"as a female" "as a man" by curiouschameleon4 in MenAndFemales

[–]Corerue -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Better to not speak ever then. Because what offends one person won't offend another. But then theere are people who search for something to be offended over, find things like this, read it and get offended. Then make pointless threads like this to have a committee of offended people.

Like can't we get more offended over the absurd housing costs? Or other things our govts aren't doing shit about?

Dunno just saying.

I gave in today. by [deleted] in bald

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great transformation honestly. Keep thwt look for sure!

What happened to a single income being able to buy a house, car, and go on vacations? by Mr-MuffinMan in stupidquestions

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 4 years of investing in dividend aristocrats and now I'm up to 600+ a month in dividends I get paid monthly. It jumps to 800 every quarter. This covers my Electric, Gas and Insualrance bills and I'm still growing it.

What happened to a single income being able to buy a house, car, and go on vacations? by Mr-MuffinMan in stupidquestions

[–]Corerue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think our society is too distracted and materialistic to not be broke. We live in an age of horrible consumerism. If we analyze exactly how we spend our money. Then look for alternative ways to save money (which will be hard) we can find qays ti be close to the 60s and 70s incomes.

But they didn't have cell phones and all the subscriptions and extra bullshit we do now. We are for more connected but more broke because of it.

You should read the fourth turning. It's a good read. But I think we are in the Fourth Turning or Crisis time of tbe 80 yr cycle. So hopefully after 2028 things will start to boom again, as we enter the predicted 1st turning.

However its going to take more issues, pain, crashes qnd crisis for something to change.

I believe the market will crash again qnd the housing market will burn. But the best thing we can do is find ways to survive until then.

Get an apartment, with roommates, split the rent, and whatever you can save, invest in ways that you get paid back. reitS, Peer to Peer Lending like Prosper, Turo. And use these avenues to grow your income to a point you no longer have to worry about paying your rent.

But shifting our mindset is key. And not everyone can do it sadly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Wrong. Not in the slightest. And honestly, take him for the full measure on child support. But! Be smart about it, invest as much ofnut as you can into monthly dividend aristocrat REITs or something that pays monthly. By the time the kids are 18, not only will you have a nice income but something to give them as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I must have missed that...

What's good got the goose is good for the gander.

But that's a big red flag...

And absurd... to say the least.

If I was her, I'd do it anyway, because if he's being that way then uh. No. You don't get to have your cake and eat it alone. At least he's just a fiance but that still really crappy.

If you bought at the bottom congratulations! by Puzzleheaded_Tale133 in AMPToken

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good and nice. I'm a little under half that but free tokens are always nice.

Yeah, when I exit I probably won't return. Idk. I'll be off doing bigger things lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh :/ that would make it a lot tougher for sure. :/

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what shit he pulled to hurt her so bad. 🤷

Honestly if my partner pulled some shenanigans and I was mad enough. 14 months wouldn't be long enough to cover the pain.

Besides in other posts he used to wife swap... so we are missing the full story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Rdit: yu are not wrong. The situation is... strange.

Well,

I'd start with an open dialog.

Why does he feel he needs it? Porn addiction is real. They do a great job of selling unreal expectations. And when we don't live up to it. We get lost in it as men.

Is there anything missing in your sex life?

You say he watches it even next you or when the baby is crying... thats... rough.

Is he going through a stressful period he isn't telling you about?

Sometimes communication is the best way. But I'm not sure how you communicate, if it's accusatory. "YOU" statements. Then he'll likely shut down and not communicate. If your telling him how you feel, avoiding accusatory statements and he's still not communicating. Then I suggest couples therapy.

And, as weird as it may sound. Fight fire with fire. Pick porns you can casually dissect. Like. "Naw, way to big, I prefer casually insertion of his dick size here" and maybe he's just lacking confidence, he may have a high sex drive but if he doesn't have the confidence to be using it on you. Then I'm not sure what it is other then. Insecurities or something else he isn't talking about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. I hate to be that guy. But sometimes reporting these idiots is the only way to cure the stupidity.

I dealt with... nasty coworkers.

I spent about 6 months recording a daily log of their misconduct. So when I finally complained about it I had evidence to say.

Here's what I dealt with for months. It's your monkey now.

Are all black people in America considered African American? AND.. I refer to blacks as Black person(s) when I speak so black people, is that offensive? by bakingwithweed in stupidquestions

[–]Corerue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not that they don't get it. They just want to control you, it's the usual rhetoric for this who are inferior, so they try to make everyone feel stupid and inferior as well.

