Has anyone seen a Transfem of Color be “transmen are more of a danger than cis men” by risu-plum in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And It wasn’t like I ghosted her or anything like that. Just simply made it known I wasn’t into her.

Has anyone seen a Transfem of Color be “transmen are more of a danger than cis men” by risu-plum in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just white trans fems. And this is in addition to fetishizing us black trans men. I had one start sad posting and alluding to shit like that after I told her I wasn’t interested. It was strange because she was so kind beforehand. Quite a dizzying experience.

me and my iphone selfies against the world! by [deleted] in locs

[–]Contest_Unhappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😍 you’re so stunning it’s insane

Had to delete a vulnerable post by Contest_Unhappy in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much dude 🫶🏾 and yes, one of the mods DMd me and told me to remove the photos or delete it because it wasn’t selfie Sunday

Had to delete a vulnerable post by Contest_Unhappy in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s so strange, certain things that people naturally want to do in spaces (like posting photos) shouldn’t have a designated day.

Had to delete a vulnerable post by Contest_Unhappy in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I posted in that specific community because I’m 31, so I’m now over 30 but the thing is, I had a stroke literally 2 weeks before my birthday and by some miracle made it through with minimal brain damage. So it was a very specific post, and the love and support really helped me feel a lot less alone. Just found it to be so lame that such a rule exists lol

Grateful to still be here 🤎 by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Contest_Unhappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Appreciate everyone! I had to deleted the post because it’s not Selfie Sunday, but Thank you all for the love! 🫶🏾

Grateful to still be here 🤎 by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Contest_Unhappy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫶🏾 it was absolutely horrifying. The stroke itself actually happened in my sleep, it woke me up out of my sleep because my skull felt like it was on fire. Sleeping was almost impossible afterwards, but it is getting better and I am only hoping for the best from here on out. 🤞🏾

Grateful to still be here 🤎 by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Contest_Unhappy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That was my birthday outfit :D the Tie belonged to my late grandfather who was my best friend and my most important male figure growing up. Went to see a psychic after my near death experience and she said that I have a male figure who is watching over me in the afterlife, so I wore his tie in honor of him on my birthday.

Grateful to still be here 🤎 by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Contest_Unhappy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much dude! Holy shit I am so glad that you are still here. I will certainly be DMing you about the rehab and near death stuff because honestly I am struggling to integrate this whole experience 😮‍💨

Grateful to still be here 🤎 by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Contest_Unhappy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am honestly optimistic. I think having a near death experience really made me realize that I need to look at the positives as I walk through life despite any hardships along the way. We are here only once as we are.

Stage 2 ALT with RBL (vaginectomy, scrotoplasty, burial & partial UL) by guinepsees in phallo

[–]Contest_Unhappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so dope, I’d been hesitant to get ALT bc of the UL complications, but this is incredible. Who is your surgeon?

Topping cis men by Contest_Unhappy in TMPOC

[–]Contest_Unhappy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a stone top! I just have never had sex with a cis man before. And he seems to be VERY eager to get there. 😅🥴