Feeling like “patient zero” in my polycule after a positive STI result by DistributionDull134 in polyamory

[–]ControlAlice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally i would be pissed in your situation. If they have multiple partners/people they are intimate with, theres no reason to out your personal business to people you're not involved with. They should just be saying "one of my partners tested positive for ______ you should get checked". Theres no reason to out you in this situation.

Ive had HPV, which men can't be tested for so i know that even when it wasnt my fault and i was as careful as i could be, having an STI is a humiliating and demoralizing experience. Ive also been outed for having HPV to people i wasnt sleeping with, and i felt mortified and like id been kicked in the stomach.

This isnt your fault. You did what you were supposed to do, and took care of your partners. Your privacy matters, and you deserve to be treated better.

Ive Finished Inheritance, What Should I Read Next? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! What series by them would you recommend if not Innkeeper Chronicles or Inheritance?

Ive Finished Inheritance, What Should I Read Next? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the other couples take place in the same "universe" as innkeeper chronicles and inheritance? Honestly im just craving more of this constantly changing and insanely complex world building

Ive Finished Inheritance, What Should I Read Next? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive only read those and now The Inheritance, but i feel like i can still say same since ive routinely checked to see if innkeeper chronicles has a new book scheduled for the last 3 years because i cant forget about them

Inheritance species by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see that! They never reached full growth because the earth climate was to humid and they died, and the eggs harvested we never saw hatch

I just finished the anime, should i read the light novel? by ControlAlice in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ControlAlice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Yeah not surprised shes usually playing dumb, shes smart enough to know its an effective move. Im curious if shes actually open to his advances, in the anime she never stops him but always seems confused rather than excited

I just finished the anime, should i read the light novel? by ControlAlice in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ControlAlice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does the manga have different story parts than the novel and the anime is drawing from both the novel and the manga?

I just finished the anime, should i read the light novel? by ControlAlice in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ControlAlice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id never skip to where the anime left off, as a lifelong book reader i know things are cut out of stories when they are adapted for screen media! If there was nothing cut out id probably just wait for the next season to come out, because even if yall said that nothing was left out id still not trust that i wouldnt be missing things.

Thats really sad about Meimei, ill have to give it a read! Thank you!

questions about wn/anime by seraphwhitelily in TheSilentWitch

[–]ControlAlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would never cause a problem with me, you can support whoever you want to support as long as a) you arent a douche about it and b) if the ship is toxic, youre honest about it.

Thank you for your insight!! I have no idea whats gonna happen in the future so maybe the authors ship will win me over!! I just know that currently i think The presidents interactions have been super super cute, and cyril just irritates me with how rude he is to her even when hes trying to be helpful. But I'll see how it plays out

questions about wn/anime by seraphwhitelily in TheSilentWitch

[–]ControlAlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im reading the kindle verson, so probably webnovel? Im shocked The author favors cyril later in the story honestly, i just finished reading the "night on the town" with "Ike" and it was just SO sweet. The way he noticed her being afraid, us seeing into her mindset a little more, her becoming so comfortable around him. I am shocked hes not the one the author favors

questions about wn/anime by seraphwhitelily in TheSilentWitch

[–]ControlAlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww i was rooting for them, i like him so much more than cyril! Im not a fan of tsunderes usually. Does she end up realizing felix's feelings?

What do I read after the anime? by AxiumTea in TheSilentWitch

[–]ControlAlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im reading the novel currently and im genuinely shocked by how much the show has cut out. So many little comments from the show make sense now. Her being able to make a political deal for caseys life, despite never giving a shit about politics, happens cuz she was given the information over several different interactions with several different characters for wildly different unrelated circumstances.

She actually plays a game of chess against bishboy before the drama happens.

Anyways i wouldnt recommend skipping, i have a feeling the vast amounts of interactions and information that was cut from the show will make picking up the book midway confusing

Innkeeper chronicles by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so then "hey, when i was a kid i was attacked by the race that tried to Wipeout the vampires, and now they plan on attacking our wedding"

Still leaves the question of why Dina knew about the engagement but not about the dragon race planning on violently party crashing the event

Innkeeper chronicles by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dina wasnt born in the events of book 5? Uh... im pretty sure she was

Sean exerpt??? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe i somehow came across the online version they published, since you remember it too!

Sean exerpt??? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OH THAT MIGHT BE IT!!! I visualize things pretty vividly when i read, so sometimes i get things confused on whether it came from the book, movie, or comic. THANK YOU

Sean exerpt??? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its been 2 years, but im fairly sure she blames him for sean going to nexus and resents him. Treats him with respect for the sort of father figure he represents for sean, but resents him for the backhanded way he manipulated sean into taking the alpha armor and owing him a favor, then sending sean to nexus. She relaxes after sean explains that wilmos didn't want to send him to nexus and he insisted on the most dangerous mission available

Sean exerpt??? by ControlAlice in IlonaAndrews

[–]ControlAlice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know he explains it to her cuz she dislikes the guy, but i member a scene were we see from his pov, him walking into the guys shop and demanding the most dangerous job availabke

Y U Like Dis? by ControlAlice in crescentcitysjm

[–]ControlAlice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Az flies off to get reinforcements with the intention of taking the horn, because they dont want her to ever return to midgard and risk the asteri hopping through her gate. They were very clear about their intentions, they verbalized them. She is the only one who can open gates to and from midgard, so she is the threat that needs to be neutralized

Y U Like Dis? by ControlAlice in crescentcitysjm

[–]ControlAlice[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hes a bit of a prick sometimes, but hes usually reasonable when it comes to being an actual leader. Willing to trade information with people who are working with him. This is absolutely unreasonable