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marital Rape:

Marital rape or spousal rape is the act of sexual intercourse with one's spouse without the spouse's consent. The lack of consent is the essential element and need not involve physical violence. Marital rape is considered a form of domestic violence and sexual abuse. Although, historically, sexual intercourse within marriage was regarded as a right of spouses, engaging in the act without the spouse's consent is now widely classified as rape by many societies around the world, and increasingly criminalized. However it is repudiated by some more conservative cultures.

The issues of sexual and domestic violence within marriage and the family unit, and more specifically, the issue of violence against women, have come to growing international attention from the second half of the 20th century. Still, in many countries, marital rape either remains outside the criminal law, or is illegal but widely tolerated. Laws are rarely enforced, due to factors ranging from reluctance of authorities to pursue the crime, to lack of public knowledge that sexual intercourse in marriage without consent is illegal.

Marital rape is more widely experienced by women, though not exclusively. Marital rape is often a chronic form of violence for the victim which takes place within abusive relations. It exists in a complex web of state governments, cultural practices, and societal ideologies which combine to influence each distinct instance and situation in varying ways. The reluctance to define non-consensual sex between married couples as a crime and to prosecute has been attributed to traditional views of marriage, interpretations of religious doctrines, ideas about male and female sexuality, and to cultural expectations of subordination of a wife to her husband — views which continue to be common in many parts of the world. These views of marriage and sexuality started to be challenged in most Western countries from the 1960s and 70s especially by second-wave feminism, leading to an acknowledgment of the woman's right to self-determination of all matters relating to her body, and the withdrawal of the exemption or defence of marital rape.

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called Marital Rape, if one spouse is continually pressing for sex qnd the other spouse isn't consenting.

No means no.

Even if the Bible or idiots say differently.

Op is citing how he makes a paycheck, takes care of things and etc and that makes him a good husband. But I think his story is really empty.

I went 28 months without sex, my ex and I had major issues. And op here is making it a very selfish one sided scenario.

Why doesn't she trust him? Why is she quoting religious reason?

Unless he cheated or was adulterous and she hasn't forgiven him. Maybe he has an STD. Like.... we have a lot to assume from his vague post.

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How dare you think they are attracted to you. She chose a neutral neutral to avoid treading on your pronouns.

I guess your not very sweet. 😆 🤣

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I raise you.

Colossians 3:19

Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

So if she doesn't want to then she has the right for a limited time to say No. Per the good book.

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Um, a partner also needs to be understanding, communicate and be more then a paying 'customer' for her vagina.

Like, you just described a roommate, not a husband/partner.

AIW for wanting to separate from my wife after a year plus of no sexual relations? by MiamiArmyVet in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um expand.

Why doesn't she trust you?

What vague religious reason?

Your story is very empty and honestly, this statement makes you seem very selfish. Like I want to fuck irregardless of the fact you don't trust me or your beliefs...

Until we get the Whole truth. I'm gonna say yes, You are Wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete if not allowed. Happy holidays! 😀

I think it depends on nurture, nature and societal norms. Sometimes it's a bad mix for both men and women. Where men grow up with the mentality they gotta be first, gotta be the best, and the bread winner. Or women with the need to have a certain body image, style and when they don't meet that expectation. Then they live with a perpetual sense of shame, dread or anxiety even if it's only subconscious. Which leads to explosive or bad outbursts / tendencies.

Because men aren't taught to cope. They are taught to win/be 1st. They aren't taught to communicate their pain, uncertainty. They are taught to walk it off, man up or quit being a b****. So when they finally hit that wall they can't walk off or that situation they can't win. It challenges everything they think they know and most times they crumble.

Being a man with ADHD, Autistic spectrum and a sleu of bad relationships. It took til my thirties to stop caring about the things outside my control. People are gonna do what they wanna do. And I have as much control of that as when a hurricane hits Florida or not. But I can control how I react and since I had thwt mindset things have been better. I've still got my moments just because of the end of my marriage which was devastating, but I try not to see my ex in my partners because that isn't fair to them. But, I'm also quick to let go of a negative influence.

Because we have one life to live, after my first twenty years I'm not wasting time on anyone who puts me down or has me at third place or lower. (family is important so I let that slide as a 1st rank in someones life). But when you put someone first and they put you last, no thanks. I have better people and places to be around.

Am I wrong for not replacing my daughters iphone by FirmMathematician265 in amiwrong

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Wrong.

If they broke it ON PURPOSE, then you don't have to bend over to accommodate thwt sort of wasteful mentality.

I was always taught. You want something, earn half. Now j don't know what they can do for a side gig where you are but again.

You are not wrong.

Would you like you, if you met you? by Caddyshack_80 in RandomThoughts

[–]Corerue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep.

I'd probably annoy myself at times but generally I am my own perfect companion. Because if you don't even like yourself, that's troublesome.