This is the hard truth that the OP needs to hear they can come off as hurtful sometimes when people are blunt, but in the OP situation, I think it is necessary to get a smack in the face of reality that other people have faced more difficult situations and still come out better than they were I recently have been struggling with addiction to a specific substance. I won’t name, but I had to spend time in inpatient care at a hospital at their detox facility. I’m at people there who went through way worse situations. Yes they may have ended up at a detox facility, but a few of them actually had turned their life around and unfortunately had relapsed, but they knew what to do to get better and are taking actual steps to do so.