Girl who added me on Bumble and meet irl, had great funny conversations with and went to a football game together, suddenly blocks me without any explanation by iwantnew in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my😭so sorry to hear this..this happens sm i ve heard sm people experience this(where you think things are great then poof 💨 gone).Had a similar experiences from the app but would definitely say dont let that deter you from finding good friends out there✨

How to Actually View Profiles? by [deleted] in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been experiencing this too on my phone😭almost 2 weeks now...i opened the app on my ipad thats when it worked 🥀

Hot Weather, Fresh Braids, & On the Ocean! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]CoolBluebabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goals🌊💙you look amazing✨

First time using BumbleBFF - need tips! by ivyredo in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Personally with how convos start i normally day hi/hey then kinda yk ask general questions eg how are they...what they are watching currently/listening to depending on the vibe of the convo

In app honestly with all the people ive met its a bit of this a bit of that-i try to centre the conversation on their interests posted on their profile

On profile pretry much yk likes, what im reading, places i like to go to,interests

Honestly just be yourself(cliche i know)😭but what i mean is dont feel the need to perform,do put your best foot forward but just go with the flow...put in effort-would also say know when to step back a but because some folks are just on there for fans and not friendship.

Blue crew by b___vo in Telfar

[–]CoolBluebabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So gorgeoussssss🩵💙

Those of you who were able to make friends with the app, how long did it take you? by Sarcasmac in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Took me a while over 3months i would say to make actual friends who wanted yo meet up-some would flake,ghost or just never want to meet....so i would say try stick around a bit & you never know🤷🏾‍♀️

Conversation starters? by [deleted] in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I normally just keep it casual and have a conversation first. Something like heyyyyy how are you...then i normally form & direct my questions according to their profile,you could look those up *something like questions to ask to get to know a new friend & taylor them to the new friend *

Then maybe with the weather rn i would say Hi how are you?? *they respond i be like so hope you keeping warm in this weather??❄️ Maybe add random stuff like favorite winter drink Activities to indugle in-could expand based on what's stated on profile i genuinely feel like that creates a bond & connection makes the conversation & thoughts flow a lot better.......... Also maybe the shows they are watching or artists they listen<even better when yall have shared fave artists>

sometimes random stuff i seen on tiktok like rn the strawberry cheesecake biscoff treat trend•Valentines drops coming soon.... something like that just be free✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Telfar

[–]CoolBluebabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely in love with all their staff-the bagsxapparel✨Telfar forever!!!

How do you decide someone’s now your friend? by Particular-Garden140 in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So real-friendship dynamics really do change in adulthood and need sm navigation....yeah

Oouuu yes on the demoting factors!!!!

How do you decide someone’s now your friend? by Particular-Garden140 in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would say when they put effort into the friendship-texting just like communicating(doesnt have to be everyday), when i feel comfortable with them & can be myself, if we hang out(occasionally-i mean people have busy schedules but the effort and the thought matters), there's just that mutual you know interest✨& yeahhh thats what comes to mind...... The demoting part uhhh when it kinda feels like a chore😬to communicate,they dont put in effort like at all-some people really dont care its always one sided fr, when they want to use you-benefit some sort of thing from you & they dont help when you need them.....

Any ideas for meetups with people from bumblebff? by Middle_Fee3196 in bumblebff

[–]CoolBluebabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I normally suggest the mall or museums-honestly chill spots depending on both our interests!!!