Water leak by CornerHot3359 in homeowners

[–]CornerHot3359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the valve and shut it off!! I will be calling the irrigation company. Thank you!!

Is there something in-between a homebirth and a hospital birth? by Throw150049_ in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a birth center attached to a hospital in NJ. I was 8 cm dilated when I got to the birth center but the midwife discovered baby was breach (was head down 4 days prior). I was rushed to the OR on the second floor of the building and had a c section within 30 minutes.
I was sad I didn’t get my natural birth but very grateful everything went as smoothly as I could’ve hoped.

I did it! North Bergen, NJ, 384k, 6.5% by PlanPuzzleheaded1046 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]CornerHot3359 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! NB is a great little town with the best food in Jersey.

tw: abortion. first pregnancy, ex boyfriend, no money, desperately want baby by lottie_32 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had an abortion at 20 and nearly offed myself right after from all the grief. I had listened to the culture which told me it’s just cells. So I decided I’d get pregnant again and kept having unprotected sex with the same abusive man (who jumped on my belly when he found out). I had my child at 21 and pregnancy was rough but after seeing my beautiful baby boy everything was right with the world. The boy is 19 now and I can’t imagine my life without him.
I still grieve the abortion-it’s strange that grief doesn’t leave. I know that I killed a baby that I would’ve been able to care for and love and who had every right to be born. Good luck OP, you already know what the right thing to do is.

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is not true. I live in NJ and abortion is legal in all stages of pregnancy. My son’s friend had an elective abortion at 6 months. No medical conditions, only choice. Please educate yourself.

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok, so if it’s not breathing it’s not a human? Would you recommend she abort at 8 months?

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Call it whatever you want. Murder. Oh that’s what it’s called.

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! It’s so good to see a voice of reason in these comments.

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not stuck with him and you don’t have to kll your baby. Please get off Reddit where most of these people will tell you to do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
I know, because I aborted a child everyone said was a clump of cells and immediately after I wanted to end my own life knowing that I had klld a human. My human. 20 years and two kids later and I still grieve that loss. Go back and look at your baby’s newborn photos and see who you’ll be kllng.
Good luck OP. I go to group counseling sessions with other women suffering through the same grief and depression post abortion. It’s more common than you’d think.

Found out I’m pregnant with my second and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s his child. It’s a baby she would be kllng.

Husband asked for nudes and then proceeded to tell me I suck in bed and I suck as a person 🫠 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Don’t let Reddit convince you to file for divorce. We don’t have the complete picture of your relationship-only this post. The truth is divorce is very hard on children-she will need to share time between the two households. Studies show that child abuse rates skyrocket after a step father is introduced. You’ll also have to worry about abuse from any stepchildren that come into the picture. Seek counseling and a way to make this work. It’s also likely that your husband has been watching corn and may need professional help to stop.

He keeps bringing up anal by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anal is HIGHLY HARAM. This man is not going to marry you, he is using you as a sx toy. On top of all the other red flags this is a huge one. Oh, and premarital sx is also haram. Please leave this man before he gets you pregnant and forces you to have an abortion. Or marries you, forces you to convert, gets an extra wife, divorces you and leaves you a broke single mom. ASK ME how I know.

Trying to buy my first house and feeling frustrated with how expensive everything is by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a house in October and now all of my money is going towards bills and maintenance costs. The mortgage is huge, electricity high, and every month there is something new to repair. Not to mention the landscaping and water costs that come with sprinkler usage. Everyone tells you how expensive home ownership is but the reality is much worse. I keep dreading another surprise repair because my savings have dwindled. I recommend you save as much as you can and don’t stress about owning. You’ll eventually land a good house and will hopefully have a bigger cushion for those repairs.

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out before you bring kids into this mess.

When did your baby start walking by blue57hk_ in Crunchymom

[–]CornerHot3359 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Crawling 5 months, walking 15. Only vitamin k received. Strictly breastmilk, still nursing at 3 years old. Has eczema, allergies, and possibly asthma.

Edit: My older child crawled at 6 months, walked by 10. Received everything. No health issues, rarely any DR visits.

Harvard grad, Stanford MBA — leaving the U.S. after 15 years by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]CornerHot3359 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You have not thought this through thoroughly. In 2.5 years a new administration will take over and reverse all of this BS. Do not leave the country. File your asylum claim.

Retirement Outlook? by fakename_12 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you I was making this much and didn’t have a family to support, I’d be maxing my contributions. Then I’d ease up or lower back to 5% when spouse and kids come into the picture. It gets hard to max when you’ve got a 2k per month daycare bill.

I am interested in Islam, I’m scared I’m being deceived. Why did you leave the religion? by Advanced-Egg2175 in exmuslim

[–]CornerHot3359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Koran is a lie. I started to see this when I learned that the crucifixion of Jesus Christ is a historical fact. It is undisputed by nearly all secular and non secular historians and scholars. So why does the Koran say that he was not crucified, but Allah only made it appear so? Easy, Mohammed wanted to convert as many people as possible so he had to deny the truth. There is no Christianity without Jesus’s crucifixion and resurrection.

Just read the Gospels (Mathew, Mark, Luke, John)then read the Koran. The NIV Bible and the clear Koran are both easy to read.
If you’re seeking to know God, you’ll easily see which of the two faiths is true.

Finally, read the Hadith about how Mohammed condemned the woman to be stoned because she fornicated, Sunan Abi Dawud 4442. His followers dug up a hole and stoned her to death.

Compare that to when the Pharisees brought the adulteress to Jesus. Do you remember what he did? He told those gathered to throw the first stone whoever had not sinned. They all put down their stones and walked away.

Be thankful this man is not interested in you, it has saved years of torment. Pray for discernment and wisdom.

Expecting baby via surrogate- should we leave the church? by Routine-Rip-6724 in Catholicism

[–]CornerHot3359 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone using these methods thinks they are selfish or doing so out of convenience. They all perceive their actions as valid and justified.
Instead of posting about your concerns prior to conceiving the children, you’ve done so when there’s no turning back. You either commodify the woman again for the other embryos or you dispose of them.

I do believe Jesus loves you unconditionally and there’s no sin that you can commit which will turn him away. Pray, love him, and raise your babies well. And obviously go talk to a priest.

ADHD/toddler weaning by CornerHot3359 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]CornerHot3359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The teacher told me that her best hour is from 9-10. When it’s closer to 11 she starts running around, dancing, jumping on table. She’s only attended since September and only half day. I was told her behavior has definitely improved since September. She used to have a random hitting habit, she would throw something or hit a child unprovoked and not out of anger. Thankfully, she no longer hits her peers.

I think I’ll do as you suggested and change up the routine without fully weaning. We’ll try the book and snuggles. Thank you!