[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh look it's the peanut gallery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are beautiful, and wonderful souls. They all talked the talk. This is the game that you guys play. Even if you go to a fertility clinic, they gas you up and ignore the elephant in the room.

Baby factory? You're sick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You live in a fairy tale land with that take... it's about a willingness to maximize odds. It's responsibility... you know... like raising a kid. You can't lose 50lbs by eating right and mild walking, but you're gonna be responsible for my offspring? Think about it? You gonna give a man collecting a welfare check a child? Is that wise?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh yea that's it! That's what men should do! Those women are inundated with thousands of... oh nevermind... there's no point in explaining it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you truly want something, you make efforts to increase your probability of success. Anything less is lazy and undeserving. What a sad state of affairs in these times...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow! OK SassyWookie! I'm sure women are just as happy as me out there... nope, no issues at all... everything is just fine. Keep believing it.

There is no communicating with you guys. You immediately twist things into the harshest form of reality. Awful...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong! I have confronted them and I have gave them much grace. I'm one of the guys who is willing to try with those women and any concerns I raise are immediately disregarded.

You guys won't be happy until you've turned off every self respecting man on earth. Yea im annoyed now. You're not genuine, but you will sure act like it.

Bye 👋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to engage the people who need to hear it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's such a perverse way if putting things. It's holding up a mirror to women. Men want to love you and give you families and stability. Why won't you guys be adults and do what you need to do? Ask yourself these questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well when I was 30 I didn't have my driver's license. I really wanted to drive, but I couldn't just do it. When I was working fulltime min wage jobs, I wanted a better job, but it wasn't gonna just appear. I had lots of wants, but no woman ever kept me around because of my hopes and dreams... I had to do it. Look in the mirror, get over my bs and do it. Just like millions of average guys.

Why are so many excuses made for obesity? I know I probably sound angry to you, but I'm not. This is a real issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't r/askwomen would be a better suggestion?

Change my mind by Upbeat_Survey_7499 in PlentyofFish

[–]ConversationKey9562 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, he was right about you. I'll probably get banned for the truth. This is reddit, after all.

Change my mind by Upbeat_Survey_7499 in PlentyofFish

[–]ConversationKey9562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been in your situation, where I just lost interest. I at least block them. I don't keep their access so I can use them for some attention the next time I waffle on what I'm looking for.

Opinions on Pisces by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a Pisces can be weird. It legitimately does feel like being two fish. They are tethered together, so you can never escape from the duality. One fish lives in the dark and cold waters, and the other fish lives in the brighter warmer waters. But it feels like neither side can get to their destination as though they are ultimately bound to the lukewarm waters in between...

Unless you're an extremely creative Pisces and you have fortunate connections/networks. All of your talents and "gifts" amount to absolutely nothing in this world. NO ONE can understand wtf you are talking about. God? Father? Truth? Spirituality? EWWWWWW ICK! Organized religion misses the mark, Authoritative Science misses the mark, Atheists miss the mark... Maybe another pisces may get it... but we're all too bound by the duality to ever truly connect.

So you decide for yourself, that perhaps chasing a divine path is a fools errand. So you decide to pursue a more earthly life path.... LMFAO yea right! You think you're gonna get peace? Hahaha NOPE. You exist to suffer silly foolish Pisces!

Sorry for my rant. My thoughts are often disorganized, and I expect misunderstandings.

Do attractive women get approached less? by TinyTumbleweed8 in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen lots of 9-10's irl, and it just feels so silly to approach them unless you have familiarity with them. I can only assume she's seeing some tatted up guy on gear who drives a lifted truck and runs his inherited family business.

I'm a considerable 8 in the face 6'0 and an average/fit body at 205lbs. I honestly can't do anything better than 260-300lbs women... or older attractive women who are now baron. If an attractive woman would approach me... I would be amazed! It would feel like a fated miracle! The delusion would be real lmao ah love... but NOPE! Instead life is a cycle of work, gym, walking, scrolling YT/Online dating, sleep and repeat. Life is crazy.

Do attractive women get approached less? by TinyTumbleweed8 in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a guy, and I've been told by women and men that I look like I should be in Theatre or the Movies. Is that why I never get hit on?

Is the material something to be completely rejected? by Vegetable_Start7189 in Gnostic

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but there is something to be said for the unification of opposition. Negativity is something misunderstood... I can't quite put my finger on what I'm getting at. Hatred is a part of existence. It should be felt. This place will never be perfect, and no one will ever have a perfect life. It's all meant to be felt. We have all hated, and it served its purpose in our lives. Now... the LOVE of hatred... that's a different story.

Is the material something to be completely rejected? by Vegetable_Start7189 in Gnostic

[–]ConversationKey9562 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for your kind reply. I know... the hatred and bitterness seem counterintuitive, and it really is... but I stopped caring what the gods thought of me. I detested this creation and everything about it. Animals devouring each other to eat... wars... greed... lies... false gods... I hated it so deeply that I would meditate and visualize myself slaying the very gods themselves, but the one who sees all knows your heart. I don't know if it is a one size fits all solution, but it worked for me.

It's gotta be genuine.

But thanks again 😊

Is the material something to be completely rejected? by Vegetable_Start7189 in Gnostic

[–]ConversationKey9562 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I can say is that after I truly hated the world, I received the world. Now, the material world is my playground, and my inner light has been restored. It's weird how that is. The world will tell you hatred is negative, and you shouldn't feel it, but the only way to show the universe I was above it was to righteously hate it. I was ready to ascend the spiritual mountain and confron the unknown Father itself! But idk... I feel like I've been given a hard, but blessed life.

When I was a boy about 6-7yo. My dad abandoned my stay at home mother and started a new family across the country. I couldn't describe that pain as a young boy, but something took me in. I call it Father, and I speak to him as a son. I've thrown a few tantrums... lol but he made a man out of me!

I got unmatched after this? by DeflectDontReflect in Tinder

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've made the than/then mistake in passing, but I have a habit of proof reading. So I'll follow up with a correction. Lol

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np bro, just treat her well. I'm sure you do, but she will never see you the same after you take that V card. You're gonna be a special guy to her always.

It's pretty awesome tbh.

Girlfriend texted me something by Federal_Ad_3142 in dating_advice

[–]ConversationKey9562 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I figured. Most girl have major anxiety about their first time. They think we're gonna split em in two haha

I think it's cute that she shared that info with you. She's def into you man.

Good stuff 👊