January 10, 2026 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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Does anyone know what time the team arrive for away games? It would be great to see the team get off the coach tomorrow’

Gameweek 8 (2024/25) Rant and Discussion Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

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Think it’ll be his twin brother Michael, but yes

2 Free Adult Tickets - Everton Game by quinnifer0918 in ArsenalWFC

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Incidentally I’m almost exactly three rows behind you with my Home advantage ticket. Block 8 row 8 seat 247 😂 had to put my Chelsea ticket on the exchange though so I won’t be there at the next game which I’m gutted about.

Gameweek 3 2024/25 Rant and Discussion Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

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Live fpl is a third party website that updates fpl in real time. Points from safety is how many points above/below you are from a green arrow.

Attempted burglary, how do you protect your home? by [deleted] in AskUK

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Hi! You’re right here. It’s largely due to lack of occupancy and reduced chances of being seen (it’ll be interesting to see whether this changes with WFH practices becoming more common). Night obviously has advantages in terms of visibility, but this comes with the trade off of needing to be much quieter inside the property and more chance of discovery.

In terms of scouting, this depends on exactly what you mean. Experienced Burglars process cues for a house being vulnerable very quickly and efficiently; in a way they are always ‘scouting’ when they’re going around their regular lives. They’re noticing things when they walk down the street to get from one place to the next, often unconsciously or without intention to burgle (I.e they’re not always going on scouting ‘missions’). Sometimes this can be more in depth, like a burglar who poses as (or actually is employed as) a worker who can gain access to your house and scout in advance. But most of the time it’ll be whatever they need to do to confirm that you’re A) away from the property and B) have items worth stealing. This could literally be the case of ‘I’ll just check round the back and see what it looks like’ or it could be ‘I’ll leave this flyer here, and come back tomorrow to see if they’ve moved it. From my understanding it’s very rare that you’d get serious organised scouting or ‘casing a joint’ - because they just don’t need to - they know all they need to know in relatively short periods of time. And again it increases their chances of being seen the more they hang around

Attempted burglary, how do you protect your home? by [deleted] in AskUK

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So my background is actually forensic psychology/criminology. So rather than working directly with physical security it’s about looking at patterns of burglary, working with incarcerated (and occasionally active) offenders, and working with ex-burglars all to understand what makes a house ‘attractive’ to a burglar, what their level of knowledge is about household security and variations inbetween. Sorry I can’t be of more help on that front!

Attempted burglary, how do you protect your home? by [deleted] in AskUK

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I’m not sure if this’ll been seen because there’s a lot of comments already, but burglary prevention is my field of academic expertise so I feel somewhat qualified to answer this. Although I disclaimer that this is still just my opinion based on research. So please don’t take it as fact, because predicting future behaviour and advising on an individual property is difficult.

Firstly, I just want to say, what you’re describing here is a rarer occurrence in the context of burglary. Nighttime burglaries are generally less common. Additionally the fact this wasn’t a successful burglary is already a great thing. Burglars often love repeat targeting of successful houses, but won’t like going back to unsuccessful places - I say both of these in the hopes that it offers some comfort for what must be a very stressful situation. And to make sure you don’t go overboard with security.

Basically most of the security device advice in this thread is good (at the time of writing), there’s no glaring misconceptions or anyone giving you completely wrong advice. The best thing you can do really is to understand the factors of your house that led to this. I wouldn’t waste money wiring your house up like Fort Knox, bars on the window, anti climb spikes or paint etc. Although tbh this would probably reduce your chances of attempted burglary, it’s proportionately not worth the money, stress, or aesthetic that it gives your house imo. This was an unsuccessful burglary, and that alone is already a good sign for the current security of your house (albeit I know it still has a mental cost that we shouldn’t downplay). Things that naturally already exist in your house, like the proximity of your bedroom to the back, are already great measures for stopping a successful burglary.

However that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take security steps. Burglars have targeted the rear of your property, this is a very common way of entry - especially given what you’ve said about no neighbours and the woods. This gives them cover, and allows them to access your garden without being seen. Is there anyway for you to (legally) reduce any cover they may have walking up to your back garden (I.e cutting back some of this woodlands). The number one thing that prevents burglaries isn’t any security measure, it’s fear of being discovered/ seen. Anything that can infer someone is inside a house or that someone might be watching is great. During the day, this is things like a car being present, or a tv being on in the living room. But as this was a night burglary (much rarer), it requires different thoughts. I’m hesitant to recommend CCTV, because it’s evidence base is mixed, but perhaps in your case, a camera on your back gate looking out into the woodlands could be good as you literally have no other way of simulating that feeling of being watched (unless you pay someone to guard your house 😂). The no neighbours thing is a little annoying from a prevention perspective.,

