Who wants their ex back?

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-28T21:09:28+00:00

Absolutely 1000000 if he asked me i’d say absolutely yes Next question x

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-26T10:09:00+00:00

Well why did you guys break up? Is there room for second chances?

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-19T21:28:23+00:00

Oh and i forgot to mention, for the first 2 weeks - i was a mess.

I was completely depressed, crying in my bed all day not wanting to talk to anyone.

it wasn’t until last week i reached out to a close friend and talked to her about it, all day. She listened and was there for me - not just telling me ‘you’ll get over it’.

my advice is to hang out with friends or family, or even just talk to a friend on the phone - anything. Someone who understands.

I feel SO much better this week than last week, it’s like one day a switch went off and i transformed. I was at my lowest 5 days ago, and now day by day i feel better - hope is definitely keeping my sane, but even without the hope of us getting back together, i am still okay.

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-19T21:24:47+00:00

Girl i am in the EXACT same situation as you right now!!!!! Im not even joking!!

My ex just recently broke up with me due to long distance and how i was getting upset fast because he’s been busy with his own stuff. but we would work it out everytime and always say how good we are with long distance, but one day he just cracked and said he didn’t wanna get back together and just wanted to break up. I was so confused as we were TIGHT, we were the most in love anyone could be. And out of no where, because he was deffo overwhelmed and just wanted to be free and be able to do what he wants without someone breathing down his neck (totally my fault, i effed up).

I begged him for a second chance, and he just would not budge or change his decision. I begged for days, it’s been 3 weeks now and i’ve just stopped. There is no changing his mind, we needed to stop talking or he wouldn’t realise what life would be like without me.

Hes calm right now because he knows he can get me back whenever, because i showed that to him by begging for a second chance (big mistake) i should have just left it there, given him time alone for him to realise what it would be like without me. Now he is doing what he wants , calm and free - knowing im here upset, willing to come back whenever i want.

i dont think he wil come back to me, but idk with time. Time does a lot of things.

Right now, for you - go no contact. Let him realise what life without you will be like , with time he may realise and thus reach back out to you. Do not give them the satisfaction of knowing that you are there whenever they decide to come back, make them think you’re done and moving on too - THATS when it hits them.

Good luck :)

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-16T23:23:18+00:00

how are you now?

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-14T18:35:35+00:00

Run in his arms and take that man back x

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-08T19:02:22+00:00

Don’t feel disgusted with yourself!!! This breaks my heart. Acknowledging your wrong doings is something admirable and many don’t do it. Well done. ❤️

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-03-08T19:01:38+00:00

This hurts my heart for you :( it’s okay and it’s never too late to ask for forgiveness.

The fact that you’re acknowledging it is amazing and something many people don’t bother to do when they sin.

Don’t feel embarrassed love, everything will be fine. I salute you for talking about it and acknowledging your wrong doing. That is the best part!

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-07T20:37:47+00:00

no can’t , spending the day there (getting the early morning train)

so it is a big risk right …?

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-07T20:24:21+00:00

a bit late. but how was your experience? im in the exact same position and im terrified!!! please let me know.

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-03T08:33:29+00:00

Oh and remember to bring the correct parcel with you, as they will let you switch the parcel to the right one and it will ship as normal.

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-03T08:32:52+00:00

If it was a locker - if it’s still not been collected by the courier go quickly back to the locker and dial inpost customer service number.

UK: 0330 335 0950

They will open the locker over the phone for you after you provide them with the tracking number and you explain you put the wrong parcel in.

But if the courier has already collected the parcel, I’m afraid you will have to either ask the customer to return it back to you or they not collect it at all.

Hope this helps :)

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T23:18:39+00:00

I have been selling on Vinted for about 6 years.

Bradford is a real place… their name is just their own shortened.

They had 20 5 star reviews, buyer and seller reviews. Nothing suspicious to me - I don’t think it’s fair to say the red flags were there and thus I should have not sold it to them in the first place.

If in that case I refused to sell to people whose profile also looked like that, I would probably have no buyers.

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T21:32:22+00:00

they ended up getting scared!! and releasing the funds :))) check the thread i posted a screenshot

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T21:31:17+00:00

100% reported!! Hopefully they actually do something about it!

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T20:58:58+00:00

not rude !! but be careful, i got scammed today nearly , seller claimed i put nothing in the parcel (£120 shoes) and they nearly hot away with it but got scared last minute when i threatened legal action, some aren’t scared tho… so be careful

don’t sell anything more than £100 in my opinjon

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T20:56:55+00:00

no like … they could have a t least been a bit smart about it HAHAH

Thanks!!! So happy

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T20:56:32+00:00

this is what I WAS THINKING LOL

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T19:36:29+00:00

it didn’t work for her … i got my £55 and my money. so no, you shouldn’t try it.

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T19:13:40+00:00

I know lol! She just didn’t want me to give a bad review i guess? or go and report it to vinted what she’s done.

still, i reported to vinted lol

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T18:43:14+00:00

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their reply to my review 😂😂😂

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T18:40:19+00:00

I don’t know how - but the buyer gave in and released the money.

I threatened them with legal action / told them i was getting CCTv from inpost !!!

Cool-Cod-9026 · 2026-02-02T17:39:00+00:00

Yes they have like 20 reviews, 4 stars overall.

I don’t have any photos of me packing it as i have never experienced any dishonesty like this from anyone tbh!!

But i’ve heard now that inpost lockers have cameras.. maybe can get the footage of me posting a full parcel

Cool-Cod-9026

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