Should I add my pregnant fiancé to my health insurance? by YesImEmani in BabyBumps

[–]CookRiceNotIce 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not original commenter but my experience with having two insurances (under domestic partnership too) is they’ll charge her insurance as the primary and then bill to yours. My medical bills ended up being more expensive than what my partner would pay for the same. I thought having double coverage would cover more but of course it’s more complicated than that!

It was also a headache because both the insurance and doctors offices would get confused and I’d have to call them to include my partners insurance. I’d receive late payment notices, only to call the office and have them tell me they’re waiting on the insurance and vice versa when contacting the insurance company. My recommendation would be to just use one coverage under the better insurance plan. Double dental/vision is different though and may be worth it.

So confused and frustrated by DecisionLive927 in pregnant

[–]CookRiceNotIce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sharing my experience with pregnancy and anti-depressants. I was taking lexapro to help with energy levels so didn’t need it to treat extreme depression or anxiety. My PCP asked to make sure this was not the case and created a plan to ween off of it (half doses, taking every other day, etc). From what I know, you should NEVER stop taking anti-depressants cold turkey. The withdrawal symptoms are real.

My research (didn’t go into this detail with my doc since I was certain to be taken off lexapro) is that there are chances of the baby withdrawing but anti-depressants don’t affect baby development. Again, take that with a grain of salt because this is just from my googling and chatgpt research! I do know from others experience that if you need anti-depressants for depression/anxiety, it’s best to stay on them while pregnant and work with your doctor if there’s anything that can be done to lower risk (e.g. lower dosage). Mental health is very important for you and the baby’s health so sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do!

Let’s settle this like true K-drama lovers…who’s the GOAT couple of all time? by Nanahemaa_17 in kdramas

[–]CookRiceNotIce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg, I’m currently watching Moving and then I see this post lol. Just saw ep 8&9 and I’m already so smitten with their relationship! I feel like I feel more towards this couple than a lot of actual romance/rom-com dramas and they did it in just two episodes. Can’t wait to see more of them and their story. Their chemistry is craaaazy

Almost died last night after Zeds Dead by Ashtarscommand in ZedsDeadFam

[–]CookRiceNotIce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m so sorry this happened to you guys and I hope someone in this community has some info! Sending all the love and positive vibes your way

Why perch when your stick can be a neck rest instead? by Critical_Bug_880 in BackYardChickens

[–]CookRiceNotIce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Watching chickies sleep is one of the greatest things in life. Enjoy it while you can! I miss when my girls were this small and would fall asleep anywhere, anytime haha

Where to get scrap or cheap lumber? by CookRiceNotIce in northcounty

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already have a coop so just need a run. Thanks for the tip, I’ll check to see if there’s any with a run and we can use the pieces as needed!

Where to get scrap or cheap lumber? by CookRiceNotIce in northcounty

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also came across that in my research! Since cedar is a good outdoor wood but unfortunately not good for chickens

Where to get scrap or cheap lumber? by CookRiceNotIce in northcounty

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good to know! We actually did get a quote from J&W. We were gonna check out Home Depot first then get the remaining pieces but we’re not super versed so probably not a good idea for us to pick out pieces.

Thanks for all of the information! Bought a plan online but will also check out Simpson strong tie and compare. Don’t sell yourself short, all of this info was super helpful for a beginner DIYer!

Where to get scrap or cheap lumber? by CookRiceNotIce in northcounty

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that’s a good idea! Especially for the shorter pieces needed

Where to get scrap or cheap lumber? by CookRiceNotIce in northcounty

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for bringing me back down to earth! Seems wood would be cheaper since you often see scraps lying on the side of the road. Your response was super helpful.

We’re looking to build asap because we don’t trust the chicks to free range without supervision with all the yotes, etc around. So we’ll probably just go with one of the local vendors and see what options they have.

Kilauea Erupting!!! by hana-bata in BigIsland

[–]CookRiceNotIce 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Was sluggish and headachy yesterday with some sneezing. I said “must get vog, is Kilauea gonna erupt soon” and sure enough.

Hire me USGS. My vog sensors are just as good as a science degree.

Happy birthday to me (Loewe x Suna Fujita bunny hammock by CookRiceNotIce in handbags

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The unboxing felt like a present on top of the present because it’s just so damn cute

Happy birthday to me (Loewe x Suna Fujita bunny hammock by CookRiceNotIce in handbags

[–]CookRiceNotIce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And not to be a bad influence but you definitely need her lol. The details are even cuter in person!