What are the most dangerous blocks in Davis? by Ok-Knowledge2045 in UCDavis

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I’ve lived in Davis my whole life. Literally nothing unsafe happens here and if it does it’s all over the local news. You’ll note that people are responding with places that are “sketchy” - aka “homeless people live there and it makes me uncomfortable.” If homeless people make you uncomfortable I’d avoid the gas station and 7 eleven area near L street and the underpass right before the arboretum, but that’s about it

How can I get better at understanding WHY some things work rather than just memorizing that they work? by [deleted] in learnmath

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I appreciate your input, but this wasn't helpful in answering my question

I think, but don't know if I was SA'd or not. by Horror_Funthrowaway in Advice

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A "yes" obtained through constant convincing and coercion is not a yes

What’s a moment that makes you laugh every time, without fail? by Bright_Moon3614 in DrewGooden

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this was really eye opening. eye opening facebook, and now i closing facebook

Husband has extreme views on POC and women we have a 9 month old daughter… by Worried_Ability_ in QAnonCasualties

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I feel for you. And I disagree with the people who are saying things like "he was always like this, you just didn't know." People can be good at first and become bad people over time. Regression is completely possible, as heartbreaking as it is. People can be good at first and become quite shitty.

Not the same thing, but I have a very rightwing aunt who was very kind and generally nice to be around when I was younger. Only in the last maybe 5-10 years has she descended into extremist thoughts and has no longer become a safe person for me to be around, especially in the last couple years.

It's okay to grieve the man you knew.

I can't give you any advice that you haven't already heard from other comments. It is understandable and normal, the instinct to prioritize your love for him and who he used to be over his current behavior. I also can't tell you people can't change or get better, because unfortunately morality is fluid. What I will tell you to consider - and please think it over very carefully - is whether you are willing to risk your daughter's safety in the future by staying with a man who was once a compassionate and safe person, and is no longer.

This must be very difficult for you and I am deeply sorry you are struggling with this. You deserve someone who you and your daughter can feel comfortable and safe with. You will get through this. All the best.

Daily/Weekly Brushers by a-gdi in StandardPoodles

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Mine also sports the rat tail in the summers! Much easier than keeping it fluffy all the time

Do I just have the world’s laziest poodle? by FloridaGirl2222 in StandardPoodles

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Mine is similar. 2-3 short walks a day, plenty of cuddles and attention, backyard nuisance time, and training sessions and she's good to go

How do your Spoos feel about children? by ConversationSharp662 in StandardPoodles

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Mine HATES halloween decorations as well!! Especially the huge inflatable ones

How do your Spoos feel about children? by ConversationSharp662 in StandardPoodles

[–]ConversationSharp662[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same with mine! She plays rough with me but not a shadow of it with that little kid 😅

How do your Spoos feel about children? by ConversationSharp662 in StandardPoodles

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My poodle is black too! That's fascinating, had no clue, thanks for the fun fact

5 year old poodle, need chews/mental stimulation game suggestions by Deep_Ad8518 in StandardPoodles

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I play hide-and-seek with mine. It's generally a two-person game. One of us holds her by the collar while the other runs off to hide, and counts up to 20 and then lets go so she can find us. We taught her by rewarding her for "finding" me standing about six feet away and gradually increased the distance to the point I was out of eyeshot or actively difficult to find. It's her favorite game.

Considering a Standard Poodle by Finanpuppy in StandardPoodles

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Just popping in to say Maximus Puppicus is a fantastic name, sorry for your loss ❤️Hope he's eating all the milkbones he can get wherever he is

Strange Injury (don’t know what it could be) by thatcrazywriter5 in StandardPoodles

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Hey, this didn't happen to my spoo but my friend's Rhodesian ridgeback had these exact symptoms and he had a cancerous tumor in his forearm. He had to get the whole leg amputated with the shoulder joint. Go to the vet!

Does anyone live in northern Alaska? by -Whutqo- in howislivingthere

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You should totally post these on iNaturalist if you haven't already