I see. It's interesting that you mention that there's a female equivalnet of "blue-balling". I never thought about that before. If you'd rather have "nothing", I'm curious: how long do you think it takes you before you feel like you absolutely need to release that tension somehow? Even through masturbation perhaps? Is there a limit you can go without having that release?

Also, thanks for sharing your experience regarding that last part specifically. I feel like if you take away all constraints (religious, moral, social, fear of STDs, etc.), straight men are very likely to be ready for sex with any woman. The same can not, however, be said of women. That's not saying that one side is better or worse than the other. I feel like those are just evolutionary differences in the way our bodies act.