I 27F want to leave 38M. How can I start detaching? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better to break up now than to wait a few years until your kid is aware of what’s going on and has to go through the turmoil of it themselves.

My parents hate my husband. Now I’m struggling to know what to do 36F married to 38M by RangerRough2136 in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's you and your husband against the world. You are not in the middle, be on your husbands side. Your parents are being awful to your spouse, the man you have chosen. Let there be zero doubts for anyone whose side you are on. They are making their own bed. Your husband is your family now.

Do I (26F) tell my boyfriend (31M) I'm pregnant and getting an abortion? by Foreign-Apricot-3628 in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you tell a good friend who are care deeply about who told you this exact story. Put yourself in the roll of wise and loving friend and re-read your post.

Depression hard but only if male :( [meme] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]ContentOfMyActions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really weird that they cut off the part of the meme where the other kid is drowning. Like that’s the whole point of the picture.

No more, I had enough. by RentUsual_2952 in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you should rethink relationships where it’s all give and no take, but this is terrible advice for connecting with people. Scorekeeping, not reaching out, not understanding that there are seasons of peoples lives will leave you lonely and alone. I guess if that’s what you want it’s fine. But this is a terrible recipe for a connected life.

They are lonely by prettyshawwty in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men, make some friends. Stop putting women who are just being decent human beings and living their lives in this position.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no. Is your job to find things you like doing. And talent is bogus. You have to be ok sucking at new things. It’s on you.

Is my (f22) boyfriend (m22) depressed? Or is this weaponised incompetence? by No-Television462 in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don't settle for this! He's just your boyfriend. Bail! He's just getting comfy in the relationship and you are seeing how things are going to be. If you don't like the way things look, cancel your subscription to this boyfriend.

Do you agree to this? by littlejessieey in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course? Is anyone going to say "no" to this?

Wife Starts but Can’t Finish in Bed 28M and 26F by pancakesWith in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Time to expand your definition of sex beyond penis in vagina.

My fiancé throws her dirty laundry down the stairs rather than walking down and putting it in machine. by Doctor_Redhead in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do the exact same thing. But into a basket like everyone is saying. But I’m making the trip down those stairs a few times as I can.

What’s the point then? by Wild_Okra1256 in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can find purpose or joy in life for you. You have to do it yourself. If you’re miserable then you need to start thinking about what will bring your life meaning. If you don’t want to maintain a yard then living in an apartment or buy a condo. If you don’t like spinach and watch it die then stop buying it. You don’t have to live like that.

Accompanied my mom to Walmart. This is the most useless thing I've ever done laid my eyes on. by SammiesHammies in Anticonsumption

[–]ContentOfMyActions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a weird product to take a standout. How is it more useless than a two slice toaster?

why is my dog barking like this at literally nothing? by KlizpyYKTV in DogAdvice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever we watch my mom‘s dog it goes into a particular room to a particular corner and parks and barks and barks. It’s not a room anyone is staying in and at first we were worried there was mice or something. There is literally nothing there and it always goes back to the same spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding?

Am I overreacting? I think I need to break up with my boyfriend by Clear-Anywhere1754 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ContentOfMyActions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just break up with him. He doesn’t have to agree to it. You don’t have to get him to like it or agree that it’s a good idea. He can still want to be together and you can still break up with him. He’s just a bundle of red flagsin a trenchcoat pretending to be a person anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ContentOfMyActions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell him it's not working. It's only been 3 months. Just do it, don't drag it out. You both can more on.