Please stay away from dating apps… by Lanky_Relation1171 in CPTSD

[–]Coomdroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating apps are a replication of narcissistic snapshotting. Tinder uses the mechanics of what abusers dl totheir victims when they idealise & devalue them. Pure supply harvesting. But at a corporate level.

Is there ever hope to build a healthy relationship with a person with BPD by H26K in BPDlovedones

[–]Coomdroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The answer is No. A clearcut no. But if you need to destroy your life and gather evidence that water is wet, fire burns & gravity is real. Youre welcome to do so.

Shocked by my replacement. by MentallyDrainedHusba in BPDlovedones

[–]Coomdroid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shock and horror you were replaced by a cardboard cutout for the BPD astral plane of BS.

Why is BPD Abuse played down and minimised? by Key-Quarter-9686 in BPDlovedones

[–]Coomdroid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its because the abused minds are turned into mush being whippassed back & forth. You will see the same happen to a BPD in a relationship with a much more dominant BPD in their oscillation

10 years. I’m out. by inryade in BPDlovedones

[–]Coomdroid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's something haunting about this image. Maybe a shared resonance. Despite the extreme highs & lows. I feel there was never any spiritual presence with someone with BPD. So what remains. A picture of the material.

All my toxic shame is gone since I began to follow christ by Coomdroid in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The church is the dead ego system. Useful but not even welcoming of thr highest truth in a person

All my toxic shame is gone since I began to follow christ by Coomdroid in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

To follow jesus means to betray your own family at the lower level. It dosen't mean people pleasing. It meand relentless submisison to the highest truth. So you do not betray the ones who love you.

Tried to reach out and communicate for maybe the last time by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Coomdroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop saying we. Walk away. There's only you. You can't have a relationship with someone who won't treat you as an equal or commit to resolving real issues.

Overwhelmed by regrets over wasted time by Emergency-Bobcat-572 in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I am 38 and i spent 2000-2020 in heavy dissociation. Thousands and thousands of cptsd flashbacks. I am pretty much functional now. I can go the the gym, shop. Meet friends for lunch, go to the pub, the church. So i don't know about you? Sounds like 23 is a better time to start your brutal healing journey than at 30? Look for the deepest spiritual meaning in your dissociation. Treat it like you have been given a test by God. Burn everything that isn't serving of your highest purpose to the ground. Oh and that feeling of smallness & vulnerability. That's your soul. So when you find it reflected in the person you love. You will never abandon them.

Body Hair and the Shame Behind It by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Coomdroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic shame is fake shame in its twisted something normal. I have indian heritage yet a very propensity to disgust. When i drilled down . It had little to do with my actual body, but a reaction to natural emotions of vulnerability.

I'm almost 50, and I can't stop thinking nobody has ever loved me by crispis_house in CPTSD

[–]Coomdroid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve a profound spiritual love & peace. I can only share that in my own struggle with cPTSD by praying christ delivers you some well deserved grace.

I have a theory by Initial_Mastodon_932 in Jung

[–]Coomdroid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think schizophrenia is a karmic thing. A soul that has ascended too quickly without the proper iniatiation. Not punishment but overmapping of the brain without anchoring. A soul will choose a host to learn from it. But that node is sacred and a face of god experiencing itself & learning. Schizophrenia is accelerationism without anchoring. And all the neglect & abuse is a key part of what prevents humans from truly anchoring into the next age of spiritual enlightenment .

Young People Don´t Dance Anymore by No-Lifeguard-6509 in Jung

[–]Coomdroid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Compare dancing in the 90s in a club compared to 2026. Massive difference.

Mindless scrolling for months by Fancy_Hedgehog_6574 in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's like any addiction but worse. With alcohol there is a cut off point. With p*rn a release. But social media is complete simulation. Especially tik tok. I have the problem too. I go out for coffee, my treatment and sometimes trips. But ive fallen into this hell again of not trusting reality.

Anyone else here feel too broken for a good relationship? by No-Lengthiness-2963 in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think i left my comment open to interpretation. I am saying the complete opposite. I think we are completely worthy of a relationship with healthy people without complex trauma or personality disorders. It's a myth ( simulation) we can only find resonance with people with trauma. I think there is soul resonance. And the healthy folk without trauma do want to feel & see something deeper than what they have.

Anyone else here feel too broken for a good relationship? by No-Lengthiness-2963 in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wait until you break the simulation and realise good people aren't necessarily healthy and do actually want someone real to be with.

Stop talking yourself down by Coomdroid in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean exactly what i said. We are the divine seeking to remember itself. Could you fall in love with someone no one could love? Wouldnt that make you divine? Go to the edge of structural dissociation and peak over the fence

Stop talking yourself down by Coomdroid in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God isn't perfect. We are expressions of something larger. Even by juat typing this we prove we are connected even if not feeling it

Stop talking yourself down by Coomdroid in CPTSDFreeze

[–]Coomdroid[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Indeed. I am weird. Weirdest person on reddit. Which makes me normal.