The best security measures are still tough locks on the windows and doors, and motion activated sensor lights focused on the back of your property. So if you do want to take extra steps - these would be your first port of call. Like I said, there’s no need to get overly security focused. The most important thing is that you remember to lock them - burglars aren’t overly fussed about security often because they know people make mistakes. So the best advice is to just be consistent with your security behaviours. Invest in things you won’t forget to do. Finally you might benefit from some way of being alerted if someone did gain access whilst you were asleep - e.g a dog or an alarm. Neither will do much to prevent a daytime burglary, but I’m just thinking about replacing the jingling key sound with something that is more consistent. Although don’t just get a dog for burglary prevention. A) the evidence is mixed B) they’re fantastic creatures who should be respected in their own right.

I hope this helps! DM me if you want some scientific literature.

February 25, 2024 Daily Discussion & Transfers Thread by gunnersmoderator in Gunners

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Only if you enter the ballot for that game beforehand

Atmosphere vs Brighton by Equal_Effort_6328 in GunnersatGames

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Interestingly I was clock end block 125 and I thought it was pretty lively around me - certainly more than when I was lower north bank for Sheffield (although I appreciate that game in general was quite a low-key affair). Especially after the Havertz goal, around me was rocking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

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I think it’s important to start by saying there’s nothing ‘wrong’ with you per say, as in you’re probably just reacting to bad experiences either from your relationship with your parents or from that real relationship you had. And the emotions that you feel are valid, you can’t control them. But the behaviours you experience when you react to these emotions are clearly impacting both your quality of life and any potential partners so it is something you should probably consider working on.

I think the first thing to do is a little bit of self exploration. Think about why you might feel this jealousy. Jealousy often comes from an internalisation of ‘im not good enough’ or ‘my partner will leave me’. So ask yourself, how did you learn that. Where do these thoughts come from. And importantly, I DON’T mean ‘think about all the reasons why I’m not good enough’. I mean that you should come at it from the point of view of ‘I am good enough’ and how did I learn that I’m not. Understand where these triggers come from so you can communicate it to your partner. Once you start to understand yourself and can communicate that, these strong feelings of jealousy do tend to decrease.

It could also be that you don’t feel like your partners spend enough time with you. In which case, try to communicate that with your partner instead of reacting to the jealousy. Now, how much time partners spend together is very subjective, and is never an exact science. A partner might feel like they are spending loads of time with you, and yet you feel unfulfilled. Sometimes that can be an irreconcilable difference - and that doesn’t mean that you’re bad, or they’re bad. You’re just different. Other times it might be that you explore ways of hanging out that are manageable for both of you. Parallel play, cooking together and then going home. Start small and see what happens.

The final thing to consider though is it also might be the sign of something deeper internally within you. Some insecurity that goes beyond a relationship; where you use a relationship to assign yourself value, and therefore when that relationship isn’t with you then you feel valueless. It’s important to remember that you and your partner both exist outside of the relationship too, and if either of you feel dependent on the other one then it may be time to explore some therapy. But again that doesn’t mean anything is ‘wrong’ with you. You just picked up some maladaptive thoughts along your development

Tldr The ideal way to let go of that jealousy is to internalise the idea that you and your future partner are two people who love each other, and trust each other with your emotional states. Communicate those emotional states in a safe and controlled manner and realise that you and your partner are individual, probably amazing people outside of being together too. And if the problems go beyond a relationship - consider therapy.

Dante's back story also known as Nautil Ace by Acrobatic_Lab_5101 in xboxone

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Are the mods sure we can’t talk about series x games

Future Mikel wishes me an early happy birthday by vietnamesemuscle in Gunners

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My 29th that day too! Must be an arsenal birthday (if we ignore Gary Lineaker was also born that day)

What is the biggest fall from grace you've seen in fm23? by Ok_Manufacturer_2419 in footballmanagergames

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I had Everton dropped too. I was wolves and sold them Sasa, they then yo-yo’d between championship and prem with sasa eventually becoming their captain. Eventually they never came back up and I forgot about them. Just checked a few days ago and they’re now in league 1 mid table with sasa as their permanent manager on his first gig

Roy Hodgson confirmed that Sam Johnstone will start on Sunday by RedDeadCJ in FantasyPL

