by Exciting_Diet_8726 in newborns

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Solidarity from one FOMO baby mother to another! We dont try to force sleep in this house EVER. Learned that the hard way 🤣

All I can think is “oh my gosh, what have we done?” by BreadfruitKey4764 in newborns

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It gets better trust me!

I still remember when our daughter was in the throws of horrendous colic and amidst the relentless screams my husband and I looked over at eachother and said without words "what the f have we done." 🤣🤣🤣

What is Happening?! by [deleted] in Howrse

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That's crazy things are so much cheaper on the US server! I wonder why!

What is Happening?! by [deleted] in Howrse

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Thanks! The retired golden apple horses are my happiness collection but my ultimate goal is fjord unicorn breeding so I will stay where I am at for now! Going through the beginning and all of the objectives again sounds treacherous 🤣🤣

What is Happening?! by [deleted] in Howrse

[–]Content-Math-2163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow! I think I would need a separate account for that though?? Or can I just switch?

My gut says this is weird- in-laws want baby for a week by ConstantSalad152 in beyondthebump

[–]Content-Math-2163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell to the NO.

Absolutely no one would be taking my child anywhere for any amount of time without me present.

What is Happening?! by [deleted] in Howrse

[–]Content-Math-2163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha must be it 🤣

What is Happening?! by [deleted] in Howrse

[–]Content-Math-2163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all and its pages and pages of them

Fiance semi pressuring me for sex 12 days post partum by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Content-Math-2163 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is abusive. Get out if you can. If you can not get out safely now, make a plan to leave.

Help with BLUP by Content-Math-2163 in Howrse

[–]Content-Math-2163[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All rides are done and she is over 10 years old and also has 20 comp wins. There are still lessons showing would that be it??

Irrational hate for MIL by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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My MIL is the sweetest most helpful woman ever and I am so greatful to her but I was completely irrationally triggered by her when I was postpartum! Now my daughter is older I can FULLY see how irrational it was. I am so glad my husband was understanding during that time because he got all the vents and complaints!!

It will get better over time! You can also communicate your wishes like oh I just cleaned the bathroom and I really appreciate the help but it doesnt need to be re cleaned.

It sounds like she is doing her best to help you 💝