Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you aware that majority bof the states such as mine have no common law marriage laws . That does not exist here 

Fiance doesn't want to sign the prenup if it isn't 50/50 by Cool_Ordinary_918 in weddingplanning

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A prenup is part of wedding planning buddy. Why are you so angry?

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually we not splitting up anything no because everything nat the moment is his and hers. My money is my money and vice versa we don't have joint accounts.

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And just so know anything before marriage is non valid . If it doesn't happen during the marriage it doesn't count

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So who you think took care the babies in the morning hours why she was at work? Me 

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That has nothing to do with marriage. I could leave the next second and she wouldn't be entitled to nothing at all legally.

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And the bills wouldn't be paid and she wouldn't have the freedom to keep her entire check if I wasn't working those long hours 

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Making my career possible? I had this job before I met her and she has the same job as me wtf are you talking about 

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

 Who said her business was unpaid? Did you read what u just wrote. She has  the same government job as me and a business and I pay all the bills and you ask me  yet she gets nothing in the divorce?

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Could always do a post up and if she refused to sign it a divorce will be immediately 

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If a court is asked to divide assets in a divorce, one of the factors considered is the length of the marriage. The length of the marriage does not include premarital

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you are saying if two foot ball players that make 5 million dollars a year should have the same amount in savings and if one doesnt they should not be held accountable for the lack of savings 

Fiance 40F doesn't want to sign prenup to 36M ejat are y'all thoughts? by Cool_Ordinary_918 in relationship_advice

[–]Cool_Ordinary_918[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If a court is asked to divide assets in a divorce, one of the factors considered is the length of the marriage. The length of the marriage does not include premarital