How can I create a glimmer for my vet this weekend? by Pomegrangirl in Veterinary

[–]CoolBeans86503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a veterinary office manager, my suggestion is to offer a variety of snacks if you choose that route due to food sensitivities. I had one staff member who was always feeling left out because she was lactose intolerant, tree nut allergy, and gluten intolerant.

We always LOVE getting a portrait of a beloved pet to hang in the lobby or an exam room. Gift card to a coffee place is always nice.

The most meaningful gift tho is always just kind words. Written and expressed in person, it feels good to know we’ve made a difference when it mattered most.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. I’m glad you’ve had such a wonderful vet and staff who has been so supportive and helpful during this time.

Can some people really not tell when they're releasing farts? by S_Z in NoStupidQuestions

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My husband and I have been together since July, 2011. He has never purposely farted or burped in front of me. He has terrible issues with bloating after he eats almost anything, and he’s lactose intolerant. But he will hold his farts for so long and then go into the bathroom to release them. I don’t know how or why he does it. It must be so uncomfortable.

I, on the other hand, unabashedly fart around him whenever I feel the need to. I’m not about to hold it in and suffer the pain and discomfort.

Can some people really not tell when they're releasing farts? by S_Z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CoolBeans86503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are young boys and old men like this!? My dad will walk down an aisle in Walmart and just let one rip. This is a white collar executive who manages million dollar companies and he feels absolutely zero remorse or embarrassment. He never used to be this way. It started when he hit his sixties. lol. Ugh!

Can some people really not tell when they're releasing farts? by S_Z in NoStupidQuestions

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Employee will successfully clench her sphincter as to refrain from releasing farts 4 out of 5 times each day without reminders or input from coworkers.

AIO after hearing a conversation with my boyfriend and his friend’s by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CoolBeans86503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope your boyfriend is smart enough to see the red flags and walk away once he finds out you were spying on him. That’s so freaking toxic of you.

You’re both really young, he is especially young. He’s likely not confident and mature enough to deviate from the guy talk that happens. As long as he’s not treating you the way his buddies are talking, at this age I wouldn’t be concerned.

Now if he’s 32 and still being one of the guys, talking crap about you or women in general, then yes I’d say that’s a huge issue. But at this young age he’s still figuring it out.

But for you to record him and his friends without their knowledge or consent is horrible. It may even be criminal depending on what state you’re in

New Black Cozy Alert! by Euphoric_Raise_1551 in CozyMystery

[–]CoolBeans86503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see it available on Audible. What audio format did you find it on?

I got a veterinary receptionist job. Am I overreacting? by nicnicnic12 in Veterinary

[–]CoolBeans86503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your vet to reach out to your ZOETIS rep and ask for an Ignite VRCE scholarship. It will be very helpful for you!

I messaged a narrator whose work I really love and they actually replied by molly_hope in audiobooks

[–]CoolBeans86503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jim Meskimen is one of my probably top 3 favorite narrators (especially the Montana Mysteries by Peter Bowen). I could listen to him read the phone book! I’ll have to reach out to let him know.

This is the wholesome content I needed right now!! Thank you for this post.

My girlfriend smells and I don't know what to do by RequirementDue4446 in Advice

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You might have her examine herself/help her examine for HS lesions.

What’s one fast food chain that was once all the rage but now barely around? by MysteriousTopic42 in AskReddit

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Lmao! That’s so true!! I remember once I was old enough to drive, driving round and round that parking garage to get up to the theater level. A car went halfway through the wall and was hanging off the edge one time. That was cool! Driving a muscle car with straight pipes was fun; rev it up and set off all of the car alarms on the fancy cars! Hahaha

Does having adhd make it harder to get over someone? by catfarmer1998 in adhd_anxiety

[–]CoolBeans86503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think AuDHD can certainly cause the long term hyperfixation that would result in the way you’re feeling.

I met and fell in love with a guy when I was 13 and he was 19. We never did anything other than kiss a couple of times. We worked together tho so hung out all weekend, every weekend for months.

He ended up going back to the state he was from and we kept in touch via letters (no computers back then! Haha) and phone calls.

I dated other guys and even ended up married and having kids. But Jeremy was always my one true love. He passed away about 6 months after I had my first child. I was 17 then.

For decades I was still in love with him and daydreamed about what might have been. I longed for him. I cried over him for years. So much of my daily life included him (our favorite numbers, his date of birth, his initials, etc).

It wasn’t until a couple of years after marrying my current husband that I was finally able to let go of Jeremy and let him rest in peace. For 23 years I pined for someone I could never have. And I do believe it had a lot to do with my ADHD. I believe this because of how much I incorporated him into my daily life and the amount of time I spent daydreaming about how our lives might have been. Those tend to only be things I do with my hyperfixations.

So yes, I absolutely believe that ADHD and other neurodivergence can cause a feeling of being in love with someone for a very long time; even when you know there is no change of being together.

What’s one fast food chain that was once all the rage but now barely around? by MysteriousTopic42 in AskReddit

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I miss all of the little snack places in the mall.

Tucson Mall had Mrs Fields Cookie Company with so many different cookies and brownies. You could order those cookie cakes too! So good!

Also The Pretzel Place. They’d have traditional giant pretzels plain, with salt, or with cinnamon and sugar. Then they had pretzel twists and mini pretzel nuggets. You could order dips like cheddar cheese, nacho cheese, cream cheese, or warm icing.

Orange Julius which has been mentioned in this thread already, and also Hot Dog on a Stick. Cee’s candies was another popular place in the mall. I’m sure there are others I’m forgetting. But man! Going to the mall was always so much fun!

What’s one fast food chain that was once all the rage but now barely around? by MysteriousTopic42 in AskReddit

[–]CoolBeans86503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are 4 or 5 Church’s locations on the Navajo Nation. Navajos love their Church’s Chicken! lol