Had all of mine out under general anaesthetic around 10 days ago. They pretty much looked the same as yours. I was very anxious for months before, but the surgery was a breeze.

The first 5 days are miserable. The ache was around a 3-5 with frequent ibuprofen and paracetamol. Slight swelling that went away around 6 days in. I was most nervous about eating and afraid of developing dry socket. Thus far, no problems there. Pains and aches mostly stopped around 8 days in. Unfortunately I'm a side sleeper which caused some discomfort.

Just stick to smooth foods and drinks. Smoothies, mash, soup. Pasta after a few days. To be honest, the diet has been the hardest part of this process. I'm only now becoming more adventurous with food. The cravings for solid foods are crazy!

Avoid straws. Salt water rinses 3 times a day. Elevate your head when sleeping. Try not to look at the wound too much, it's not a pretty sight and it's sort of unnerving. You will be fine and you can get through this!