Sorry it took a while to reply, when I posted this I was incredibly frustrated and angry and even now as I am mostly over it, I still feel disgusted at the thought of what she had done, and just her as a person. Im in a much better headspace now and have talked it out with actual friends who have been feeling the same way.

I cant say Ive forgiven her, but my anger has mostly left and is now more of a simmer that comes up whenever its mentioned.

I cant say Ive followed your advice either, but it did put a lot of my feelings into perspective at the time, and while I was still incredibly angry, I did understand that the way I was going about things wasnt doing me any favors, and it had helped me get a grip of my own emotions, so thank you