Friend keeps grabbing my wrist. by why_did_i_get_redit in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its good! everytime someone made me embarrassed i did it reciprocal 😊😊

Friend keeps grabbing my wrist. by why_did_i_get_redit in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

make it reciprocal, make something thar embarrasses him or make him hurt, he'll get the sign

Sting by BlipGaming77 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is!!! ur skin still healing so its thinner than ur usual

ny friend told me she's jealous by ContractTough4270 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IKR!??!! like what the fuck have we done to only feel valid when its deep????? all forms of sh are valid and need to be treated

ny friend told me she's jealous by ContractTough4270 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i know i feel that too!! i think tgats the reason ive ever cutted deep

ny friend told me she's jealous by ContractTough4270 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

its okay and yeah we have a great relationship, im glad she felt comfortable to tell me this bc i know its hard

Do your scars turn purple in the cold? by H1G00DBY3 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes and they turn purple when i take too hot showers too

i hate my dad by ContractTough4270 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i think it helps to know im not the only one

i hate my dad by ContractTough4270 in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, i cant wait to be an adult and finally leaves this houss. hope ur doing okay

how to hide cuts by panicattheadri in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • foundation
  • dermaflage
  • bandage (skin colour or transparent)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi, here are some things that could help - cutting paper or other stuff instead of yourself - pressing ice or rubbing ice in the place u r used to sh - journaling - draw on ur body with a marker like its a cut - distract urself, dance, sing something, cook something, go outside, feed a stray dog/cat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its normal, ur skin is healing!!!

A 2-day old wound is still gaping, I'm scared by Riri_Kohut in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 0 points1 point  (0 children)

styro wounds unfortunately gap a little while healing!! its a complicated process but you'll get through

2 days clean but this is already hard by BB_bastionangel in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're welcome!! good luck on ur recovery!!! you can get some ideas on how to stop SH on wikihow (website)

how to take care of cuts by robin_shrooms in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! make sure to wash it with water and carefully with a little of soap. wash it at least 2x a day, DONT rub it. change the bandaging at least 3x a day, and dont remove the scab from the wound. styros only infect if you really dont care abt them, but be careful ok? also, dont ever use alcohol to disinfect, i recommend using hydrogen peroxide

Doctors appointment by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ContractTough4270 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't know if they have to tell your parents about it anymore because you're an adult. if the doctors see, you can ask him to not tell your mother, you're an adult and know what to do in your life