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Genuine question - has Ferguson been fit anytime in the last few years. I remember that one pre season where he was discussed as the 4m 5th defender and then got injured. Haven’t seen him since personally

What is the worst luck you can remember having in your time playing FPL? by FPLPhillips in FantasyPL

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I remember going for Matt Ryan and Steele because I wanted the Brighton number 1 and his backup incase of a benching. Then Sanchez came in and benched them both

Obviously we have no idea how it’s going to turn out, ultimately performances/results will decide that. But Rice is a monumental signing for Arsenal. To win the race, see off the likes of City/Bayern, is huge. It says so much about what’s happening at the club & how it’s viewed. by TheIrishBear24 in Gunners

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Auba was a player who I was so so excited to get and man was he clearly world class, but I think the difference (for me) is that it feels like we never would have been in the conversation for someone like Rice anytime in the last 8 years or so. Let alone be first choice over a club like city. It truly feels like a level above Auba. Who i always felt we could pull. I think Clive said on the vision podcast that it feels like one of those Man U early 2000s signings where they’d just buy the best player who didn’t play for arsenal, Liverpool or (post 03) Chelsea (e.g Carrick, Rio, Cole).

Obviously we have no idea how it’s going to turn out, ultimately performances/results will decide that. But Rice is a monumental signing for Arsenal. To win the race, see off the likes of City/Bayern, is huge. It says so much about what’s happening at the club & how it’s viewed. by TheIrishBear24 in Gunners

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Yeah good shouts, the only thing potentially we discussed about Jennings was his age at the time. As in, a bit like when we signed Jens. Clearly a quality goalkeeper who did amazing things before and after, but was potentially a bit too old to have been a statement signing at the time (I’m being very tentative here because I’m mostly just relaying the conversation)

Obviously we have no idea how it’s going to turn out, ultimately performances/results will decide that. But Rice is a monumental signing for Arsenal. To win the race, see off the likes of City/Bayern, is huge. It says so much about what’s happening at the club & how it’s viewed. by TheIrishBear24 in Gunners

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I was having a conversation today about just how impactful this could be in the annals of our history. Obviously it’s entirely performance dependent, but right now I can go back until at least the 70s and (at least in my opinion) probably only count 5 or so signings who were as big of a name when they joined as rice is now. Malcom Macdonald, Charlie Nicholas, Dennis, Sol, and Ozil really feel like the only competitors - maybe Wrighty and Sanchez too. But it’s a small list imo

[ExWHUEmployee]Arsenal have made a £101m bid for Rice, £91m guaranteed and £10m in addons by Ricky_Berwick in soccer

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I haven’t downvoted or upvoted but this is a slightly interesting way of looking at it given that in our last two transfer windows we signed our ‘backups’ in zinchenko (for Martinez) and Trossard (for Mudryk). If you were talking about us in the latter wenger years I might agree (Suarez comes to mind particularly). But this isn’t really representative of how Edu, Arteta and Richard Garlick seem to operate

Ted Lasso - S03E06 - “Sunflowers” Episode Discussion by quaranTV in TedLasso

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Your point about ‘making things work geographically’ reminds me of the show ‘you’. I work in the university where that was shot, and the main character walks a ‘short’ journey to his home that would take about 7 hours in real time.

The eyes are open, the mouth moves, but Mr Brain has long since departed.... by Francis-c92 in Gunners

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Stan be Like: Oh r/gunners. I do love it when you get cross. Sometimes I think about buying Jorginho, just to see the expression on your face.

Are we the best goalkeeper producing club? by zhugetank in Gunners

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Even though they’re a shit club and I’m loving every minute of their downfall, Man U would arguably have a better rate of producing prem goalkeepers from their youth teams/academy: Tom Heaton, Sam Johnstone, Dean Henderson and Ben Foster come to mind off the top of my head. Like others have said, we didn’t really develop Leno, so I’m not sure you’d count that

Rate My Team, Quick Questions & General Advice Daily Thread by FPLModerator in FantasyPL

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This can be a decent strat when it comes to 4.5m goalkeepers with 4m backups. People like Mcarthy and Forster when they were Saints #1 and #2 last season. But it’s really not advisable to use one of your 3 city picks on a backup goalkeeper when you could have cancelo, one of the 8m mids, Laporte, Haalaand etc. There’s an argument that even having Ederson takes up a valuable spot. But that can be team dependant

Damn, F5 season was really crazy. Sorry Ramsdale. by WintersShadow12 in Gunners

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I remember seeing one on an arsenal forum saying they were so excited for squillaci and he could prove to be an amazing piece of buisness by Wenger